Marriage is a social trap

Hello,

Marriage is not a social trap but it feels like one when it is rushed into either due to parental pressure or just because you have attained the marriageable age and you are expected to do so. Without the right partner, a marriage can many times seem like a social trap.

Patience is the key here. Wait for the right one to come along and give it some time. Know them, their ideals, their likes-dislikes, their social thoughts and if you feel compatible with each other then go for marriage. Marriage can be a beautiful thing when done at the right time with the right person.

Calling marriage a social trap is a complete disrespect to our traditions & society. Today, marriage only happens with the mutual agreement. You choose your partner. It's a phase where you experience a whole new world. Love, passion, responsibility, a person to depend on. No one feels happy when they are lonely. Loneliness is sad, it's consuming. Having a partner to share all your happiness, your sorrows, your ups & downs is what helps you to get through the tough situations and enjoy this beautiful life. Marriage is one among the most beautiful things of this life as long as you remain committed, loyal & loving.

Hi its dolly, I believe that each of us needs a special a very special person with whom we could share our deepest feelings without any hitch and it's wonderful if the person is always with you. Caring for you, loving you making you feel special and your life wonderful. Its a beautiful bond that completes your life please don't call it a trap. Depends on you how you take it.

According to me, Marriage is very important for society and the country. Marriage is a not social trap it is a mutually decide to spend the while living with the each other. And first of all both boys and girls both a good friend before marriage. After marriage love to each other, that's all thank you, my dear friend.

Marriage is a bond between two soul, to get married is a symbol of love for those who really loves each other. But there are some marriages having no love, they only does compromise then it is called as trap. Marriage is not trap but it become trap when we make it worst by misunderstanding.

During marriage two family are come to the bond. Marriage helps 2 know about our responsibilities towards family and society. If he/she is comfortable with their partner then they should get married. And think positive about your relation rather than just thinking of it as marriage is a social trap.

This is true. If two people want to be together, why do we need it to be legal or illegal? in other words, why involve the government?

Marriage is not the only way to bring two families and two individuals together. Instead making marriage legal always brings unwanted stress and personal responsibilities that may turn to bitterness.

DEFINITELY! I strongly agree marriage is a social trap.

Tell me why do we have to involve government in our personal relationship. If someone really wants to be with someone why do we need a legal stamp on it? Getting legally married only motivates people to cheat their partner if they love them. Wouldnt it be simpler to just leave the one you don't love, only if you weren't legally with them. Some women stay with their so called life partners just because they don't want people to talk bad about it if she leaves. Same goes for a few men too. And and and. If you really love someone you don't need a tag, they'll always be around you if they want to. If not, they'll anyways leave or if leaving seems difficult they'll for sure cheat or live a depressing life. Wish the concept never existed.

We live only once, it is said that human birth is not easy to get. So if you are someone in your 20's you only have more 50 to 60 years of life to live or less than that.

Now compromise, adjustment these terms will take your whole life. If a person wants to be single earn for himself/herself take care of their parents it is a wonderful thought, isn't it?

Old era was different cause today child expenses are a way to much right from birth to education and in some cases their marriages also, it will take lakhs of your hard earn money, which in other cases would be your huge saved bank balance to fulfil all your needs till you die.

If you are getting married thinking that in your old age.

Your children will take care of you then think twice today's generation is busy in there own world (many examples where children have settled abroad and parents are living alone) then what will be the scenario when your kids will grow. Will they have time to look after you. Think about it.

IT SHOULD AFTERALL BE A CHOICE NOT A COMPLETION.

Let's ACCEPT THE FACT THAT LIFE IS NOT A FAIRY TAIL!

Hello Friends,

Sure, Marriage is a social trap that evolved to survive and procreate a more prosperous social structure and economy. The marriage and family system evolved in favour of women and aggressive superior men.

In modern society, most women enjoy their freedom and try to be independent in their early life and enjoy their youthfulness with the aggressive anger of masculine men. While the other men live in their world taught by the social rules that they should build their lives in their youth and settle for stable life to provide for their families.

The wise crooked independent women when they feel that they are no more valuable than their pals give up their independent life and alure the stable guy and trap them in marriage.

Marriage is something which is prevalent from time immemorial not because it is a social trap but a trap which is used to trap the soul of two human beings socially. I really think that it is the best way to live with someone who is very very special to you. Though some restrictions are there but these are also for the welfare of two souls.

Practically it depends upon you that by which angle you look at it, it is you who make it a social trap or trapless, there are many who are living happily and there are many who fights the very first day. So think it, live it and enjoy it for the rest of life.