Marriage is a social trap

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Sam said:   3 days ago
Yes, actually, marriage is a social trap, and in a country like India, it's a business. People are getting married for their image in society. So I think marriage should be banned as cause of marriage not only one but a no of life's are destroyed cause in a hurry People take decision of getting married and this generally don't allow the male and female to understand eachother and they just have kids and fight in front of them and it gets converted into divorce leading to destruction of not only 2 life but the life of their child. So, it's good to stay single and enjoy the company of good friends.

Manu said:   1 month ago
I would say marriage is not a trap if the bride and groom love each other and want to be a part of each life but only until love remains in them after that it could be a trap because they should keep on convincing each other and their families too by giving unnecessary clarity to everyone.

Now in this decade, no one can trap anyone in the name of marriage.
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Vibhu said:   1 month ago
In India, marriage is the most spiritual relationship. We believe that two people (male and female) will be together for the rest of their lives and live happily.

In the old golden days, marriage was considered as the relation of two families that combine to begin a new family, while the current marriage scenario seems to be a social trap. However, every aspect has to different angles the positive and negative so it depends on people how take it it can be taken it in a positive way and negative too. Thank you.
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Pallavi said:   2 months ago
Marriage is our culture in India. Two individuals are bound to be together rest of their lives just to meet the expectations of society & family. If the marriage works it is good but if you don't get well along with your partner it is a trap. Marriage often brings out a sense of responsibility in life.

Instead of staying in an unsuccessful marriage, it's better to be apart from your partner.
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Kareena Kapoor Khan said:   5 months ago
Hello everyone, before we address the topic.

Let's talk about why the marriage concept is still relevant today it is because humans an social animals and in order to not feel lonely they want to have a companion for a long duration to share moments of happiness, sadness etc.

So, if 2 people are happy staying together and doing things together along with having their own identity then marriage is a beautiful thing which can happen to anyone if the same things are not matching and people in it are on different wavelengths then it's a social trap. So it all depends on one's behaviour, mentality, grown-up environment and how each treats each other from different perspectives so the marriage definition changes as per each perspective. According to me, it's not a social trap it's a beautiful thing to happen in each and one's life it can mentally help you grow as a person.
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Millo Moses Chacko said:   9 months ago
Hello everyone.

In my opinion, marriage is a social contract. Because two different people come together through marriage and live forever. Here two different persons (male & female) represent or follow two different attitudes, thoughts and views. It gets acquired from society, family and friends. Each one of them creates a person who behaves in their life. Also, it was a part of society. And it was transferred those things to the next generation of them. Both mutually understand we can stay with each other, and both behave mutually agreeably to their life it reflected in their life. So Marriage is not a social trap. But also I am reminded that everything is two sides. In this case, it is that was included.
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Varsha K said:   1 year ago
My point of view is that marriage is not a trap if the partners know each other and have respect for each other. Marriages become miserable when the partners fail to respect each other's individual space and opinions. Partners sometimes forget to set boundaries in their relationship.

For example, they should find some time for themselves to do things that enrich them as an individual or dedicate some time to their hobbies. Respect the privacy of the partners in a marriage and take time to understand each other. This will make marriages heavenly.
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Sarmistha said:   1 year ago
Hello everyone.

My views and opinion regarding this topic are above average because as a human being the main moto and perspective of life definitely not to get married. It's a person's personal choice.

And marriage is not trapped when both partners are supportive, understanding, and adorable to each other and besides this, the family supports them. Both partners should get independence in their lives and decisions. Keep them happy and maintain a healthy relationship with having some situation handling situations. So we can't say that marriage is 100% a social trap.
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Hari said:   1 year ago
Hello everyone.

My thought regarding this is marriage is definitely a trap for every human being who is not conscious and aware of his real constitutional position, but the man who values motherhood and treats his wife as a part of himself rather than as a remote control or toy for his moods and emotions and vice versa, the living place would become better and most importantly they must also value their spiritual wellness too.
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Anjali Choudhary said:   1 year ago
Marriage is not inherently a social trap; rather, its a success hinges on how partners treat each other. Unbreakable trust, unwavering support, and mutual respect form the cornerstone of a thriving, enduring relationship.

When one partner feels trapped or deprived of respect and assistance, the marriage can indeed become confining.

In many instances, women may find themselves feeling trapped due to various factors. For instance, if a woman works outside the home, but her husband fails to share household responsibilities or participate in child-rearing, she may feel ensnared. Gender-biased presumptions about responsibilities exacerbate this sense of entrapment. Economic constraints might further limit her ability to seek divorce.

In conclusion, equality and respect within a marriage are pivotal. Treating one's partner as an equal ensures that marriage remains a nurturing and fulfilling partnership, rather than a constraining institution. By upholding these principles, the perception of marriage as a trap can be dispelled.
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