Marriage is a social trap

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Sahil Rana said:   2 months ago
Marriage, in my opinion, is not a "social trap" but rather another means to form a "social bond" with various people.

Now, I'd like to emphasise the word bond; we learn about several individuals who are commonly referred to as relatives. It's a technique to broaden one's family and find connections in a new social group.

It is true that sometimes it takes time to adjust, as is the case not only in marriage but in any bond we attempt to form.
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Sahil Rana said:   2 months ago
I don't think marriage is a social trap for all individuals in society. It is for the people who want to achieve something great through work, something they are interested in, but not allowed to due to the pressure of their families or in-laws. Or due to the new responsibilities they are made responsible for.

If we have supportive families who allow us even after being married and help us through daily responsibilities marriage is nothing like a trap.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity.

Sakura said:   2 months ago
Marriage, in my opinion, is not a "social trap" but rather another means to form a "social bond" with various people.

Now, I'd like to emphasise the word bond; we learn about several individuals who are commonly referred to as relatives. It's a technique to broaden one's family and find connections in a new social group.

It is true that sometimes it takes time to adjust, as is the case not only in marriage but in any bond we attempt to form.
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Ananya Singh said:   4 months ago
In my opinion, Marriage is not a trap. Everything has its own pros and cons, it totally depends on how we deal with the situation. Marriage is a bond of love, commitment and accepting each other flaws. Where we can share our fears, insecurities, and achievements without any jealousy. It's just that sometimes we need support and time from our partners for our own growth. One should only be ready for marriage when they are fully prepared to share their life with another person and not under the pressure that families are forcing. It should be their own decision, so that in future if anything happens one should take their own responsibilities.

Even today when people want to live independently they need a caring partner that's why they opt for a living relationship so that before long-term commitment they can ensure that they are ready to share their life with this person. Nowadays Genz opts for flings because they want one person but they don't want commitment or responsibilities, this shows the person's own insecurity. At last, I conclude my word - Marriage shows you are ready for commitment, an adult who is ready to face hard times as well as good times with their partner. So it is definitely marriage is not a trap.
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Ayesha said:   4 months ago
Hi everyone,

I don't think marriage is a social trap for all individuals in society. It is for the people who want to achieve something great through work, something they are interested in, but not allowed to due to the pressure of their families or in-laws. Or due to the new responsibilities they are made responsible for.

If we have supportive families who allow us even after being married and help us through daily responsibilities marriage is nothing like a trap.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity.
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Apoorvkirti said:   6 months ago
Good afternoon to all,

In my opinion, marriage is not a social trap. Marriage is a relation between two persons that are connected with each other with a bond, the bond of TRUST, SACRIFICE. It is sacred bond that is performed by seven steps (SAPTPADI rituals) and every step is very important for the Groom and also for the Bride.
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Nandita Sharma said:   8 months ago
Greetings everyone,

Marriage is an unbreakable bond of trust and love that should never be equated to a trap, as a trap is a boundary within which one is confined and forced to accomplish tasks with multiple terms and conditions.

But, in the case of marriage, it totally depends on the partners and how they make the best out of it. And yes without any doubt it's true that society would keep an eye on and put undue pressure on the weds to narrate a story of an orthodox companionship and role-plays from both spouses.

Considering this they must provide an answer to that with a reflection of a relationship that gives a lot of optimism in each other's life and becomes a shoulder of rest and advice to one another rather than just being a tag to fit into societal norms.

That's all from my side, it's my view on the topic.

Thank you for listening.
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Depor Honal said:   11 months ago
Hello Friends,

Sure, Marriage is a social trap that evolved to survive and procreate a more prosperous social structure and economy. The marriage and family system evolved in favour of women and aggressive superior men.

In modern society, most women enjoy their freedom and try to be independent in their early life and enjoy their youthfulness with the aggressive anger of masculine men. While the other men live in their world taught by the social rules that they should build their lives in their youth and settle for stable life to provide for their families.

The wise crooked independent women when they feel that they are no more valuable than their pals give up their independent life and alure the stable guy and trap them in marriage.
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Manish verma said:   1 year ago
Hello friends,

Marriage is a bonding between male and female, in my opinion, I would like to say that marriage is not a trap, it's a good relationship, everybody needs somebody and hence we all get married. If we talk about a girl who has done arranged marriage without her choice and her husband is also not good like he smokes, drinks and does bad activities as well then we can think that the girl is trapped as she cannot do anything since it was a arrange marriage and her husband daily drinks and after drinking he beats her and the girl can't leave him and cannot go anywhere else. In this context, this marriage is called a social trap.

But on the other hand, if you are marrying with your own choice and love, cares for each other a lot, then both are happy and can spend entire life together then it is not said to be a trap.
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HARSH Choudhury said:   2 years ago
Marriage is a bonding between Man and woman. Marriage means mentality and physical bonding between Man and woman. When a couple gets married they promised and decided to each other in any situation and any problems.

In my point of view, marriage is not a social trap because in a world everyone needs a good partner in our Life so they can express their thoughts and feelings. In my opinion, marriage is an entering world in this world man and woman decided to together each other in any situation. But in some cases, marriage is a social trap. Because in the world, especially India Children don't have any rights to choose their life partner in some rare case they have right to choose their partners. A good example of a social trap is arranged marriage. In this marriage married with an unknown person, so man and woman their whole life together with each other.

In conclusion, everyone has the right to choose their life partner and take their own decisions.

Thanks.
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