Marriage is a social trap

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MUSKAN said:   2 weeks ago
Hello everyone,

Now, before starting, I would like to highlight what marriage is.

Marriage is a pure relationship between two people, a mutual bond sharing among couple.

So, in my opinion, marriage is a trap for so many people, and in this, anyone, either women or men, can feel trapped because, in Indian culture, if we get tied in a knot with someone, we are supposed to make it work; if not working, then that situation also creates a feeling of being trapped.

Women feel trapped because they are supposed to care for family and others more than themselves, and dependency on others will create even more after marriage; responsibility also increases.

For men, their load increases; they get pressure most of the time, and responsibility also increases. Then men also feel trapped; that's why people prefer to get settled before marriage for a slightly smoother life.

If both partners live happily, then marriage is the most beautiful thing in the universe because everyone wants to feel loved and seen by their partner.

Thankyou.

Khushi said:   2 weeks ago
It varies from person to person.

From my perspective, marriage is not a trap its a beautiful bond between two people, but only if you understand and respect each other. Compromise when needed, and you are not forced to make such decisions and do things without your own opinions.

Even you have a partner to share everything you are scared to tell others and see success together, sometimes we just need the motivation and support of that one person to become successful in our life. So everything is good if you choose good partner, whether the marriage is arranged or love.

Marriage is scary only when you choose things under pressure or without your opinion, and also when the dowry or violation comes between you.

For example- What I observe, in 1980, 90s marriage where there are almost arrange marriages with parents or society decisions in which violation and sacrifices came but with the fear of society and parents respect they upholding the traditions which become a big trap.

And also, sometimes marriage becomes a trap if we want too much freedom, even if that is not a good fit for us that results in divorce.

So, in my opinion, it varies from person to person and their relationship and love. No matter whether it's a love or arranged marriage, the only thing that matters here is their own opinions and decisions.

Alekhya said:   2 weeks ago
In my opinion, marriage should not be considered a social trap unless a couple is forced to make decisions or do things without taking their opinions or consent into consideration.

It can also become a social trap when couples are conditioned to follow certain practices or expectations against their own interests simply for the sake of society.

Marriage should be based on mutual respect and understanding between partners.

Both partners should respect each other's decisions, opinions, and interests.

In my opinion, marriage becomes a social trap when individuals lose their freedom to make their own choices and are forced to live according to society's expectations rather than their own wishes.

Mohammad Mumtaz said:   1 month ago
Hello everyone!

I would like to share my thoughts on marriage.

From my perspective, marriage is not a trap; it can be love or an arranged marriage, and it depends on you how you manage your life with your partner. You can also keep yourself away from lots of distractions nowadays in this environment.

Marriage makes you a better man or woman and builds self-confidence inside you.

GURU SAI said:   3 months ago
Marriage is a trap - it's based upon on the individual experience in both personal and social life.

From my perspective, marriage is not a trap. It's the beginning of a new life, irrespective of individuals' behaviour, feelings, and respect for each other.

And also good bond and mingle with each other in any situation of life.

Nowadays, marriages are strained because of behavioural inequality, misunderstandings, and social media interactions, which damage the bond and responsibilities.

Simply being misled by a parent, without any proper communication, leads to a trap.
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Sudha said:   4 months ago
Good morning everyone,

In my perspective, I would say marriage is a social trap for some people and not a trap for some people.

If you got married, you are living a peaceful life with your partner, you can share your love, responsibilities, you can build a good family, you can share your emotions with them, according to your partner's family and society, right?

You got married but unfortunately you can't share your emotions, love, thoughts to your partner, means is that good life you're living? not. Right, so that period of time will lead you to get a divorce, so according to your mindset after marriage, and your partner, society, you can say, it will be a trap or not?
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Manjula sm said:   8 months ago
I would say that marriage isn't a trap, but a fake marriage is a trap. When two people don't know each other well, these kinds of things are the result of such marriages, and because of this, people nowadays feel scared about it. But the things that matter most are understanding, compromise, adjustment, and responsibility. We can speak about the 80's and 90's marriages, which were almost arranged. All the things that I have absorbed in them are the adjustment, and all of them are afraid of the elders, and then life was easy.
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Anomiee said:   9 months ago
Good morning sir.

Marriage is a social trap because nowadays in social media, the news is coming out like the bride who got married recently is putting some case and divorcing and getting money.
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Tanu said:   11 months ago
Good morning everyone.

If you think that marriage is a social trap it's very controversial topic we can save marriage is a trap for some reason and is not tap for some reason every people has their own opinion on this topic but I personally feel like marriage is a beautiful thing that if if you get married with our personal choice it can be turn into lower support and a lifetime lifetime success but if this is if this is done by 4 then it will turn into a trap because marriage is a personal choice and everyone has their own right to choose to get married or not.
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S said:   11 months ago
Hello everyone.

In my perspective, Marriage is a trap for some reason and it also is not a trap. While going with a trap, Most of the time this happens because of arranged marriage, when one of the partners is not interested in it and marries just because of family pressure, friends, and they don't want society to speak out. And actually, these people are the ones who get trapped. One more reason is that before marriage, they didn't ask for a dowry, and after marriage, they ask for a dowry, which creates mental pressure for her.

While going with Marriage is not a trap, Marriage is a beautiful thing in a human's life. They had a chance to share their love, support, caring, and respect towards each other.

Finally, Marriage should be a personal choice.
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