Marriage is a social trap

If you are with the right person, it is not a trap at all. Its a freedom. If you with the wrong person, then it can be a trap. Just remember, "a happy wife is a happy life" Keep your woman happy, gentlemen. Its less important to be "right" than it is to keep peace.

I strongly disagree with marriage being considered as a social trap. Calling it a trap will be disrespect of this pious relationship which is seen with respect around the world. It is only done after mutual agreement between the two male and female. It is done in order to bring stability in life along with harmony. Living life alone is miserable, everyone loves company. And if your companion is your life partner then what is another good thing. It, on the other hand, provide you with more freedom by managing one part of your work and giving you extra time for yourself.

Hi !

I am Rinshu.

I think in this age we can't say that marriage is a social trap. Some year ago it was right because no one had right to choose his/her partner by his/her own choice but now every one can choose partner by own choice.

I think marriage is meeting of two heart, two family not a social trap.

My point of view is that marriage is not a trap if the partners know each other and have respect for each other. Marriages become miserable when the partners fail to respect each other's individual space and opinions. Partners sometimes forget to set boundaries in their relationship.

For example, they should find some time for themselves to do things that enrich them as an individual or dedicate some time to their hobbies. Respect the privacy of the partners in a marriage and take time to understand each other. This will make marriages heavenly.

Marriage is a social trap. This is true because in India women trap men to fulfill their own selfish needs especially for money. Women traps rich class men only for money. Whereas in some parts of India marriage cannot be consider as a social trap because marriage for women is everything for them. Men also are dedicated enough towards their marriage.

According to me I totally agree with this statement that marriage is a social trap.

Because before getting marriage we live our lives according to our thinking and we live freely without having any stress in our minds. We don't have to care about anything and we always being stress free.

But after getting marriage our lives becomes unhappy and we are always in tension of our partner and etc.

According to me sometime, marriage is a social trap, now a days people are getting married just for status, show off. Resulting divorce, mostly it affects the psychology of their descendant badly. Hence, it is polluting the society. Since children are the future of the country, if they get affected, then its affecting the development of the country.

Marriage is one of the biggest social trap. The other biggest social trap is education.

In a country, the most important thing is revenue. With people, government can obtain taxes from its citizens. Humans, especially man, want to carry on their bloodline. Once the man has offsprings, their children will continue to contribute a means of income for the country after they have grown up. In a marriage, the man will bring home money from their jobs. In the midst of bringing up his children, he is helping the government to bring up the future source of citizens and the future source of income in a way. After working so hard in his job and with his money drained by his family, the man will be too tired and penniless to create nuisance in the society.

Most women choose to get married because of love, security of a family, want to have children. After they have borne the man children, they think that their marriage will last forever because the man will stay in a marriage because of the children. Before marriage, the girl could be the apple of her family's eye. After marriage, her life is relegated to hell. In a modern society, like her husband, she may have to work. She has to take care of her children. If her husband's parents are unwell, taking care of them falls on her shoulders too. Cooking and household cores must be taken care of by her too. Not withstanding bearing nasty criticisms from her in-laws' family. If her husband is a mama's boy, her life is worse off. In short, a woman's life is more like that of a slave after marriage. Having a job takes care of her better than being in a marriage. With her life revolving about her family, she will also not create nuisance for the society.

This is the reason why most country disapproves of gay marriages. The government does not want to lose control of the population chart.

Education conformes the people's brain to what the government wants them to do and prepares them to work in the future so that the citizens will bring in revenue for their country. If the government can brainwash them to vote for them, that is the best. They will stay in power and do whatever they want.

Its depend on us in what way we are taking it, if we are going with it as social tradition it will never provide happiness, as we expect from it but when we accept it as mutual relationship it will give us strength to handle all the ups and down so it.

Good day, Marriage is bonding between two hearts. It is not a social trap but for a few it might be a social trap. Marrying the right person is not at all a social trap. Support from partners is must. But for few, it is not recognized. So everyone must be married only at the right age (25). We need some maturity to attain that stage. Marrying at that stage is good, because at that stage we have enough patience, knowledge, experience too. So, we understand our partnered need, We also earn money by our own. So marriage is not a social trap.