Marriage is a social trap

DEFINITELY! I strongly agree marriage is a social trap.

Tell me why do we have to involve government in our personal relationship. If someone really wants to be with someone why do we need a legal stamp on it? Getting legally married only motivates people to cheat their partner if they love them. Wouldnt it be simpler to just leave the one you don't love, only if you weren't legally with them. Some women stay with their so called life partners just because they don't want people to talk bad about it if she leaves. Same goes for a few men too. And and and. If you really love someone you don't need a tag, they'll always be around you if they want to. If not, they'll anyways leave or if leaving seems difficult they'll for sure cheat or live a depressing life. Wish the concept never existed.

Namaskar friends.

There is an ethically talk that marriages are made in heaven, After marriage, two souls, two minds are coordinate with each other. But it is strong enough by building faith, proper understanding, mutually preferable decision, dependable with each other i.e. a relation with supporting to extract the outside stress that may destroy the relation which becomes a trap. So marriage is not a trap but a bond which is generated by the support of family, self and society. It becomes strong when all agree to be do so.

So, in my point of view, marriage is not a trap,

Because marriage is a chariot, then it has two wheels one is husband and other is wife. The relation becomes strong when both have strong by the blessing of elders blessing and blessing of god.

Thanking you.

Hello everyone, A very good evening to all of you.

This is Ajay Kumar, Today my topic is marriage is a social trap.

I think in my point of view, I Am not agree with this statement but it is the misconception of people thinking that marriage is a social trap as we all know that marriage means a meeting of two beautiful souls with each other to live a happy life, but many people think that it is like a prisoner in prison. All person wants to love someone that he/she likes and he/she wants to be loved that they want.

Marriage means a lots that to care, to love, to adjust etc for living a happy life with spouse.

At last, I want to say that it is not a social trap, rather than thinking that we have to spread the love with our soulmates, family and society.

Thank you.

Hello Friends, I agree to all of you.

But I will greatly support to @Ekta who said that Marriage is a bonding between two people, two family, two society, two cultures, which should be handled with care, understanding, trust and love.

According to me, it is the part of management of life. It is great feeling & experience of life which requires understanding & management with partners thinking, their need and also with their past & future.

It helps to youth to become responsible.

If marriage becomes social trap then only the lack of education becomes the reason behind it. Because the criminal cases related to marriage are always founded within the people which are uneducated.

So only because of them, we can not say that marriage is a social trap.

Hello everyone,

I an INDRAJIT SHAW.

Marriage means a mentally bonding between a man and woman. When a couple get married, they are promised together to take care of each together in any condition though the condition is bad or good. So, as my point of view, the bonding that create between them during marriage is always take their in life as a long way with each other.

But, another point of view, I will say that marriage is a big trap when a woman or a man forced to marry by their family members without their permission. So, after marriage one of them or both feel that he/ she is trapped between this relationship, called marriage. So, everyone has right to choice his life partner. If it is being forceful then the marriage is being to a trap for them.

Hello Friends,

Sure, Marriage is a social trap that evolved to survive and procreate a more prosperous social structure and economy. The marriage and family system evolved in favour of women and aggressive superior men.

In modern society, most women enjoy their freedom and try to be independent in their early life and enjoy their youthfulness with the aggressive anger of masculine men. While the other men live in their world taught by the social rules that they should build their lives in their youth and settle for stable life to provide for their families.

The wise crooked independent women when they feel that they are no more valuable than their pals give up their independent life and alure the stable guy and trap them in marriage.

In my opinion the Marriage is not a social trap Marriage is necessary part of society. Dowry is not compulsory to been given as In olden days wealthy people because of love and effection towards their child they used send child with lot of gold orniments and money so that their child be happy at their mother in laws house in that ways people started giving dowry now today dowary has become comp;usory it is effecting the middle and poor class people The only way to control is to educate people marriage is not only bonding between two persons but also whole family In India marriage are given great importants were forieng countries are showing interest towards our marriage system.

Marriage gives us security, faith, trust and happences.

Hello everyone.

In my opinion, marriage is a social contract. Because two different people come together through marriage and live forever. Here two different persons (male & female) represent or follow two different attitudes, thoughts and views. It gets acquired from society, family and friends. Each one of them creates a person who behaves in their life. Also, it was a part of society. And it was transferred those things to the next generation of them. Both mutually understand we can stay with each other, and both behave mutually agreeably to their life it reflected in their life. So Marriage is not a social trap. But also I am reminded that everything is two sides. In this case, it is that was included.

Everything in this world has merits and demerits,

De-merits:

1) In most cases, Marriage is not a social trap, Its self-trap (Self-Decision).

2) Sometimes you feel like you miss your freedom.

3) Weekend parties with friends will not exist.

4) Before Marriage Life=Work Pressure, After Marriage Life=Work Pressure+Partner Pressure.

Merits:

1) There is a Saying that " Problems will Reduce by sharing" so we can share our problems with our partner.

2) Responsibilities will Increase, so Business people can experience dealing a different kind of situations.

3) Our mental Stress can also be removed by some activities. We can also get them without marriage, but they are not much safer.

Thanks.

Chandrasekhar.

Yes I do think that marriage is a social trap. I do feel this because I have seen the people.

Those don't like each other and they are living together for the sack of marriage. I not pessimistic about marriage, I my self a part of big family but what I do feel that most are people living together just for their children and marriage.

They don't really love to each other and they are living with each other for the years, it's ugly to be someone as a husband as a wife if you don't love him or her, for example if you have to be with your classmate for the 5 days with whom you don't like to share your time, it will be just a hell and according to me lot of people are in that hell just because of marriage.