Marriage is a social trap

Hello everyone.

In my opinion, marriage is a social contract. Because two different people come together through marriage and live forever. Here two different persons (male & female) represent or follow two different attitudes, thoughts and views. It gets acquired from society, family and friends. Each one of them creates a person who behaves in their life. Also, it was a part of society. And it was transferred those things to the next generation of them. Both mutually understand we can stay with each other, and both behave mutually agreeably to their life it reflected in their life. So Marriage is not a social trap. But also I am reminded that everything is two sides. In this case, it is that was included.

Everything in this world has merits and demerits,

De-merits:

1) In most cases, Marriage is not a social trap, Its self-trap (Self-Decision).

2) Sometimes you feel like you miss your freedom.

3) Weekend parties with friends will not exist.

4) Before Marriage Life=Work Pressure, After Marriage Life=Work Pressure+Partner Pressure.

Merits:

1) There is a Saying that " Problems will Reduce by sharing" so we can share our problems with our partner.

2) Responsibilities will Increase, so Business people can experience dealing a different kind of situations.

3) Our mental Stress can also be removed by some activities. We can also get them without marriage, but they are not much safer.

Thanks.

Chandrasekhar.

Yes I do think that marriage is a social trap. I do feel this because I have seen the people.

Those don't like each other and they are living together for the sack of marriage. I not pessimistic about marriage, I my self a part of big family but what I do feel that most are people living together just for their children and marriage.

They don't really love to each other and they are living with each other for the years, it's ugly to be someone as a husband as a wife if you don't love him or her, for example if you have to be with your classmate for the 5 days with whom you don't like to share your time, it will be just a hell and according to me lot of people are in that hell just because of marriage.

In my opinion, marriage should not be considered a social trap unless a couple is forced to make decisions or do things without taking their opinions or consent into consideration.

It can also become a social trap when couples are conditioned to follow certain practices or expectations against their own interests simply for the sake of society.

Marriage should be based on mutual respect and understanding between partners.

Both partners should respect each other's decisions, opinions, and interests.

In my opinion, marriage becomes a social trap when individuals lose their freedom to make their own choices and are forced to live according to society's expectations rather than their own wishes.

Hello everyone,

As per my point of view, Marriage is not social strap, because a happy life required only one thing that is called satisfaction. And about marriage this is the relation of purity which will be maintained with understanding, some respect and sharing caring with love-ones.

Yes, it is also true that this relation some time got destructed with some misunderstanding. But real value or worth of relation, depends how effectively you choose to settle it down.

The imagination of people which lead happy and boring or trap life & the same will be having different means for everyone. This could be overpower with satisfaction. The real worth of life depends on it.

Jai Bharat.

Good morning everyone,

In my perspective, I would say marriage is a social trap for some people and not a trap for some people.

If you got married, you are living a peaceful life with your partner, you can share your love, responsibilities, you can build a good family, you can share your emotions with them, according to your partner's family and society, right?

You got married but unfortunately you can't share your emotions, love, thoughts to your partner, means is that good life you're living? not. Right, so that period of time will lead you to get a divorce, so according to your mindset after marriage, and your partner, society, you can say, it will be a trap or not?

Yes, I am agreed with @Rocky as he said that we are treasure of our family. We are today because our parents got married. It's not matter if they have disturbance for taking some reasons for a moment but after sometime it gets become settle. Our parents be happy by seeing us because they got us after marriage.

After marriage we share our problems, emotions, difficulties, trouble and future responsibilities. If we don't marriage, we cannot get anything. But, partner should be true. If your partner is not loyal, you will get ruined.

The people imagine this as a curse and it is if your partner is disloyal. In my opinion we should marriage after choosing a true partner.

Hi,

According to me Marriage is not a social trap because it is a wonderful relation between two persons which lasts forever. It depends on the understanding power of the two persons and how they can adjust themselves in difficult situations.

But, nowadays many people do marriages for the sake of money etc and this is causing misunderstanding between the two persons and later divorces are happening due to it because they are not trying to understand each other they are only feeling great than the other person so this problem is coming.

So, if both person is understand equally this problem will not come and both of them can understand each other's feelings also.

I think marriage will be a social trap if partners are towards each other. Otherwise things change when the partners feel that they must abide by some social rules as has been maintained by their elders.

If the partners want their marriage to be a personal affair then social etiquette need not be maintained and things would not turn out to be a social trap. Many would scorn at them. But they are stand up for each other and are strong themselves. So all social scorns turns into mere dust.

However if the partners feel that they must take their marriage to that social level then things really change and that results into social trap for both the partners.

I would like to share my opinion on this topic. I feel marriage can sometimes act like a trap. Especially in arranged marriage, where couples don't know each other well and may not even want to marry, but family and society pressure them to go ahead. This makes marriage feel more like an obligation than a personal choice. On the other hand, in love marriage, the couple choose each other based on understanding and compatibility, but even then, family opinion and societal expectations can create pressure. So while marriage feels like a trap, good communication, respect, and personal choice can make it a happy and successful relationship.