Marriage is a social trap

Yes I do think that marriage is a social trap. I do feel this because I have seen the people.

Those don't like each other and they are living together for the sack of marriage. I not pessimistic about marriage, I my self a part of big family but what I do feel that most are people living together just for their children and marriage.

They don't really love to each other and they are living with each other for the years, it's ugly to be someone as a husband as a wife if you don't love him or her, for example if you have to be with your classmate for the 5 days with whom you don't like to share your time, it will be just a hell and according to me lot of people are in that hell just because of marriage.

Hello everyone,

As per my point of view, Marriage is not social strap, because a happy life required only one thing that is called satisfaction. And about marriage this is the relation of purity which will be maintained with understanding, some respect and sharing caring with love-ones.

Yes, it is also true that this relation some time got destructed with some misunderstanding. But real value or worth of relation, depends how effectively you choose to settle it down.

The imagination of people which lead happy and boring or trap life & the same will be having different means for everyone. This could be overpower with satisfaction. The real worth of life depends on it.

Jai Bharat.

Yes, I am agreed with @Rocky as he said that we are treasure of our family. We are today because our parents got married. It's not matter if they have disturbance for taking some reasons for a moment but after sometime it gets become settle. Our parents be happy by seeing us because they got us after marriage.

After marriage we share our problems, emotions, difficulties, trouble and future responsibilities. If we don't marriage, we cannot get anything. But, partner should be true. If your partner is not loyal, you will get ruined.

The people imagine this as a curse and it is if your partner is disloyal. In my opinion we should marriage after choosing a true partner.

Hi,

According to me Marriage is not a social trap because it is a wonderful relation between two persons which lasts forever. It depends on the understanding power of the two persons and how they can adjust themselves in difficult situations.

But, nowadays many people do marriages for the sake of money etc and this is causing misunderstanding between the two persons and later divorces are happening due to it because they are not trying to understand each other they are only feeling great than the other person so this problem is coming.

So, if both person is understand equally this problem will not come and both of them can understand each other's feelings also.

I think marriage will be a social trap if partners are towards each other. Otherwise things change when the partners feel that they must abide by some social rules as has been maintained by their elders.

If the partners want their marriage to be a personal affair then social etiquette need not be maintained and things would not turn out to be a social trap. Many would scorn at them. But they are stand up for each other and are strong themselves. So all social scorns turns into mere dust.

However if the partners feel that they must take their marriage to that social level then things really change and that results into social trap for both the partners.

I would like to share my opinion on this topic. I feel marriage can sometimes act like a trap. Especially in arranged marriage, where couples don't know each other well and may not even want to marry, but family and society pressure them to go ahead. This makes marriage feel more like an obligation than a personal choice. On the other hand, in love marriage, the couple choose each other based on understanding and compatibility, but even then, family opinion and societal expectations can create pressure. So while marriage feels like a trap, good communication, respect, and personal choice can make it a happy and successful relationship.

Hi everyone, Myself Abi.

Yeah, in my perspective marriage is not a social trap, where everything belongs to the individual, marriage is not only the bond of love and trust but also it is where letting people to do whatever they need. In some families, they were treating women not as the same way they treated a man.

So, everything evolves under equality interfering in the independence of an individual. When society has a predefined equality of giving a high standard for men in a family and propagating that women should follow their traits, yeah it may not be applicable for many families but it prevails the most.

Thank you everyone.

In my point of view, marriage depends on individual opinion. Everyone has an identical thought some of them think that marriage is a social trap just because they want their life to live as single with no responsibility and enjoy their life as her/his own way. Marriage is not a trap when the two of ppl has a mutual understanding to live with love and care thus creates person to more responsibility in a society. When the person is not get married the society will sea the person as either they think person doses do not have the attire to get married or the person is ignorant. Marriage only gives respect to the individual in a society.

Marriage is a bonding between two people, two family, two society, two cultures, which should be handled with care, understanding, trust and love. Failing to which may become a trap for them. Two people (family) always there for each other, in good as well as in bad situation, handling all the pros and cons of life. But like every coin has two sides, it may have two sides either.

If the partners are caring, understanding, have trust, love each other, have trust, then its a perfect bonding.

But when it is affected by dowry, money, status, cheating, fraud, misunderstanding, ego, wrong attitude, selfishness. It becomes a trap.

Calling marriage a social trap is a complete disrespect to our traditions & society. Today, marriage only happens with the mutual agreement. You choose your partner. It's a phase where you experience a whole new world. Love, passion, responsibility, a person to depend on. No one feels happy when they are lonely. Loneliness is sad, it's consuming. Having a partner to share all your happiness, your sorrows, your ups & downs is what helps you to get through the tough situations and enjoy this beautiful life. Marriage is one among the most beautiful things of this life as long as you remain committed, loyal & loving.