Marriage is a social trap
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Patrick said:
10 years ago
In order to talk about marriage, people use to talk about marriage is that a marriage is like a sweet who takes would repent who does not take also repent, my point of view it's not a trap, getting a marriage is the best way to reduce your hardships.
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Smitarani sahoo said:
6 months ago
In my opinion, marriage is not a social trap. If both individuals truly like and respect each other, then marriage is a lifetime package of happiness for them.
Marriage is a mutual partnership, no one can be trapped in the name of marriage.
Marriage is a mutual partnership, no one can be trapped in the name of marriage.
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Manu said:
1 decade ago
Hello friends.
Marriage is not a trap. Some marriage will suffer because their not be understand each other. Every life partner will help to partner. In Indian culture women must want partner for the entire life. Every relations is beautiful. When life is like a friendship.
Marriage is not a trap. Some marriage will suffer because their not be understand each other. Every life partner will help to partner. In Indian culture women must want partner for the entire life. Every relations is beautiful. When life is like a friendship.
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Pallabi Majumdar said:
1 decade ago
Hi friends,
In my point of view Marriage is not a social trap, nowadays before marriage parents give their children a prior chance to choose their life partners. All of us need a soulmate in our life with whom we can share our thoughts. We can not live our life all alone. After marriage people really feel that. Yeah its really true someone is there for me.
In my point of view Marriage is not a social trap, nowadays before marriage parents give their children a prior chance to choose their life partners. All of us need a soulmate in our life with whom we can share our thoughts. We can not live our life all alone. After marriage people really feel that. Yeah its really true someone is there for me.
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Bhupendra sharma said:
1 decade ago
Marriage is not a social trap, it made by us as a trap we prefer that woman should operate on man's command. She also have feelings, pride and self respect. People oppose dowry but they take it, frankly dowry is like gum which stick on our hair and never gonna removed so forget about this. But both the partner should care each other, believe in each other but also take care about giving some space to breath to get touch with himself or herself.
Woman also take care of her husband my practical experience said that now days girl work under her own mothers command and try to separate man from things which he love (its my practical experience what I am seeing right now) so girl need to understand the feeling of men and same thing apply for man. Marriage is pious bond not be based on compromise, if you live your life with love its become best thing. Woman is not slave she can do anything what she wanted and husband should support this if its right.
Woman also take care of her husband my practical experience said that now days girl work under her own mothers command and try to separate man from things which he love (its my practical experience what I am seeing right now) so girl need to understand the feeling of men and same thing apply for man. Marriage is pious bond not be based on compromise, if you live your life with love its become best thing. Woman is not slave she can do anything what she wanted and husband should support this if its right.
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Srinath Krishnan said:
1 decade ago
Hello guys,
I think marriage is not a social trap. It is actually the most important part of every human being. Some religious book suggest that life of a person will not be fulfilled until he/she gives birth. So for obvious reasons marriage is a vital. It all depends on the level of understanding between the couples.
I think marriage is not a social trap. It is actually the most important part of every human being. Some religious book suggest that life of a person will not be fulfilled until he/she gives birth. So for obvious reasons marriage is a vital. It all depends on the level of understanding between the couples.
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Barkha manral said:
8 years ago
Hi friends.
What actually social trap we are considering here? We all might be judging it according to our opinions and in the same way in my opinion, this trap making depends on individual might some called it as trap might for some it is a beautiful phase of life.
In the human society, every relationship will bound you so it depends on you whether you want to get in that trap or feel soulful with that ones.
What actually social trap we are considering here? We all might be judging it according to our opinions and in the same way in my opinion, this trap making depends on individual might some called it as trap might for some it is a beautiful phase of life.
In the human society, every relationship will bound you so it depends on you whether you want to get in that trap or feel soulful with that ones.
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Amirtha said:
4 months ago
Yes, marriage is a trap, but only when it comes to arranged marriage.
When the time comes both the female and male species are asked together only when the time of ritual where he or she may have different ideology on life but may not have time or private space where they can discuss in the sense only both the grooms nd brides parents come together and talk about their missed out ideology and if it supports they procced but they never willing to know or try to get to knom on how their child feels nd what are their expectations all they see is the boys parent look whether the girl got enough education, her background, caste, religion, and how much she tries to respect her in laws and about her willingness to work for that family, even how much dowry she can bring with her. Etc.
When it comes to the boys side the girls' parents look at the groom's appearance, salary, education, siblings, their background, how much they are spending on things, their own house and also they gotta check their job security.
So there is no point, or there is nothing discussed which needs to be. The parents actually shouldn't be involved in this.
Both the boy and girl need to discuss the expenditure they going make, and how they are gonna survive, about their job, sharing their salary, etc.
But in the name of marriage, I'll say the Indian parents wanna show their wealth or something that isn't visible. The only actual visible thing which is in front of them is their kids. But they are just avoiding the fact that the kids are grown into an full adult. Nd they got the knowledge of choosing their partner wisely.
When the time comes both the female and male species are asked together only when the time of ritual where he or she may have different ideology on life but may not have time or private space where they can discuss in the sense only both the grooms nd brides parents come together and talk about their missed out ideology and if it supports they procced but they never willing to know or try to get to knom on how their child feels nd what are their expectations all they see is the boys parent look whether the girl got enough education, her background, caste, religion, and how much she tries to respect her in laws and about her willingness to work for that family, even how much dowry she can bring with her. Etc.
When it comes to the boys side the girls' parents look at the groom's appearance, salary, education, siblings, their background, how much they are spending on things, their own house and also they gotta check their job security.
So there is no point, or there is nothing discussed which needs to be. The parents actually shouldn't be involved in this.
Both the boy and girl need to discuss the expenditure they going make, and how they are gonna survive, about their job, sharing their salary, etc.
But in the name of marriage, I'll say the Indian parents wanna show their wealth or something that isn't visible. The only actual visible thing which is in front of them is their kids. But they are just avoiding the fact that the kids are grown into an full adult. Nd they got the knowledge of choosing their partner wisely.
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Guptha said:
1 decade ago
Hello friends in my words marriage is not at all trap it is going to build a relationship between two persons like men women. This is giving some hope on life and full life safety and love. But I can say by this marriage system people can know about their future responsibilities and also the parents feelings because of before marriage we are not at all caring about our parents words then once we get marry then start thinking on our mind about their parents struggle for giving this all this at free of cost. Finally I conclude marriage is not a trap its responsibility what we have to face in future life.
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Happy said:
9 years ago
I don't think so. Because of the marriage, one get a better half who could help in different and problematic situations like a friend. He or she will be more enthusiastically activated in his or her work because of the support of both his law's family and also his or her own family. Although one feel safe and pursue their wishes and hobbies every after the marriage with better half happily.
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