Marriage is a social trap

In my opinion, marriage is not a social trap. If both individuals truly like and respect each other, then marriage is a lifetime package of happiness for them.

Marriage is a mutual partnership, no one can be trapped in the name of marriage.

Yes, marriage is a trap, but only when it comes to arranged marriage.

When the time comes both the female and male species are asked together only when the time of ritual where he or she may have different ideology on life but may not have time or private space where they can discuss in the sense only both the grooms nd brides parents come together and talk about their missed out ideology and if it supports they procced but they never willing to know or try to get to knom on how their child feels nd what are their expectations all they see is the boys parent look whether the girl got enough education, her background, caste, religion, and how much she tries to respect her in laws and about her willingness to work for that family, even how much dowry she can bring with her. Etc.

When it comes to the boys side the girls' parents look at the groom's appearance, salary, education, siblings, their background, how much they are spending on things, their own house and also they gotta check their job security.

So there is no point, or there is nothing discussed which needs to be. The parents actually shouldn't be involved in this.

Both the boy and girl need to discuss the expenditure they going make, and how they are gonna survive, about their job, sharing their salary, etc.

But in the name of marriage, I'll say the Indian parents wanna show their wealth or something that isn't visible. The only actual visible thing which is in front of them is their kids. But they are just avoiding the fact that the kids are grown into an full adult. Nd they got the knowledge of choosing their partner wisely.

No marriage is not a social trap but it is the requirement of the society. It is helping our society to make stable. If there will be nothing like marriage then society will become unstable which will be very dangerous for every one.

Marriage only a best way to generation to generation. And also our ancestor after long years of experience got its a best option and that way we adopt these tradition.

And we know that if we don't have these thing in our society then what side effect our socity will be. Marriage is only for security of of society not a social trap.

In today's context if we talk about marriage. Then it has to be like a mutual contract between two fellows. (husband and wife). And maturity level of not only that husband and wife but also of their families and their maturity matters. Especially when the issues of "Dowry" arises in a society.

Hello everyone.

I could not understand why people living in India which is rich in its culture and traditions blame marriage as a trap. Marriage plays a very important role in every individuals life. Due to the impact of movies and other social abuses like dowry youth might have corrupted and giving least importance to marriages. Both the youth and their parents should realize that girls and boys are equal in all aspects and should keep full stop to this dowry system so that we can save our traditions and make one's life beautiful.

Marriage acts not only as a social bond between two people but also between their families. It makes the individual responsible towards their family and also towards their society. It shows the importance of relationships which is vanishing in the present society. Better half gives full life of success.

According to my view, Marriage is not a social trap because it makes any person's life happy by making some new relations to the other family. It brings love, responsibilities and care in one's life. To spend whole of the life alone, without life-partner is very tough and scary. And also as we belong to Indian culture, Marriage is one of the most important cultural process which should happen once in everyone's life. Its a part of the life.

Marriage is not a social trap rather It is a beautiful relationship between two souls, two families. No one is self-sufficient unless he/she becomes saint and leaves the social life. One needs support from his partner many times in life, no one else can give it. So it's a unique relationship. Some deepest feeling and emotions can be shared only with a partner, not even with parents.

It's a good part of it that it abide by law. I think it is necessary to abide by law. Otherwise more we'll have more cases of divorce. One takes responsibility to be with his/her partner in every ups downs of life in presence of family. If any does fraud that he/she can be penalized by laws.

Human is a social animal, until he lives socially he needs to have partner who remains with her lifelong, emotionally, physically, spiritually.

I think marriage is not a bad thing. Because parents can't be with you all the time. So we need someone to support us. Living alone is not safe especially for women in our society. Marriage brings some responsibility towards family and also society.

Life is a trip. It will be more enjoyable if you are blessed with a sincere partner. Find that partner and enjoy each moment in your life. Because value of relationships can't be measured by an instrument.

Hi,

According to me Marriage is not a social trap because it is a wonderful relation between two persons which lasts forever. It depends on the understanding power of the two persons and how they can adjust themselves in difficult situations.

But, nowadays many people do marriages for the sake of money etc and this is causing misunderstanding between the two persons and later divorces are happening due to it because they are not trying to understand each other they are only feeling great than the other person so this problem is coming.

So, if both person is understand equally this problem will not come and both of them can understand each other's feelings also.

Yes, I am agreed with @Rocky as he said that we are treasure of our family. We are today because our parents got married. It's not matter if they have disturbance for taking some reasons for a moment but after sometime it gets become settle. Our parents be happy by seeing us because they got us after marriage.

After marriage we share our problems, emotions, difficulties, trouble and future responsibilities. If we don't marriage, we cannot get anything. But, partner should be true. If your partner is not loyal, you will get ruined.

The people imagine this as a curse and it is if your partner is disloyal. In my opinion we should marriage after choosing a true partner.