Marriage is a social trap

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Swati priya said:   1 decade ago
According to my view, Marriage is not a social trap because it makes any person's life happy by making some new relations to the other family. It brings love, responsibilities and care in one's life. To spend whole of the life alone, without life-partner is very tough and scary. And also as we belong to Indian culture, Marriage is one of the most important cultural process which should happen once in everyone's life. Its a part of the life.
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BINDU said:   1 decade ago
Hello everyone,

In my point of view, no one thinks that marriage is a social trap. As we all know that there is a saying that "MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN". In reality, marriage is a personal commitment, relationship and bonding between two people. But of course, it is the responsibility of a woman to build her family in such a way that she makes that family in a unique way and it is also the responsibility of a man who takes his family to a stage from where it looks like an ideal one throughout the society. SO, I THINK THAT MARRIAGE MAKES OUR LIFE MEMORABLE AND BEAUTIFUL IF NO ONE FORCES TO ONE'S INTEREST.
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Saket said:   1 decade ago
According to me sometime, marriage is a social trap, now a days people are getting married just for status, show off. Resulting divorce, mostly it affects the psychology of their descendant badly. Hence, it is polluting the society. Since children are the future of the country, if they get affected, then its affecting the development of the country.
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Nikisha said:   1 decade ago
According to my point of view marriage is not a social trap we can say that it is just like salt. We can feel the absence of salt but can't feel the presents of salt. We need a life partner when we want to share our feelings, happiness, ideas, thinking etc. It is not bonding of just two person only but it is bonding of the two family, two cast, two different culture. In the world each and every person think that someone will become in their life and to hold his/her hand forever and some one make feels that how they are special for his/her and also making their life beautiful.
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B.Monika keerthi said:   1 decade ago
Hai buddies!

As far as I am concerned, marriage is a most beautiful, fragile and precious bond that a person ever come across in his/her lifetime. This journey is totally rely in belief. It is the basic ingredient for the successful life. For example, I made a dish, I feel it as mouthwatering dish and tasted it. Here I have three cases.

1. If all the ingredients, masalastuff, food color, its aroma everything mix up in equal proportions, then I say it as delicious dish.

2. If at least one went wrong, I can adjust it somehow by managing.

3. If none of them mix, then I can't taste, I get raged over me for making such a dirty dish.

So this example reflects marriage life-it's all depends on the couple who involved in the bond.

1. If they understand each other, shares their unpleasantly besides ecstatic moments, care for each other. All these make them a lovely pair, most adorable parents to their kids.

2. If at least one case fails, they have to overcome it by spending some time for each other in their busy schedule. They should not let burdens to settle on their happiness.

3. If mutual understanding is not there, it leads to initially anger, then fight, at last world war.

So should not let the marriage a "trap" rather a "tray" with full of love, affection, believing each other, adjustable to situation and finally.

DON'T LET THE EGO TO STAY IN YOUR HEARTS AND JUST LET 'E' TO 'GO'.
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Manish kumar said:   1 decade ago
According to me I totally agree with this statement that marriage is a social trap.

Because before getting marriage we live our lives according to our thinking and we live freely without having any stress in our minds. We don't have to care about anything and we always being stress free.

But after getting marriage our lives becomes unhappy and we are always in tension of our partner and etc.
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Pallabi Majumdar said:   1 decade ago
Hi friends,

In my point of view Marriage is not a social trap, nowadays before marriage parents give their children a prior chance to choose their life partners. All of us need a soulmate in our life with whom we can share our thoughts. We can not live our life all alone. After marriage people really feel that. Yeah its really true someone is there for me.
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Rojalin said:   1 decade ago
On my point of view marriage is not a social trap because its the bond created by the two souls, family. Rather on its a bond between the two persons for lifelong, whether they know each other before or not, but after marriage they live happily ever after.

If the marriage is arranged by the family then also its good as the two unknown person will slowly know each other but the main thing is that they should have good understanding power.
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Guptha said:   1 decade ago
Hello friends in my words marriage is not at all trap it is going to build a relationship between two persons like men women. This is giving some hope on life and full life safety and love. But I can say by this marriage system people can know about their future responsibilities and also the parents feelings because of before marriage we are not at all caring about our parents words then once we get marry then start thinking on our mind about their parents struggle for giving this all this at free of cost. Finally I conclude marriage is not a trap its responsibility what we have to face in future life.
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Sandipan Nandi said:   1 decade ago
Hi all,

Marriage is a holy custom in India. We should marry at some point in time in our life to make our life circle a complete one. But sometimes we see that people think that after their marriage they will be puppets in the hands of their wife and vice-versa. But it depends on the mentality of your partner whether you will be able to spent your life freely or not. Very often we can see that after marriage the life gets changed and we become more responsible.

If we have a good understanding then nothing can trap us not even the society. And if you talk about privacy then a good husband must not disturb the privacy of his wife and that creates a good mental bonding. On the other hand also an ideal wife will also not try to destroy his husband's privacy. So we must not say that marriage is a social trap. If somehow you are trapped after your marriage then it is your individual problem not the problem of this holy institution called "Marriage".
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