Marriage is a social trap

Hai buddies!

As far as I am concerned, marriage is a most beautiful, fragile and precious bond that a person ever come across in his/her lifetime. This journey is totally rely in belief. It is the basic ingredient for the successful life. For example, I made a dish, I feel it as mouthwatering dish and tasted it. Here I have three cases.

1. If all the ingredients, masalastuff, food color, its aroma everything mix up in equal proportions, then I say it as delicious dish.

2. If at least one went wrong, I can adjust it somehow by managing.

3. If none of them mix, then I can't taste, I get raged over me for making such a dirty dish.

So this example reflects marriage life-it's all depends on the couple who involved in the bond.

1. If they understand each other, shares their unpleasantly besides ecstatic moments, care for each other. All these make them a lovely pair, most adorable parents to their kids.

2. If at least one case fails, they have to overcome it by spending some time for each other in their busy schedule. They should not let burdens to settle on their happiness.

3. If mutual understanding is not there, it leads to initially anger, then fight, at last world war.

So should not let the marriage a "trap" rather a "tray" with full of love, affection, believing each other, adjustable to situation and finally.

DON'T LET THE EGO TO STAY IN YOUR HEARTS AND JUST LET 'E' TO 'GO'.

According to me I totally agree with this statement that marriage is a social trap.

Because before getting marriage we live our lives according to our thinking and we live freely without having any stress in our minds. We don't have to care about anything and we always being stress free.

But after getting marriage our lives becomes unhappy and we are always in tension of our partner and etc.

Hi friends,

In my point of view Marriage is not a social trap, nowadays before marriage parents give their children a prior chance to choose their life partners. All of us need a soulmate in our life with whom we can share our thoughts. We can not live our life all alone. After marriage people really feel that. Yeah its really true someone is there for me.

On my point of view marriage is not a social trap because its the bond created by the two souls, family. Rather on its a bond between the two persons for lifelong, whether they know each other before or not, but after marriage they live happily ever after.

If the marriage is arranged by the family then also its good as the two unknown person will slowly know each other but the main thing is that they should have good understanding power.

Hello friends in my words marriage is not at all trap it is going to build a relationship between two persons like men women. This is giving some hope on life and full life safety and love. But I can say by this marriage system people can know about their future responsibilities and also the parents feelings because of before marriage we are not at all caring about our parents words then once we get marry then start thinking on our mind about their parents struggle for giving this all this at free of cost. Finally I conclude marriage is not a trap its responsibility what we have to face in future life.

Hi all,

Marriage is a holy custom in India. We should marry at some point in time in our life to make our life circle a complete one. But sometimes we see that people think that after their marriage they will be puppets in the hands of their wife and vice-versa. But it depends on the mentality of your partner whether you will be able to spent your life freely or not. Very often we can see that after marriage the life gets changed and we become more responsible.

If we have a good understanding then nothing can trap us not even the society. And if you talk about privacy then a good husband must not disturb the privacy of his wife and that creates a good mental bonding. On the other hand also an ideal wife will also not try to destroy his husband's privacy. So we must not say that marriage is a social trap. If somehow you are trapped after your marriage then it is your individual problem not the problem of this holy institution called "Marriage".

Hello everyone.

I could not understand why people living in India which is rich in its culture and traditions blame marriage as a trap. Marriage plays a very important role in every individuals life. Due to the impact of movies and other social abuses like dowry youth might have corrupted and giving least importance to marriages. Both the youth and their parents should realize that girls and boys are equal in all aspects and should keep full stop to this dowry system so that we can save our traditions and make one's life beautiful.

Marriage acts not only as a social bond between two people but also between their families. It makes the individual responsible towards their family and also towards their society. It shows the importance of relationships which is vanishing in the present society. Better half gives full life of success.

Hi friends,

I am Hamri. As a Indian Woman I feel marriage is a social trap for both Bride and Bride groom. Nowadays, technology is developing in a dramatic way. ! Technology is drastically developed in our country. People are changed their living habits are ld also changed No One can believe that India would reach such a position in he world. But Our tradition is not changed at all. People in India, still HAve a good in culture, tradition etc.

Hi its dolly, I believe that each of us needs a special a very special person with whom we could share our deepest feelings without any hitch and it's wonderful if the person is always with you. Caring for you, loving you making you feel special and your life wonderful. Its a beautiful bond that completes your life please don't call it a trap. Depends on you how you take it.

When Love is unconditional then only it will leads for the two souls to bond together for a life time. In game of life everything has got some rules to play. If we those rules of society or our cultures ; life will be smooth. If you disobey and set your own rules then you need to undergo some suffering it can be just for initial days or lasts for life time also. Consequences cannot be predicted.

The meaning of marriage is different for different class of people in society. Current generation has become sick and girls parents giving priority to.

1) Physical appearance.
2) Monthly salary.
3) Assets the man is holding.

Does this man that a person with all this qualities only should get married ? then I don't think the actual concept of marriage is satisfied.

A guy will prefer girl only if.

1) She looks fair and beautiful.
2) Gives more dowry and basic gold ornaments or assets.

The pathetic situation is the more people are educated more they are expecting.

Friends I request, Those who are going to get married for both guys and girls. Please try to understand what marriage is. Dont try to do business or do shopping.

Good marriages will stabilize the societies. This is major difference between developed countries and India.

In India we are able to see our forefathers or grand grand parents because of this system. I don't say don't give or take dowry, but expect only some has the capacity to give and don't squeeze poor or middle class people.

Middle class people should start revolutionary change by taking oath that guys will not take dowry from poor or middle class families. If some rich families like your profile nothing wrong in they offering you.

Thanks and Regards.