Marriage is a social trap

No. Marriage is not social trap:

1. The persons entering into the relationship are bind physically and emotionally thus routing the couple to establish a spiritual relationship, which outweighs the physical relationship. An emotional wavelength of individuals has to be altered, to sustain the relationship which sprouts and spreads sporadic joy forever in their life.

2. The feeling of being binded with a person makes another feel strong that he has a soul mate, with which he can share everything. Sense of belonging inspires the individual to perform their obligations in social and professional areas.

3. Rituals and customs establish public relations with friends and relatives that keep an individual strong psychologically.

4. On health perspective, having only one committed partner will keep a person away from the contagious diseases communicated through physical contact.

5. The marriages are thought for the sake of life because of which the divorce rate is as low as 1.1% and it assures the compensation like dowry and ensures the social, astrological compatibility of the couple and make sure that the bond is going to attain permanency. Indian marriages especially have such a great combination of individual and social bonds.

Yes it is social trap:

1. Certainly marriage is a social trap which a family expects their children to fall in which depletes the total individualistic features by sweeping out the personal freedom.

2. A man is a man first, and then he is a social being. In fact there exists as difference between a person and himself, as there exists the difference between a person to the other person. So how can one simply get into a relationship for which no one can guarantee how the feelings, situation change in the future, which may seek high mortal freedom.

3. Apart from this, there exists domestic violence, dowry system, caste, religion, color and height matching, individual differences which leads to personal dissatisfaction that decompresses personal freedom and kills the valuable life time inspiring to psychological disorders and gets humiliated by the partner, which gives an opinion that marriage makes a man disrupt.

Hello guys,

I think marriage is not a social trap. It is actually the most important part of every human being. Some religious book suggest that life of a person will not be fulfilled until he/she gives birth. So for obvious reasons marriage is a vital. It all depends on the level of understanding between the couples.

Hello,

Marriage is not a social trap but it feels like one when it is rushed into either due to parental pressure or just because you have attained the marriageable age and you are expected to do so. Without the right partner, a marriage can many times seem like a social trap.

Patience is the key here. Wait for the right one to come along and give it some time. Know them, their ideals, their likes-dislikes, their social thoughts and if you feel compatible with each other then go for marriage. Marriage can be a beautiful thing when done at the right time with the right person.

Hello everyone,

As per my point of view, Marriage is not social strap, because a happy life required only one thing that is called satisfaction. And about marriage this is the relation of purity which will be maintained with understanding, some respect and sharing caring with love-ones.

Yes, it is also true that this relation some time got destructed with some misunderstanding. But real value or worth of relation, depends how effectively you choose to settle it down.

The imagination of people which lead happy and boring or trap life & the same will be having different means for everyone. This could be overpower with satisfaction. The real worth of life depends on it.

Jai Bharat.

Hi,

According to me Marriage is not a social trap because it is a wonderful relation between two persons which lasts forever. It depends on the understanding power of the two persons and how they can adjust themselves in difficult situations.

But, nowadays many people do marriages for the sake of money etc and this is causing misunderstanding between the two persons and later divorces are happening due to it because they are not trying to understand each other they are only feeling great than the other person so this problem is coming.

So, if both person is understand equally this problem will not come and both of them can understand each other's feelings also.

Yes I do think that marriage is a social trap. I do feel this because I have seen the people.

Those don't like each other and they are living together for the sack of marriage. I not pessimistic about marriage, I my self a part of big family but what I do feel that most are people living together just for their children and marriage.

They don't really love to each other and they are living with each other for the years, it's ugly to be someone as a husband as a wife if you don't love him or her, for example if you have to be with your classmate for the 5 days with whom you don't like to share your time, it will be just a hell and according to me lot of people are in that hell just because of marriage.

Marriage cannot be a social trap only if people can understand the real meaning of marriage. It is one of the beautiful relationship in which to people become everything to each other.

It depends on Wed individuals how they deal with different difficult situations in their relation life could me more beautiful if both have equal respect for each other and consider each other equally important in life's decision. It's we who makes easy things complicated.

I think marriage is not a bad thing. Because parents can't be with you all the time. So we need someone to support us. Living alone is not safe especially for women in our society. Marriage brings some responsibility towards family and also society.

Life is a trip. It will be more enjoyable if you are blessed with a sincere partner. Find that partner and enjoy each moment in your life. Because value of relationships can't be measured by an instrument.

Marriage is not a social trap, it made by us as a trap we prefer that woman should operate on man's command. She also have feelings, pride and self respect. People oppose dowry but they take it, frankly dowry is like gum which stick on our hair and never gonna removed so forget about this. But both the partner should care each other, believe in each other but also take care about giving some space to breath to get touch with himself or herself.

Woman also take care of her husband my practical experience said that now days girl work under her own mothers command and try to separate man from things which he love (its my practical experience what I am seeing right now) so girl need to understand the feeling of men and same thing apply for man. Marriage is pious bond not be based on compromise, if you live your life with love its become best thing. Woman is not slave she can do anything what she wanted and husband should support this if its right.

Yes I'm agree marriage is a social trap, its my personal experience because of marriage my career stopped I was a successful engineer in an MNC and before marriage everything was discussed that I will not quite my job in any condition but now these people get changed in forced me to quite my job emotionally and sometimes forcefully. And now there is no hope even my hubby too resigned for gov exams preparation and still his preparation is going on.

What should I do?