Marriage is a social trap

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Sarmistha said:   3 years ago
Hello everyone.

My views and opinion regarding this topic are above average because as a human being the main moto and perspective of life definitely not to get married. It's a person's personal choice.

And marriage is not trapped when both partners are supportive, understanding, and adorable to each other and besides this, the family supports them. Both partners should get independence in their lives and decisions. Keep them happy and maintain a healthy relationship with having some situation handling situations. So we can't say that marriage is 100% a social trap.
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Sonu said:   1 decade ago
Hi friends.

I would like to tell about marriage life, then we will decide yet marriage is a social trap or not?

Every person wants to marry for sharing their feelings and problems. But sometimes peoples like only dowries, money etc.

Before marriage, we have freedom from parents, but after marriage, we do not have freedom to do anything. Because it affects our family life only if it is good or bad things.

In my point of view, if you are adjusting to your partner yet you will 100% success aid in your marriage life.

Let tell me, tell me marriage is a social trap?
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Kumar052 said:   1 decade ago
No marriage is not a social trap but it is the requirement of the society. It is helping our society to make stable. If there will be nothing like marriage then society will become unstable which will be very dangerous for every one.

Marriage only a best way to generation to generation. And also our ancestor after long years of experience got its a best option and that way we adopt these tradition.

And we know that if we don't have these thing in our society then what side effect our socity will be. Marriage is only for security of of society not a social trap.
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Tanu said:   11 months ago
Good morning everyone.

If you think that marriage is a social trap it's very controversial topic we can save marriage is a trap for some reason and is not tap for some reason every people has their own opinion on this topic but I personally feel like marriage is a beautiful thing that if if you get married with our personal choice it can be turn into lower support and a lifetime lifetime success but if this is if this is done by 4 then it will turn into a trap because marriage is a personal choice and everyone has their own right to choose to get married or not.
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ADITYA KUMAR said:   1 decade ago
Its ADITYA,

Initially I was not a believer of love, true love is the complete attachment of two soul, I don't understand how people can live without marrying whom they love, I will request to every one please feel the essence of love, if not yet loved wait for real love, and only marry whom you love, no doubt you will be be happy. One thing should not be forgotten that where there is no miner quarrels the relation is not moved by heart it's by mind, so don't bother of that, BE A TRUE LOVER, YOUR BASE OF LOVE SHOULD NOT BE PHYSICAL, IT SHOULD BE EMOTIONAL.
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Debanka said:   1 decade ago
Marriage is not a social trap because everyone is fond of a partner for life. Its very hard to spend life without a partner but there are certain cases it seems to be social trap girls of our society especially are targeted to get married even they have not achieved puberty. Especially our elders they have the vision to get there family daughters to marry as soon as possible I agree marriage is a pure relationship.

But we should not target innocent souls to be in a circle of such big responsibilities as marriage when they don't know what it is all about.
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Khushbu said:   1 decade ago
According to me Marriage is a binding and bonding more of love, trust and commitments towards each other less than stress, frustration and screwing up from the partners. There are many examples where marriage can become a social trap and life can become not less than hell but that also depends on a couple who are married as they should have the sense of understanding, faith, loyalty, trust, love and responsibility and even value and adore each other. But if any of them is not happy with each other or doesn't want to marry then it can become a social trap.
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Sandeep said:   10 years ago
Hello, friends. In my opinion, marriage is a trap. Because after marriage your life totally changes, there are a number of things which you have to do which you NVR wanted to do. If we talk abut a boy, his life just becomes like a bridge because he always hangs b/w the parents and his wife. If we talk about the girl, her life also becomes like the fake world she is having two parents but no one treats her like a real daughter. But in short, I just wanna to say it's our society only which making this relation i.e. marriage as a trap for both boy and girl.
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NIDHI SINGH said:   9 years ago
According to my point of view, marriage is not a social trap. It fully depends on us to whom we want to marry or not. In today generation everyone is independent about their choices so one can pressurise them to marry that particular girl. It's our decision if marriage is not going in a right path then it's better to leave without thinking about the society because we suffer in that marriage, not the society. Marriage is not a social trap for the modern society but in some places, there are different custom and traditions regarding to the marriage.
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Vishal said:   1 decade ago
Marriage is the biggest social trap which ironically people themselves get into out of stupidity. Marriage is not compulsory, its just a choice being choosen by people who trust law more than love. God created genders and the priests created marriage. Also the amount of useless expenses thay incur in showing of their marriage just shows their sick mind. How can your spendng money on wedding day gonna help the days after marriage? Thats why its said "If marriages are made in heaven then whats made in hell? The answer is the days after marriage" :-)
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