Marriage is a social trap

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Chhabi said:   9 years ago
Marriage can't be termed as a trap. No one can be dragged into any kind of relationship without his or her consent. If you really don't want to get married, stand for it. Let there be peer pressure! The reality is that most of the single men or women enter into a loveless marriage either for fat dowry or some other kind of benefit. Marriage is very important for every man and woman as you need someone of your own to understand, to love and to be loved. For every relationship you need to work hard to make it permanent. Without a life partner life will be charmless, directionless, lonely and depressed.
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Ravi Vedwan said:   1 decade ago
Marriage is something which is prevalent from time immemorial not because it is a social trap but a trap which is used to trap the soul of two human beings socially. I really think that it is the best way to live with someone who is very very special to you. Though some restrictions are there but these are also for the welfare of two souls.

Practically it depends upon you that by which angle you look at it, it is you who make it a social trap or trapless, there are many who are living happily and there are many who fights the very first day. So think it, live it and enjoy it for the rest of life.
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Sam said:   2 years ago
Yes, actually, marriage is a social trap, and in a country like India, it's a business. People are getting married for their image in society. So I think marriage should be banned as cause of marriage not only one but a no of life's are destroyed cause in a hurry People take decision of getting married and this generally don't allow the male and female to understand eachother and they just have kids and fight in front of them and it gets converted into divorce leading to destruction of not only 2 life but the life of their child. So, it's good to stay single and enjoy the company of good friends.
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Preet said:   1 decade ago
Marriage is a bond between two soul, to get married is a symbol of love for those who really loves each other. But there are some marriages having no love, they only does compromise then it is called as trap. Marriage is not trap but it become trap when we make it worst by misunderstanding.

During marriage two family are come to the bond. Marriage helps 2 know about our responsibilities towards family and society. If he/she is comfortable with their partner then they should get married. And think positive about your relation rather than just thinking of it as marriage is a social trap.
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RAGUL said:   1 year ago
You’ve expressed your idea clearly, but let’s polish the sentence structure, spelling, and flow to make it stronger and easier to understand. Here’s a corrected and improved version of your statement.

Hello, everyone, we are discussing whether marriage is a social trap. In my perspective, Marriage is a bond between two people. When we enter into it, it teaches us responsibility, forgiveness, loyalty, and decision-making. All these qualities can be learned through marriage. Marriage is a personal choice. If two people agree to share their lives, how can it be called a social trap?
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Tarun said:   1 decade ago
Hello,

Marriage is not a social trap but it feels like one when it is rushed into either due to parental pressure or just because you have attained the marriageable age and you are expected to do so. Without the right partner, a marriage can many times seem like a social trap.

Patience is the key here. Wait for the right one to come along and give it some time. Know them, their ideals, their likes-dislikes, their social thoughts and if you feel compatible with each other then go for marriage. Marriage can be a beautiful thing when done at the right time with the right person.
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Nikisha said:   1 decade ago
According to my point of view marriage is not a social trap we can say that it is just like salt. We can feel the absence of salt but can't feel the presents of salt. We need a life partner when we want to share our feelings, happiness, ideas, thinking etc. It is not bonding of just two person only but it is bonding of the two family, two cast, two different culture. In the world each and every person think that someone will become in their life and to hold his/her hand forever and some one make feels that how they are special for his/her and also making their life beautiful.
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GURU SAI said:   4 months ago
Marriage is a trap - it's based upon on the individual experience in both personal and social life.

From my perspective, marriage is not a trap. It's the beginning of a new life, irrespective of individuals' behaviour, feelings, and respect for each other.

And also good bond and mingle with each other in any situation of life.

Nowadays, marriages are strained because of behavioural inequality, misunderstandings, and social media interactions, which damage the bond and responsibilities.

Simply being misled by a parent, without any proper communication, leads to a trap.
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Deepak said:   1 decade ago
Marriage cannot be said as a social trap.

One has to marry to have a partner in their happiness as well as sorrows, to share success and failures. There is a huge difference between a house and a home, we all have heard that House becomes Home when a family settles in it.

We should remember that Even Adam wasn't sent alone Eve was also send by god. So All Adam's have their Eve, it's not a social trap, it only depends on after marriage how it works which gives the feeling of a trap if it's not successful.

Marriage is a law of nature, which cannot be judged as a trap.
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Vikas bharti said:   1 decade ago
I strongly disagree with marriage being considered as a social trap. Calling it a trap will be disrespect of this pious relationship which is seen with respect around the world. It is only done after mutual agreement between the two male and female. It is done in order to bring stability in life along with harmony. Living life alone is miserable, everyone loves company. And if your companion is your life partner then what is another good thing. It, on the other hand, provide you with more freedom by managing one part of your work and giving you extra time for yourself.
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