Marriage is a social trap

Marriage is one of the biggest social trap. The other biggest social trap is education.

In a country, the most important thing is revenue. With people, government can obtain taxes from its citizens. Humans, especially man, want to carry on their bloodline. Once the man has offsprings, their children will continue to contribute a means of income for the country after they have grown up. In a marriage, the man will bring home money from their jobs. In the midst of bringing up his children, he is helping the government to bring up the future source of citizens and the future source of income in a way. After working so hard in his job and with his money drained by his family, the man will be too tired and penniless to create nuisance in the society.

Most women choose to get married because of love, security of a family, want to have children. After they have borne the man children, they think that their marriage will last forever because the man will stay in a marriage because of the children. Before marriage, the girl could be the apple of her family's eye. After marriage, her life is relegated to hell. In a modern society, like her husband, she may have to work. She has to take care of her children. If her husband's parents are unwell, taking care of them falls on her shoulders too. Cooking and household cores must be taken care of by her too. Not withstanding bearing nasty criticisms from her in-laws' family. If her husband is a mama's boy, her life is worse off. In short, a woman's life is more like that of a slave after marriage. Having a job takes care of her better than being in a marriage. With her life revolving about her family, she will also not create nuisance for the society.

This is the reason why most country disapproves of gay marriages. The government does not want to lose control of the population chart.

Education conformes the people's brain to what the government wants them to do and prepares them to work in the future so that the citizens will bring in revenue for their country. If the government can brainwash them to vote for them, that is the best. They will stay in power and do whatever they want.

We live only once, it is said that human birth is not easy to get. So if you are someone in your 20's you only have more 50 to 60 years of life to live or less than that.

Now compromise, adjustment these terms will take your whole life. If a person wants to be single earn for himself/herself take care of their parents it is a wonderful thought, isn't it?

Old era was different cause today child expenses are a way to much right from birth to education and in some cases their marriages also, it will take lakhs of your hard earn money, which in other cases would be your huge saved bank balance to fulfil all your needs till you die.

If you are getting married thinking that in your old age.

Your children will take care of you then think twice today's generation is busy in there own world (many examples where children have settled abroad and parents are living alone) then what will be the scenario when your kids will grow. Will they have time to look after you. Think about it.

IT SHOULD AFTERALL BE A CHOICE NOT A COMPLETION.

Let's ACCEPT THE FACT THAT LIFE IS NOT A FAIRY TAIL!

In my point of view, marriage depends on individual opinion. Everyone has an identical thought some of them think that marriage is a social trap just because they want their life to live as single with no responsibility and enjoy their life as her/his own way. Marriage is not a trap when the two of ppl has a mutual understanding to live with love and care thus creates person to more responsibility in a society. When the person is not get married the society will sea the person as either they think person doses do not have the attire to get married or the person is ignorant. Marriage only gives respect to the individual in a society.

Good day, Marriage is bonding between two hearts. It is not a social trap but for a few it might be a social trap. Marrying the right person is not at all a social trap. Support from partners is must. But for few, it is not recognized. So everyone must be married only at the right age (25). We need some maturity to attain that stage. Marrying at that stage is good, because at that stage we have enough patience, knowledge, experience too. So, we understand our partnered need, We also earn money by our own. So marriage is not a social trap.

Hi friends.

What actually social trap we are considering here? We all might be judging it according to our opinions and in the same way in my opinion, this trap making depends on individual might some called it as trap might for some it is a beautiful phase of life.

In the human society, every relationship will bound you so it depends on you whether you want to get in that trap or feel soulful with that ones.

Late Marriage vs Arrange Marriage.

Hello, friends According to me, arrange Marriage is the best.

The Girls, when get married at the age group of 15-17 can have enough time to learn different households. Their mother in laws should cooperate in their regard and let her have the room of learning different households like cooking and cleaning freely and don't input an extra burden onto her shoulder. In the same way, Boys can have enough time to become successful in their career. The would not need to earn a livelihood at their early age because their father is already earning enough to run the families.

Getting married early lets a boy or girl enjoy the chance to understand the partner in a better way. Of course, both of them would have more time to know the habits of each other and develop a better understanding of a return.

The life of teen couples remains full of excitement the activeness, thus they can definitely have better chances to know each other and adopt the habits accordingly this gives rise to the highest level of cooperation in their successful married relationship.

DEFINITELY! I strongly agree marriage is a social trap.

Tell me why do we have to involve government in our personal relationship. If someone really wants to be with someone why do we need a legal stamp on it? Getting legally married only motivates people to cheat their partner if they love them. Wouldnt it be simpler to just leave the one you don't love, only if you weren't legally with them. Some women stay with their so called life partners just because they don't want people to talk bad about it if she leaves. Same goes for a few men too. And and and. If you really love someone you don't need a tag, they'll always be around you if they want to. If not, they'll anyways leave or if leaving seems difficult they'll for sure cheat or live a depressing life. Wish the concept never existed.

Marriage can't be termed as a trap. No one can be dragged into any kind of relationship without his or her consent. If you really don't want to get married, stand for it. Let there be peer pressure! The reality is that most of the single men or women enter into a loveless marriage either for fat dowry or some other kind of benefit. Marriage is very important for every man and woman as you need someone of your own to understand, to love and to be loved. For every relationship you need to work hard to make it permanent. Without a life partner life will be charmless, directionless, lonely and depressed.

Marriage is a bonding between husband and wife. It is based on affection trust etc. Married life helps in old days as our chidren take care of US.

I think marriage is not a social trap as everyone wants to have some children who care a lot for his parent and to do so the person has to fulfil the needs of his family. Marriage creates a man responsible and teaches the love for his wife and children. No one can spend his life with loneliness everyone wants some enjoyment in his life to think so that the person live his life a lot. So marriage is not a trap it is just depend on how responsible is he aboit marriage.