Marriage is a social trap

Communication is the key. It's hard for the man of the modern world to be clam, acceptive, patient and venerable at the same time before other individuals and especially if one of the participants is shy and introverted at emotions. Thus being all in all in the commitment and communicating to the partner rightly and repeatedly about everything may be good or the affecting side makes it a comfort zone rather a Trap!

In my opinion, marriage means "a journey of life with two souls". Everyone in this world wants to love and to be loved. So, marriage means entering into a beautiful world if two beautiful souls happily decided to be with each other in the rest of their life. Marriage means two souls having the ability to have patience and to contribute equally to make it a great life.

Marriage brings lots of qualities to a person to share, to care, to adjust, to love and to have patience.

So, according to me, marriage is not a social trap, it's up to you. It's completely up to you that you want to marry or not in your life.

We can't say that marriage is a social trap marriage is depands on persons and depands on our behavior. Marriage is not only bonding between two persons it also bonding between two family which should be handle by love, care and mutual understanding.

This is true. If two people want to be together, why do we need it to be legal or illegal? in other words, why involve the government?

Marriage is not the only way to bring two families and two individuals together. Instead making marriage legal always brings unwanted stress and personal responsibilities that may turn to bitterness.

According to me, Marriage is very important for society and the country. Marriage is a not social trap it is a mutually decide to spend the while living with the each other. And first of all both boys and girls both a good friend before marriage. After marriage love to each other, that's all thank you, my dear friend.

In my opinion, marriage is a social trap. In other word marriage is a beautiful thing that two person become as one with their holy soul. However it has many responsibilities to do which might not suitable for both at one time to do it, so they have to do it in order to make themselves happy and to be with each other.

Hi! my name is Srushti Nawade and according to me, marriage is a social trap.

Because, In the country like India, we don't have right to take our own decisions. The decisions are taken by our parents or relatives.

In an arranged marriage, we can not know the other person, how he/she will be in just a few days.

Every person must have right to take his/her decision because marriage is not a temporary thing. The people have to stay together for their next whole life.

So, my conclusion is every person must be given right to choose their partner.

Hi !

I am Rinshu.

I think in this age we can't say that marriage is a social trap. Some year ago it was right because no one had right to choose his/her partner by his/her own choice but now every one can choose partner by own choice.

I think marriage is meeting of two heart, two family not a social trap.

There are some points according to Indian scenario.

1. The marriage is not a trap because we choose to go in a relation.
Definitely not in a country like India where approx 80% marriages are arranged. People have very short time know each other but only for formality. Marriage is already decided by Others.

2. What about if you are in love with anyone and your family is against that.
Yes, It's the story of many people here. Then they try to marry you aka trap you with another.

3. How many people get chance to choose their partners according to their taste or how many get enough time to wait until they find their right one. VERY FEW.

4. Marriage is a bond of 'two families' regardless the happiness of 'two souls'. Its a social contract in the names like Holy. Sacred.

5. What about the future of the girls who are not educated well or not get chance and then married by families in the hope of rest life spending with her husband 'safely'. Then if they are divorced or widowed how a girl will survive. What guarantees that she will remain respectful in that home where she was sent as a bride to be safe.

Neither she is educated neither she is independent neither she has any right as a bride too after becoming a widow or abandoned. I know this is not every one story or God bless not anyone. But its reality that most girls are married without proper education and then they don't get any chance of education after marriage.

Then. In my opinion. Forced or marriage in a hurry is a TRAP. Definitely.

6. It's not necessary that only person chosen by your parents is your soulmate. You have already chosen. Society gets this wrong. because you are not meeting society status. Society forces family. Family forces you. And then You Are Married In A Holy Foundation. Mostly happens this. I will not recite here the Religious stuff here like its holy.

Saying reality according to the present time.

7. Many people have the misunderstanding that marries their daughters will get them a safer life. You Are Wrong. I have an incident here.

A girl was married in the middle of the school. In the hope of good. Safer. Life. Family thinks. But her husband died. In our rich and great culture. Dying husband is a wife mistake. So she was also considered bad. She had a son. Nobody is supporting and neither she has enough education to live with respect. What a helpless condition. So before marrying your daughters. Sisters. Please make them educated because marriage can wait but education can not. Thus marriage becomes a trap. Because marriage prevented them from being educated and brings lots of inappropriate customs and superstitions which she can't fight alone.

The Real treasure a family at the best can give to their daughters is the Education and independence. Because everyone's life is not a fairy tale. And Marry Is not the end of Anyone's life.

Thanks.

According to my point of view, marriage is not a social trap. It fully depends on us to whom we want to marry or not. In today generation everyone is independent about their choices so one can pressurise them to marry that particular girl. It's our decision if marriage is not going in a right path then it's better to leave without thinking about the society because we suffer in that marriage, not the society. Marriage is not a social trap for the modern society but in some places, there are different custom and traditions regarding to the marriage.