Marriage is a social trap

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Tanu said:   3 weeks ago
Good morning everyone.

If you think that marriage is a social trap it's very controversial topic we can save marriage is a trap for some reason and is not tap for some reason every people has their own opinion on this topic but I personally feel like marriage is a beautiful thing that if if you get married with our personal choice it can be turn into lower support and a lifetime lifetime success but if this is if this is done by 4 then it will turn into a trap because marriage is a personal choice and everyone has their own right to choose to get married or not.

S said:   1 month ago
Hello everyone.

In my perspective, Marriage is a trap for some reason and it also is not a trap. While going with a trap, Most of the time this happens because of arranged marriage, when one of the partners is not interested in it and marries just because of family pressure, friends, and they don't want society to speak out. And actually, these people are the ones who get trapped. One more reason is that before marriage, they didn't ask for a dowry, and after marriage, they ask for a dowry, which creates mental pressure for her.

While going with Marriage is not a trap, Marriage is a beautiful thing in a human's life. They had a chance to share their love, support, caring, and respect towards each other.

Finally, Marriage should be a personal choice.
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Saurabh said:   1 month ago
It's one of the best way for connecting two person in which they respect, love, care, understand feelings each other.

They both spend their whole life for each other.
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Akriti said:   3 months ago
Marriage is not a trap; rather, you are not fit for it, This means if you are getting married just because of family pressure, then there might be a lack of love, respect towards your partner.

Marriage is just a name to be heard, but it connects two partners emotionally and promises to support each other, love each other and to keep growing in life together despite any hurdles.

So, yes, marriage is not a trap; it is a commitment.
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Anushka Sahu said:   3 months ago
I would like to share my opinion on this topic. I feel marriage can sometimes act like a trap. Especially in arranged marriage, where couples don't know each other well and may not even want to marry, but family and society pressure them to go ahead. This makes marriage feel more like an obligation than a personal choice. On the other hand, in love marriage, the couple choose each other based on understanding and compatibility, but even then, family opinion and societal expectations can create pressure. So while marriage feels like a trap, good communication, respect, and personal choice can make it a happy and successful relationship.
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Amirtha said:   4 months ago
Yes, marriage is a trap, but only when it comes to arranged marriage.

When the time comes both the female and male species are asked together only when the time of ritual where he or she may have different ideology on life but may not have time or private space where they can discuss in the sense only both the grooms nd brides parents come together and talk about their missed out ideology and if it supports they procced but they never willing to know or try to get to knom on how their child feels nd what are their expectations all they see is the boys parent look whether the girl got enough education, her background, caste, religion, and how much she tries to respect her in laws and about her willingness to work for that family, even how much dowry she can bring with her. Etc.

When it comes to the boys side the girls' parents look at the groom's appearance, salary, education, siblings, their background, how much they are spending on things, their own house and also they gotta check their job security.

So there is no point, or there is nothing discussed which needs to be. The parents actually shouldn't be involved in this.

Both the boy and girl need to discuss the expenditure they going make, and how they are gonna survive, about their job, sharing their salary, etc.

But in the name of marriage, I'll say the Indian parents wanna show their wealth or something that isn't visible. The only actual visible thing which is in front of them is their kids. But they are just avoiding the fact that the kids are grown into an full adult. Nd they got the knowledge of choosing their partner wisely.
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XYZ said:   4 months ago
First of all, I say everyone knows marriage is not just a trap it is made when two individuals (male and female) respect, love, and understand emotions. Both are comfortable with each other and have a good relationship. I also know that some marriages make a trap and the life worse. So before deciding on marriage, it is important to know the person to have a successful marriage.

Thank you.
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RAGUL said:   5 months ago
You’ve expressed your idea clearly, but let’s polish the sentence structure, spelling, and flow to make it stronger and easier to understand. Here’s a corrected and improved version of your statement.

Hello, everyone, we are discussing whether marriage is a social trap. In my perspective, Marriage is a bond between two people. When we enter into it, it teaches us responsibility, forgiveness, loyalty, and decision-making. All these qualities can be learned through marriage. Marriage is a personal choice. If two people agree to share their lives, how can it be called a social trap?
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Smitarani sahoo said:   6 months ago
In my opinion, marriage is not a social trap. If both individuals truly like and respect each other, then marriage is a lifetime package of happiness for them.

Marriage is a mutual partnership, no one can be trapped in the name of marriage.
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Aruna J said:   6 months ago
I don't believe marriage is a social trap.

In my opinion, it's a meaningful partnership based on mutual understanding. If both individuals truly respect and understand each other marriage can become a lifelong journey of support and growth.

A life partner is someone who stays with you till the end not because of society's pressure, but because of the bond you share.
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