Marriage is a social trap
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Amirtha said:
3 weeks ago
Yes, marriage is a trap, but only when it comes to arranged marriage.
When the time comes both the female and male species are asked together only when the time of ritual where he or she may have different ideology on life but may not have time or private space where they can discuss in the sense only both the grooms nd brides parents come together and talk about their missed out ideology and if it supports they procced but they never willing to know or try to get to knom on how their child feels nd what are their expectations all they see is the boys parent look whether the girl got enough education, her background, caste, religion, and how much she tries to respect her in laws and about her willingness to work for that family, even how much dowry she can bring with her. Etc.
When it comes to the boys side the girls' parents look at the groom's appearance, salary, education, siblings, their background, how much they are spending on things, their own house and also they gotta check their job security.
So there is no point, or there is nothing discussed which needs to be. The parents actually shouldn't be involved in this.
Both the boy and girl need to discuss the expenditure they going make, and how they are gonna survive, about their job, sharing their salary, etc.
But in the name of marriage, I'll say the Indian parents wanna show their wealth or something that isn't visible. The only actual visible thing which is in front of them is their kids. But they are just avoiding the fact that the kids are grown into an full adult. Nd they got the knowledge of choosing their partner wisely.
When the time comes both the female and male species are asked together only when the time of ritual where he or she may have different ideology on life but may not have time or private space where they can discuss in the sense only both the grooms nd brides parents come together and talk about their missed out ideology and if it supports they procced but they never willing to know or try to get to knom on how their child feels nd what are their expectations all they see is the boys parent look whether the girl got enough education, her background, caste, religion, and how much she tries to respect her in laws and about her willingness to work for that family, even how much dowry she can bring with her. Etc.
When it comes to the boys side the girls' parents look at the groom's appearance, salary, education, siblings, their background, how much they are spending on things, their own house and also they gotta check their job security.
So there is no point, or there is nothing discussed which needs to be. The parents actually shouldn't be involved in this.
Both the boy and girl need to discuss the expenditure they going make, and how they are gonna survive, about their job, sharing their salary, etc.
But in the name of marriage, I'll say the Indian parents wanna show their wealth or something that isn't visible. The only actual visible thing which is in front of them is their kids. But they are just avoiding the fact that the kids are grown into an full adult. Nd they got the knowledge of choosing their partner wisely.
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XYZ said:
1 month ago
First of all, I say everyone knows marriage is not just a trap it is made when two individuals (male and female) respect, love, and understand emotions. Both are comfortable with each other and have a good relationship. I also know that some marriages make a trap and the life worse. So before deciding on marriage, it is important to know the person to have a successful marriage.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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RAGUL said:
2 months ago
You’ve expressed your idea clearly, but let’s polish the sentence structure, spelling, and flow to make it stronger and easier to understand. Here’s a corrected and improved version of your statement.
Hello, everyone, we are discussing whether marriage is a social trap. In my perspective, Marriage is a bond between two people. When we enter into it, it teaches us responsibility, forgiveness, loyalty, and decision-making. All these qualities can be learned through marriage. Marriage is a personal choice. If two people agree to share their lives, how can it be called a social trap?
Hello, everyone, we are discussing whether marriage is a social trap. In my perspective, Marriage is a bond between two people. When we enter into it, it teaches us responsibility, forgiveness, loyalty, and decision-making. All these qualities can be learned through marriage. Marriage is a personal choice. If two people agree to share their lives, how can it be called a social trap?
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Smitarani sahoo said:
3 months ago
In my opinion, marriage is not a social trap. If both individuals truly like and respect each other, then marriage is a lifetime package of happiness for them.
Marriage is a mutual partnership, no one can be trapped in the name of marriage.
Marriage is a mutual partnership, no one can be trapped in the name of marriage.
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Aruna J said:
3 months ago
I don't believe marriage is a social trap.
In my opinion, it's a meaningful partnership based on mutual understanding. If both individuals truly respect and understand each other marriage can become a lifelong journey of support and growth.
A life partner is someone who stays with you till the end not because of society's pressure, but because of the bond you share.
In my opinion, it's a meaningful partnership based on mutual understanding. If both individuals truly respect and understand each other marriage can become a lifelong journey of support and growth.
A life partner is someone who stays with you till the end not because of society's pressure, but because of the bond you share.
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Vullinthala Sandeep said:
5 months ago
Whether marriage is seen as a social trap depends on individual experiences, values, and perspectives.
While some people may view marriage as a source of joy, support, and fulfilment, others may see it as a source of stress, pressure, or constraint.
Ultimately, deciding to get married should be based on personal choices, values, and goals.
While some people may view marriage as a source of joy, support, and fulfilment, others may see it as a source of stress, pressure, or constraint.
Ultimately, deciding to get married should be based on personal choices, values, and goals.
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Nukul said:
5 months ago
In my opinion, marriage is not a social trap. It's a phase of life in which both partners get the opportunity to understand their emotions and behaviour and build a bond of rules and responsibility.
This also shows that they are not trapped by society but connected with the silence of love, which is needed to serve the marriage phase and give the edge to join socially.
This also shows that they are not trapped by society but connected with the silence of love, which is needed to serve the marriage phase and give the edge to join socially.
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Priyu sharma said:
5 months ago
In my opinion, marriage is not a trap, it is a bond between two people who live their lives with each other. If both couples think they are equally important to each other and respect their values in the married life, I think marriage life may be happy. Marriage is not a two-person bond but it's a bond of family also.
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Sam said:
5 months ago
Yes, actually, marriage is a social trap, and in a country like India, it's a business. People are getting married for their image in society. So I think marriage should be banned as cause of marriage not only one but a no of life's are destroyed cause in a hurry People take decision of getting married and this generally don't allow the male and female to understand eachother and they just have kids and fight in front of them and it gets converted into divorce leading to destruction of not only 2 life but the life of their child. So, it's good to stay single and enjoy the company of good friends.
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Manu said:
7 months ago
I would say marriage is not a trap if the bride and groom love each other and want to be a part of each life but only until love remains in them after that it could be a trap because they should keep on convincing each other and their families too by giving unnecessary clarity to everyone.
Now in this decade, no one can trap anyone in the name of marriage.
Now in this decade, no one can trap anyone in the name of marriage.
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