Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Manohar said:
8 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that whey could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.
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Momatha said:
9 years ago
Hi.
So many different views about marriage. I agree that parents are our life. They brought us to this world. They fulfill all our needs. Their unconditional love is very great. When it comes to love between a guy and a girl, they fall in love, understands each other, (both must make sure its not attraction. . But you both are building d foundation for life). Also both must be ready to convince your parents if you really want your pure and true love to continue for lifetime. At times, it so happens that you. Both are so emotionaly. Attached that you jus can't even think of another guy/girl in your life. So at least now you realise its not ATTRACTION but its a deep AFFECTION and BOND.
So be bold too. Convince your parents. Love happens only once. Make that love for your lifetime and your life will be meaningful. Love your parents and also love your LOVE.
So many different views about marriage. I agree that parents are our life. They brought us to this world. They fulfill all our needs. Their unconditional love is very great. When it comes to love between a guy and a girl, they fall in love, understands each other, (both must make sure its not attraction. . But you both are building d foundation for life). Also both must be ready to convince your parents if you really want your pure and true love to continue for lifetime. At times, it so happens that you. Both are so emotionaly. Attached that you jus can't even think of another guy/girl in your life. So at least now you realise its not ATTRACTION but its a deep AFFECTION and BOND.
So be bold too. Convince your parents. Love happens only once. Make that love for your lifetime and your life will be meaningful. Love your parents and also love your LOVE.
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Aditya Sharma said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends.
I am Aditya Sharma, as both marriages are good whether arrange or love, marriage is a word after seeing this we have a smile on our face. According to me love marriage is very nice if partners having good understanding, they know each other qualities, positive, negative all things in this marriage they will not take that much time to understand each other they will enjoy their rest life they full fill their dreams which they have seen before marriage together and they respect their families each other if they love each their family will also cooperate with each other. In arrange marriage there will be hesitation there will be Question mark what is the nature of my partner there are lots of things to do rather than this. Best marriage first you love then say to your parents and then make it like arrange marriage there will be fun. Thanks.
I am Aditya Sharma, as both marriages are good whether arrange or love, marriage is a word after seeing this we have a smile on our face. According to me love marriage is very nice if partners having good understanding, they know each other qualities, positive, negative all things in this marriage they will not take that much time to understand each other they will enjoy their rest life they full fill their dreams which they have seen before marriage together and they respect their families each other if they love each their family will also cooperate with each other. In arrange marriage there will be hesitation there will be Question mark what is the nature of my partner there are lots of things to do rather than this. Best marriage first you love then say to your parents and then make it like arrange marriage there will be fun. Thanks.
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Ashwini Prakash Hanpude said:
2 years ago
Jai hind everyone,
In my opinion, marriage is a sacred bond between two souls. Here we are discussing arrange marriage vs love marriage which is better? Both has own pros and cons.
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because arrange marriage is becoming permission between two family so, All family members are happy and blessed you. Also arrange marriage is a part of our culture.
The divorce ratio is low in arranged marriages as compared to love marriages.
In an arranged marriage, there is a new journey for two souls and their life. Make interesting to know each other, but in a love marriage, both are already known each other so after marriage sometimes life becomes boring and it is a big cause of divorce in a love marriage.
In arranged marriage not only two souls but also two families come together therefore happiness is high.
In my opinion, marriage is a sacred bond between two souls. Here we are discussing arrange marriage vs love marriage which is better? Both has own pros and cons.
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because arrange marriage is becoming permission between two family so, All family members are happy and blessed you. Also arrange marriage is a part of our culture.
The divorce ratio is low in arranged marriages as compared to love marriages.
In an arranged marriage, there is a new journey for two souls and their life. Make interesting to know each other, but in a love marriage, both are already known each other so after marriage sometimes life becomes boring and it is a big cause of divorce in a love marriage.
In arranged marriage not only two souls but also two families come together therefore happiness is high.
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Jitendra baghel said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends, my name is Jitendra Baghel.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
Thank you.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
Thank you.
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Harsha said:
9 years ago
I think Love Marriages are better than Arranged Marriages. I can put many points in favor of love marriages. The main thing is which I want to say that love and affection is very crucial thing to bind any relation and today each and every relation depends on expectations. In these expectations mostly people expect financial security, comfortable living status, and the most important thing is independence in relationship. If I clarify the term "Independence in Relationship" that is a comfortable space in between any relation. In traditional marriage systems it seems that sometimes a person has to confine in the relationship at anyway but If we choose love marriage option then we can understand the person's feelings and his or her expectations towards for upcoming relations before the marriage so it gives more help for choosing the better option.
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Sidh is king said:
4 years ago
Love marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding one other easily and Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. In love marriage either must be done at least a job.
3. Due to some parents do not accept love marriage then they were to depend for food, shelter etc. ,
Arrange marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding each other makes some time. Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. And there is a parent's support for any cause.
3. It also has a condition to do a job to run the family.
Conclusion:
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
But, I am not saying love marriage is bad. We must accept both parents to support them for love. When they accept then love marriage also can be done in arrange marriage.
Here in arrange marriage, all the relatives are blessed to make relationship for about 100 years happy.
1. Understanding one other easily and Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. In love marriage either must be done at least a job.
3. Due to some parents do not accept love marriage then they were to depend for food, shelter etc. ,
Arrange marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding each other makes some time. Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. And there is a parent's support for any cause.
3. It also has a condition to do a job to run the family.
Conclusion:
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
But, I am not saying love marriage is bad. We must accept both parents to support them for love. When they accept then love marriage also can be done in arrange marriage.
Here in arrange marriage, all the relatives are blessed to make relationship for about 100 years happy.
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Sanjay Kumar S said:
3 years ago
Hi all,
I'm Sanjay Kumar,
Arranged marriage. It's like a fresh relationship which is arranged by a family where we get a new person in our life and start a new life the thing is we don't know anything about them in person day by day we get attached and then they love each other it's like a long journey but sometimes everything won't go in a way we like it's also after some months we can't get to a vibe along with them so it's like 50-50 chances to get a good partner.
But in a love arrangement, we get to know our partner already and can live a life which the couples have already dreamed among them to lead a life and both can be supportive of each other and we can get a good marriage life of about 80-90% or even 100%. So, love or arrange marriage. To get a proper good life we need to know each other before getting into marriage. Thank you.
I'm Sanjay Kumar,
Arranged marriage. It's like a fresh relationship which is arranged by a family where we get a new person in our life and start a new life the thing is we don't know anything about them in person day by day we get attached and then they love each other it's like a long journey but sometimes everything won't go in a way we like it's also after some months we can't get to a vibe along with them so it's like 50-50 chances to get a good partner.
But in a love arrangement, we get to know our partner already and can live a life which the couples have already dreamed among them to lead a life and both can be supportive of each other and we can get a good marriage life of about 80-90% or even 100%. So, love or arrange marriage. To get a proper good life we need to know each other before getting into marriage. Thank you.
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Charanchery said:
4 years ago
Love marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding one other easily and Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. In love marriage either must be done at least a job.
3. Due to some parents do not accept love marriage then they were to depend for food, shelter etc.,
Arrange marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding each other makes some time. Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. And there is a parent's support for any cause.
3. It also has a condition to do a job to run the family.
Conclusion:
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
But I am not saying love marriage is bad. We must accept both parents to support them for love. When they accept then love marriage also can be done in arrange marriage.
Here in arrange marriage, all the relatives are blessed to make relationship for about 100 years happy.
1. Understanding one other easily and Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. In love marriage either must be done at least a job.
3. Due to some parents do not accept love marriage then they were to depend for food, shelter etc.,
Arrange marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding each other makes some time. Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. And there is a parent's support for any cause.
3. It also has a condition to do a job to run the family.
Conclusion:
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
But I am not saying love marriage is bad. We must accept both parents to support them for love. When they accept then love marriage also can be done in arrange marriage.
Here in arrange marriage, all the relatives are blessed to make relationship for about 100 years happy.
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VIGNESWARI A said:
9 years ago
Hi guys.
According to me, love marriage is THE BEST. How can you marry an unknown person & live together? Parents prefer a boy or girl by their appearance, education, job, wealth etc. My question is what about the understanding between a boy & the girl who are going to be coupled? The word BETTER HALF best suits for love marriage couples. In most arranged marriage cases couples can be happy but can be better half to each other. There is an important point everyone says as a positive thing in arrange marriage is that after marriage parents can solve the couple's problems but when you seek your parents to solve your misunderstandings rather solving among yourselves then it seems that you are not matured enough to get married. Transformation of true love into marriage is what called HEAVEN.
Hence, I strongly support love marriage.
According to me, love marriage is THE BEST. How can you marry an unknown person & live together? Parents prefer a boy or girl by their appearance, education, job, wealth etc. My question is what about the understanding between a boy & the girl who are going to be coupled? The word BETTER HALF best suits for love marriage couples. In most arranged marriage cases couples can be happy but can be better half to each other. There is an important point everyone says as a positive thing in arrange marriage is that after marriage parents can solve the couple's problems but when you seek your parents to solve your misunderstandings rather solving among yourselves then it seems that you are not matured enough to get married. Transformation of true love into marriage is what called HEAVEN.
Hence, I strongly support love marriage.
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