Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Riya gupta said:   8 years ago
Hello.

As per my views, I think love marriages and arranged marriages both are equally good their is no need to discuss which one is better because it depends on person to person.

If a person and his family are comfortable with love marriage then it is best and if with arrange marriage then it's also OK.

But the main problem arises in our country is that most of the people consider love marriage as a crime. So because of this teenager take the wrong decision which is against the family and society thus because of this crime increases and condition of love marriage is going to bad day after day.

But I hope as we are of growing personality so in upcoming 30-40 years all such type of problems overcome because at that stage most of the people educated and aware of all these things and I wish it all happen as soon as possible.

Thank you.
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Vignesh Murthi said:   8 years ago
Hi guys! Love Or Arrange what would you select? I don't have a idea about that but I know something about those things Just share you here First and best is love. From the Ancient to the modern stories based on love show what love means Is like caring of each other or just made for each other. In My opinion, Love is just talking a person Within you or two souls caring each other and Where the love is born and Another arrange marriage I don't Oppose these too because arrange marriage is Carried by selection of your cared one who I mean is your parents. But when you choose these you may know that specific person only for a short period and another thing is A person who really loves you is an Awsome thing.

But nowadays a confusion rises between term crush and love. So many confusion arises. A true Love is so rare only from a good person.
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Vishu said:   7 years ago
Good evening everyone.

Today's topic is love v/s arrange marriage.

I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good for people according to the situation. First of all, what is marriage?

Marriage the understanding everything between two people who are ready to give support to each other in every situation. Love marriage is that peoples know each other perfectly (likes, dislikes, Behaviour, thinking etc) but in arrange marriage people not know each other.

I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because people can easily understand each other and they don't face any problem to fit in society. While in arrange marriage people cannot easily understand the nature of our partner and not easily adjustable. So I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.

Thank you.
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Akash Raj Verma said:   7 years ago
Hi friends.

According to me, arrange marriage is more beneficial than the love marriage because nowadays both are become a very similar thing whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage etc.

If I would talk about this generation somehow our parents begin to understand our feeling what we really want in future husband/wife, so that is very nice to us.

They finding a people according to us even they allow to meet them and and left some time to understand them, officially they meet numbers of time throughout the day since they know themselves for the first time, till the marriage, eventually they fully understand each other and finally they have fallen in love and got married to each other so far as my thinking its best way to getting arrange marriage despite given pain and hurt (love marriage) to anyone especially parent.
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Rekha said:   6 years ago
In my opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are good. Because it depends on two people mutual understanding. How to treat each other behavior, love, honesty, care. In love marriage, they know each other good hobbies bad hobbies how to treat partner when he angry they know everything before marriage happy, unhappy things how to handle upon our partner.

And in arrange marriage they know after marriage each other they take time to understand each other about partner behavior, care, anger, like, and it depends on similarity and Understanding. In arrange marriage problems come so your parents do compromise about two people. If love marriage comes a problem so couples self solve own problems. According to me both marriage are good marriages all depend on two people thinking Understanding and behavior nothing at all.
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RAHEEM said:   6 years ago
Hi.

I AM Raheem,

Marriage is very important aspects in human life. It is a backbone of a society. It is a beginning stage of a Family. It create a society. So that we should think more and more before we get marry, before we plan to marry. It is not only a partners life but also it is creating an ideal parents and children.

Here we can think about our would how to be. Even if it is love marriage or arranged marriage. The first and important thing should be morale couples. I am not blaming lovers, if they get marry by keeping their moral side before their marriage. But most if the case not. Arranged marriage is so humble and straight path and understanding both families each other peacefully. So the elders and experienced members of family can guide and advise the new couples whether they can sellect suitable partner.
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Ponam said:   9 years ago
People who say LOVE marriages are successful, please check the result of LOVE marriages in western countries USA/UK. Where divorce rate is as high as 80 %.

But for Indian marriage is lifetime commitment. So instead of following western culture follow your own culture.

When you are in LOVE affair, Person will always use his positive side to impress you, you can ask this question to yourself.

So I will prefer ARRANGE marriage over LOVE marriage in some known family because we can know the full background of that person.

In your love affair of 2 years, you can not know person' s background, because 70-80% cases person will pretend, will not show his actual face.

But if you person and his family from 5-10 year, you can think of LOVE marriage.

So I will prefer ARRANGE marriage over LOVE marriage in some known family.
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Shirin jahan said:   8 years ago
In opinion,

Love marriage and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding.

But if I get love marriage I know the partner very much because of we spend too much time together, and easy to know his/her mentality & how can he/she understand, which topic conversation which time is suitable for the starting day of marriage.

But know in this day also love marriage is little wrong in our society.

And arrange marriage is not a bed of roses, we are always listening to this line in our society arrange marriage is most successful than love marriage. But this is not too much true, In Arrange marriage is very difficult to understand a new partner in our life, and manage all that things according to him or his families.

But if both married couples are mutual understanding both marriages are successful in our life.
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Ananda Kumar Routr said:   3 years ago
Hello Everyone.

I'm Ananda Kumar Rout.

In my opinion, there is no doubt that arranged marriage is good for a person because the parents who gave birth to them choose their life partner. There will be a new relationship between two strangers. But from my point of view, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage. Marriage is more important for women than for men Sometimes a girl is forced to marry a person chosen by her parents A girl should have the freedom to choose her life partner with whom she spends her leisure life In a love marriage a person can choose his life partner. They can get to know each other's personal life, secrets, personality, and character which can never happen in a love marriage. Love marriage can able remove the dowry system. Love marriage is the best weapon to destroy caste marriage.
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Alka G said:   8 years ago
Hi, guys.

According to me, Arrange marriage is quite beautiful because two unknown people are involved in this relationship. And both families support this. And help the future husband and wife to understand each other. When these two people come together they start understanding each other very closely and slowly and I think this makes their relationship beautiful. And their interest in their partner slowly increases day by day. And this will make their marriage quite strong as compare to love marriage. Because in love marriage, the both people know each other already and after marriage, they will get bored and lost d feeling and interest in each other. So My point of you Arrange marriage is most beautiful and strong marriage which not only come two people together but also join two families together.
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