Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Vishal Sharma said:
5 years ago
Now I would like to talk about the topic which has been given to me the topic is Love marriage Vs arrange marriage.
My views on this topic is like that love marriage is better than arrange marriage. But it is better only until there is no problem before their parents. Although in love marriage the couple well familiar with each other and it is very helpful in their life. Their thoughts are common if they are lived in close contact for a long time. Yet in love marriage, the advice of parents is most necessary. There is also a loss of love marriage that divorce ratio is found more in love marriage rather than arrange marriage. In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage but the all information of their life partner. Thank you for giving me a chance to express my views in front of you.
My views on this topic is like that love marriage is better than arrange marriage. But it is better only until there is no problem before their parents. Although in love marriage the couple well familiar with each other and it is very helpful in their life. Their thoughts are common if they are lived in close contact for a long time. Yet in love marriage, the advice of parents is most necessary. There is also a loss of love marriage that divorce ratio is found more in love marriage rather than arrange marriage. In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage but the all information of their life partner. Thank you for giving me a chance to express my views in front of you.
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Prashant Singh said:
8 years ago
Hello friends,
My name is Prashant singh. Our topic is about love marriage vs arrange marriage. In my opinion, both situations is right. It is depends on couples and his behavior. I thought that love marriage is a marriage when a girl or boy fall in love and he wants to marry. If his love is believable, he can success in his life. On the other hand, arrange marriage is our society system, it is depend on parents opinion so if any person doesn't fall in love he do arrange marriage and live happy with his life.
If we talk about present situation, most of the boys or girls fall in love and want to live with another. It is only depend on love with each other, believe with each other and respect with each other. So I think both situations is right. It is depend on couple. Thank you for reading me.
My name is Prashant singh. Our topic is about love marriage vs arrange marriage. In my opinion, both situations is right. It is depends on couples and his behavior. I thought that love marriage is a marriage when a girl or boy fall in love and he wants to marry. If his love is believable, he can success in his life. On the other hand, arrange marriage is our society system, it is depend on parents opinion so if any person doesn't fall in love he do arrange marriage and live happy with his life.
If we talk about present situation, most of the boys or girls fall in love and want to live with another. It is only depend on love with each other, believe with each other and respect with each other. So I think both situations is right. It is depend on couple. Thank you for reading me.
(26)
Prateeksha said:
8 years ago
I think whatever the marriage it is whether arranged or love the couples should be the matured ones. They should love each other care 4 each other but at the same time should let their partner have personal space.
If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.
What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.
If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.
What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.
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Kuldeep Gupta said:
8 years ago
Hello Friends,
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.
2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.
At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.
2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.
At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?
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Sajuraj said:
6 years ago
Hi Dears,
In my opinion, about this topic is, I am supporting an arranged marriage. Obviously, we have a right to do love marriage. That is not really a matter. But the thing we should give more priority to our "parents "Because when the time of our birth, The two people long dream came true. That is our Father and Mother. On that occasion, they thought like the whole world is in their hand. From there itself, they would give more care. In every second they would think about you. If you got any small injury, it will break their heart. Like that they will help us to grow up. After when we stand our own leg, we can take the decision to do love marriage. Is that too good? I don't think so. We should give more priority to our parents' opinion. They can find a better life partner for us.
In my opinion, about this topic is, I am supporting an arranged marriage. Obviously, we have a right to do love marriage. That is not really a matter. But the thing we should give more priority to our "parents "Because when the time of our birth, The two people long dream came true. That is our Father and Mother. On that occasion, they thought like the whole world is in their hand. From there itself, they would give more care. In every second they would think about you. If you got any small injury, it will break their heart. Like that they will help us to grow up. After when we stand our own leg, we can take the decision to do love marriage. Is that too good? I don't think so. We should give more priority to our parents' opinion. They can find a better life partner for us.
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Saikumar said:
2 years ago
In my opinion.
It is not the type of marriage one should think but having a good understanding between the couple for everything in their lives can leave them happy throughout their journey.
Love marriage:
It totally depends upon the couple because there will be no support from the girl side and the boy side. So they have to keep a healthy understanding of their problems and things.
In other cases, yes they don't have any support, but they can be happy in their lives with their understanding.
In Arrange Marriage, take the actor's family as an example, where there is a lot of fame, money, and family but at last, they are just divorced because of no proper understanding between them.
So at last in my opinion, everything depends on the understanding between the couple.
Thank you.
It is not the type of marriage one should think but having a good understanding between the couple for everything in their lives can leave them happy throughout their journey.
Love marriage:
It totally depends upon the couple because there will be no support from the girl side and the boy side. So they have to keep a healthy understanding of their problems and things.
In other cases, yes they don't have any support, but they can be happy in their lives with their understanding.
In Arrange Marriage, take the actor's family as an example, where there is a lot of fame, money, and family but at last, they are just divorced because of no proper understanding between them.
So at last in my opinion, everything depends on the understanding between the couple.
Thank you.
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Veer said:
8 years ago
Hi guys, I am Veer.
I think arrange marriage is the best. Because our parents happiness is more important to all. It's a real happiness of our all parents. Our parents well know, which life is suited for our future. Parents happiness is our happiness. So don't hurt our parents. It's Our parents' expectation too. Some parents will accept love marriage. Because of our sons/ daughter happiness. I am not against love marriage. Marriage is not a two heart joining function, It's a two family joining function. Suppose we fall in love don't leave that girl for our parents and that same time doesn't leave our parents for that girl. No one is live without parents blessing. So love our parents.
Last think, love become to arrange marriage with parents support is the best of our lifetime.
I think arrange marriage is the best. Because our parents happiness is more important to all. It's a real happiness of our all parents. Our parents well know, which life is suited for our future. Parents happiness is our happiness. So don't hurt our parents. It's Our parents' expectation too. Some parents will accept love marriage. Because of our sons/ daughter happiness. I am not against love marriage. Marriage is not a two heart joining function, It's a two family joining function. Suppose we fall in love don't leave that girl for our parents and that same time doesn't leave our parents for that girl. No one is live without parents blessing. So love our parents.
Last think, love become to arrange marriage with parents support is the best of our lifetime.
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Rahul sharma said:
8 years ago
Hello friends,
As we are discussing on love or arranged marriage, I prefer love marriage because in love marriage couples are well known about each other. They know about like habits, unlike habits, nature, behavior etc each other. They can spend the perfect time of life than arranged marriage if they know what is the true love? If the parents also agree for love marriage then life is also more wonderful and lovely. And if parents do not agree for love marriage, and you left home for love marriage, then love marriage can create a huge problem in future.
But in an arranged marriage, if parents choose a girl for you then couples are not well known to each other. There can be so many confusions, different mindset, unlike behavior, that can create problem and life can be spoiled.
As we are discussing on love or arranged marriage, I prefer love marriage because in love marriage couples are well known about each other. They know about like habits, unlike habits, nature, behavior etc each other. They can spend the perfect time of life than arranged marriage if they know what is the true love? If the parents also agree for love marriage then life is also more wonderful and lovely. And if parents do not agree for love marriage, and you left home for love marriage, then love marriage can create a huge problem in future.
But in an arranged marriage, if parents choose a girl for you then couples are not well known to each other. There can be so many confusions, different mindset, unlike behavior, that can create problem and life can be spoiled.
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Shudhanshu Gupta said:
2 years ago
Hello everyone.
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
Also, I think the concept of arranged marriage has evolved over time. We are now allowed to know each other before marriage. To be honest you can understand each other in 5 to 6 meetings. I don't know why people prefer the live-in concept, you can know most of the important things about each other if you talk openly in 5 to 6 meetings. I personally think that most love marriages are based on looks (as I have seen with most of my friends who are in love marriages. They themselves admitted that they mostly fall for looks at first. ).
That's why I believe arrange marriage is better than love marriage any day, as it is based on moral values compared to love marriage which is mostly based on looks.
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
Also, I think the concept of arranged marriage has evolved over time. We are now allowed to know each other before marriage. To be honest you can understand each other in 5 to 6 meetings. I don't know why people prefer the live-in concept, you can know most of the important things about each other if you talk openly in 5 to 6 meetings. I personally think that most love marriages are based on looks (as I have seen with most of my friends who are in love marriages. They themselves admitted that they mostly fall for looks at first. ).
That's why I believe arrange marriage is better than love marriage any day, as it is based on moral values compared to love marriage which is mostly based on looks.
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Shivanjali Gupta said:
7 years ago
Hello everyone,
I would say that I support love marriages because we have been taught that marriage is not a game and everyone has to take it seriously. Love marriage allows a person to know their partners in a better way that is likes, dislikes, comfort zones etc. Which can help them in taking their bond to an upper level. Love is the only guardian of every relationship and in arrange marriages love doesn't happens by choice but because their is no other choice. If you say that there can be problems between parents and children because love marriage then let me tell you sir that problems may occur in arrange marriages too. And what matters is that one should have the right to choose their own life partners because one has to spend one's whole life with that person.
I would say that I support love marriages because we have been taught that marriage is not a game and everyone has to take it seriously. Love marriage allows a person to know their partners in a better way that is likes, dislikes, comfort zones etc. Which can help them in taking their bond to an upper level. Love is the only guardian of every relationship and in arrange marriages love doesn't happens by choice but because their is no other choice. If you say that there can be problems between parents and children because love marriage then let me tell you sir that problems may occur in arrange marriages too. And what matters is that one should have the right to choose their own life partners because one has to spend one's whole life with that person.
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