Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

I'll go with love marriage, if we think logically arrange marriage is some kind of nuisance happenning to both sexes involved, my only question is how could you really decide your right companion through rest of your life.

Without even knowing their character or without being obnoxious about their behaviour, or decide them behalf of your parent's wish, it must be you who should decide your partners and more over I think what you get while first sight is some kind of attraction not love. And only through love you get close to someones heart, so that you could get to know each other and whether both their characters are in sink and also to know about their past life and situations they are facing and what the right companion could do to make them happy.

It is not a matter depending on whether it is love or arranged one, but the main thing is to be noted that one cannot maintain their relationship in an equal manner. Because I really felt the pain of love and also I agree with the terms of arranged marriage, but it is not at all a good one to marry an unknown person. It is only based on the thoughts that how we really understand the lovable one of our life. Marriage is a future of our happiness so be patient and choose your partner as your wish and also got married with the permission of your parents otherwise you would be waiting for your favourite life until you got the permission because waiting and patience did not disappointing anyone.

Be confident, you can feel the pleasure of love marriage.

Hi friends.

According to me, love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knows about likes and dislikes of our partner, in this way we can run our life smoothly, but in arrange marriage we don't know about our partners likes and dislikes which creates problems in the life, we are not a product, as a human being we also have the feelings for someone to whom we love, it should be our decision to whom we want to marry, if parents will think about their status in the society, and their name in the society, is they don't know that others will help them in the happiness only but when they are in trouble nobody will stand behind them for their protection. Parents should also respect the feelings of their child.

Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.

So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.

If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.

Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.

In my view, both have different criteria.

Love marriage gives satisfaction to both partners but not to his family because they understand feelings and emotions each other before marriage. If conflicts occur in future they angry for sometime after they try to convince each other and finally get connected each other.

Arranged marriage gives satisfaction to entire family but it needs a time for the couple to understand each other. In the arranged marriage, if they don't like each other then they blame to their parents first and they have to make compromise each other otherwise it leads to a divorce way.

In a rare case, lovers break their relationship.

I give four stars to an arranged marriage and five stars to love marriage.

Thanks.

Hello, friends, my name is Ranjan Gupta and here we are discussed about love marriages versus arrange marriages. In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriages. It's because of the only parents love. That means parents think about who is better for me and also an arrange marriage to focus on this family union. So by these reasons, it is a fact that about 90%Indian still have arranged marriages.

Nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problem. As an example In the Bollywood the famous couple "Malaika Arora - Arbaz Khan", The famous couple who is an actor, director as well as a singer "Farhan Akthar-Adhuna Akthar", Hrithik Roshan -Sussanne Khan, Aamir Khan -Reena Khan. So in my opinion, best is arranged marriages.

Love marriage is good when a girl or boy select their partner with maturity. Here the maturity means real love and not the infatuation. Nowadays school students and teen agers are in love. But it does not last long. So, they can take a decision only when they are standing on their own leg. While they love they should accept both the negative and the positive qualities of the partner which helps in avoiding the future misunderstandings.

Arrange marriage is not advisable because parents will show the bride or groom with the perception that their daughter or son will be happy. But the reality is they may not know each other before the marriage. Their expectations in the character may not be matched. In future, it may lead to divorce.

Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that we can't let our life on future possibilities that after arranging marriage we will get mutual understanding, love, bonding, trust etc, etc. We are the generation who believes in the present. Even, the government gives us the liberty to take our decision by yourself after 18 and makes you independent so why don't our parents let us take our decisions by once own.

Young youth is blindly supporting LOVE marriages. Because you know each other from 2 years because you were dating from 2 years. So you are 100% compatible with each other. This is bullshit.

When you date someone 90% people will hide their negative side. When other person knows about this it will result in breakup of divorce. No one is 100% perfect. If you need most comestible person than you need to date at least 40-50 girls/boys. First time hit rate is very low.

Instead of this nonsense find someone who respects others, kind hearted. If you cannot find yourself, give your parents chance to find the right person for you. Do not simply defame ARRANGE marriages.

Still, ARRANGE marriage are much better than LOVE marriages.

It's all dependent upon the intensity of opposition from your parents. Somewhere parents easily allow love marriage and somewhere very hardly but the culture of each house is different. I am in love relation from twelve years but even today adjusting with my parents is even uncomfortable. Now, it's up to you to struggle in that particular situation or quit the ground but heavy opposition from parents also breaks us because we also want parents happy. But now I will suggest understanding your family if they are easily manageable and modifiable then only go for it.

LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST WHEN I CAME TO KNOW THE SOCIAL STRUCTURE IT WAS TOO LATE, GETTING OUT OF LOVE WAS NOT EASY FOR ME BUT IF YOU CAN PLEASE UNDERSTAND TIMELY.