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|Keerthana said: (Jun 18, 2019)|
|In my point of view,
Whether love marriage or arranged marriage whatever it is depends on partners only. If their understanding and supporting is good nothing will come between them.
|Vinu said: (Jun 8, 2019)|
|Marriage is very imp aspect in every human life. But love marriage is good because we agree with the parents otherwise suffering from some problems in future. But the things are very imp for both of the pairs.
1. Love and affection.
3. Caring for each other.
4. Mutual understanding.
5. Respect each other.
|Nayana said: (May 15, 2019)|
|In my opinion, I favour love marriage with permission of our parents. Two persons know each other, understand each other and they are the ones who decided to live their rest of life together. It makes life better. Your partner will be supportive and helpful for you in achieving your dreams. Whereas a person whom you just met and married won't be able to understand your dreams or your wishes.|
|Mantu Sahani said: (May 8, 2019)|
|In my opinion, Both marriage are good. But if we love someone with the view of marriage, we must love according to our situations, family background, financial conditions and such types of more things. Then we can arrange and can take support of our family for marriage. But in during love we must not be share our weakness to the partners, otherwise it will help in divorce after marriage.
On other hands, if family arrange a marriage we can meet to understand each other. Then can marriage happily.
|Kukur Singh said: (May 8, 2019)|
|According to me,
Love marriage and Arrange marriage both depends on merit and demerits. If we take love marriage we know about our partner already and make life successful but our country believes in custom and not fully accept love marriage so We have faced our society our family.
On Other hand, our society believes in Arrange marriage and support this type of marriage but we have no idea about our partner and after sometimes make confuse and also in case we have faced sometimes divorce.
|Sharmi said: (May 6, 2019)|
In my point of view, love marriage can also need to be achieved with parents support its best thing I see. In love marriage we can understand our partner very well because of no compulsion when the relation can achieve their understanding without any compulsion its a very best relation I think so, that's can be achieved in love marriage. Instead of love marriage, the arranged marriage can be mostly done by their parents wish. There is no acknowledge about each other, So, I think it may lead to many divorces nowadays. The only think I wish to say anywhere "UNDERSTANDING CAN MAKE US EACH OTHER".
|Ajay Bhardwaj said: (Apr 19, 2019)|
|In my view, arrange marriage is better rather than love marriage because during the love marriage we do share every weak points with our partner, and some person can be miss advantage of our simplicity. Moreover, while in the arrange marriage we don't have complete knowledge about to life partner.|
|Prerna said: (Apr 12, 2019)|
|According to me, there is no problem in arranged marriages, but if we already love someone then even our parents should understand that and give a chance to that person with whom we want to spend our life.
But people always assume that if we have chosen someone or if we love someone, then that person is not right for us. Why is it so?
Our parents have the right to choose a life partner for us, but don't we have any right on our life? We are the ones who have to spend the whole life with that person, so it's very important that there is love between the two. But the society and family are generally very partial regarding this. If you love your better half after marriage, then it's perfect, but if you love them before marriage. They'll make you feel so guilty about it even when it's nothing wrong in it.
At the end, I would only say that if respecting our parents decision is our duty, then their duty is also to see whether we are happy with their decisions or not.
|Maaz Ahmed said: (Apr 8, 2019)|
|In my opinion, love marriage it good chance to let the couple know each other.|
|Devendra Singh said: (Apr 5, 2019)|
|I'm Devendra Singh.
Firstly, I want to say. Love and arrange marriage both have merit and demerit.
If we talk about arrange marriage.
This is India and in India marriage connects two families.
Mostly, Arrange marriage makes the family happy. But some time Love marriage doesn't make the family happy. In that case, family don't' support us. If our family would not support us. Then we can't go happy. After taking Love marriage we will have to face many difficulties. Then we require the help of our family.
At last, I want to say that I'm against the love marriage.
Because everything that can not make my family. I don't want to do so.
Now it depends on you that you want to make your family happy or unhappy.
|Akazhsha said: (Mar 18, 2019)|
|In my point of view, it is not our own authority to choose such decision. It's quite better to love our parents who were able to choose more than a better partner for our life.|
|Sajuraj said: (Mar 15, 2019)|
In my opinion, about this topic is, I am supporting an arranged marriage. Obviously, we have a right to do love marriage. That is not really a matter. But the thing we should give more priority to our "parents "Because when the time of our birth, The two people long dream came true. That is our Father and Mother. On that occasion, they thought like the whole world is in their hand. From there itself, they would give more care. In every second they would think about you. If you got any small injury, it will break their heart. Like that they will help us to grow up. After when we stand our own leg, we can take the decision to do love marriage. Is that too good? I don't think so. We should give more priority to our parents' opinion. They can find a better life partner for us.
|Khushboo said: (Mar 12, 2019)|
|Good afternoon friends.
According to my point of view both are good but I supporting to arrange marriage. Because in arrange marriage parents chek the family background and proper knowledge about other side people. So in case after marriage, any type of problem occurred then parents support you. Problem like. In love marriage, After marriage in girls case if her husband takes drinks or any other type of addiction and her husband harm on girls then that time girls will have support to her parents and family members.
|Sweety said: (Mar 8, 2019)|
|According to my point of view, both marriages are good but love marriage is best because in love marriage we know all things about each other examples -likes, dislikes etc.
In love marriage, both are living happily with each other without any problems and there is no any problem happen for women related to her job because her life partner knows very well about her career, her choice etc so according to me love marriage is best.
|Rajneeshmishra said: (Mar 1, 2019)|
My name is Rajneesh Mishra.
According to my point of views, both have merits and demerits. In love marriage both partner understand their feeling like and dislike it is plus point of love marriage but afterwards their relationship bounding is not same as before. Mostly divorce case happen in love marriage so at your own place both are right. In case of arrange marriage both partner does not understand each other. So it takes time for Harmony and he cannot show your feeling and both are feeling as shy. So some disadvantage in love marriage. So every type of marriage does not perfect we should have love emotions and respect.
|Swati said: (Feb 22, 2019)|
|Both arranged and love marriages have there pros and cons but it totally depends upon the husband and wife s mutual understanding.
In a couple there must be three things that are;
These 3 thing s are very important without these things no marriage will survive.
So no matter it is love marriage or arranges marriage both are good if the couple has love respect and beliefs on each other.
|Radhika Tarika said: (Feb 13, 2019)|
|According to my opinion, both marriages have merits and demerits we can not say that love marriage doesn't fail and arrange marriage doesn't have a happy life we need to love and care for a happy marriage life whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. I saw many peoples who had a love marriage and they are not happy. In love marriage, we know each other before marriage and in arrange marriage we are going to know each other after marriage that's the only difference between both marriages. Both marriages should have understanding and love and also we must have patience because every marriage has ups and downs. Both marriages is a new and happy part of our life so we should live not to spoil it.|
|Raheem said: (Feb 9, 2019)|
I AM Raheem,
Marriage is very important aspects in human life. It is a backbone of a society. It is a beginning stage of a Family. It create a society. So that we should think more and more before we get marry, before we plan to marry. It is not only a partners life but also it is creating an ideal parents and children.
Here we can think about our would how to be. Even if it is love marriage or arranged marriage. The first and important thing should be morale couples. I am not blaming lovers, if they get marry by keeping their moral side before their marriage. But most if the case not. Arranged marriage is so humble and straight path and understanding both families each other peacefully. So the elders and experienced members of family can guide and advise the new couples whether they can sellect suitable partner.
|Sohit said: (Feb 7, 2019)|
|Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families.
If they are love marriage or arrange marriage.
But according to my view love marriage is best.
1. In love marriage one has already know one's partner like, dislike and all about him.
2. In love marriage to people connect hurtly.
3. Understanding is necessary for making the relation.
4. Love marriage is the best way to end castism.
5. Love marriage is cheaper than the arrange marriage.
|Tanya B. said: (Jan 25, 2019)|
|For a marriage to be successful, I believe that few things are inmportant.
1. You should know your partner well. Of course, some arranged marriages work too, but I believe that Proper friendship and understanding is needed between two human beings for a marriage or union to work for life.
2, your family and their family should agree. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. If your family is giving you a hard time, then you must give them time and gently make them understand you point of view.
For this, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner.
|Sanju Ghasal said: (Jan 21, 2019)|
|Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families. Whether it is arranged marriage or love marriage, it will be successful only if both the partners are serious and honest in the relationship. It's only depends on their trust, care and understanding between them. In love marriage, one has already known one's partner's likes, dislikes and all about him. In arrange marriage, we can take time to learn about each other before marriage which is a sign of evolving society. Life partner must be selected according our own will, not by force but also allowance with our parents. Parents are the most important part of our life. We can't spend our life happily to hurt them.|
|Dibyajyoti Pattnaik said: (Jan 15, 2019)|
|Good morning ladies and gentlemen,
Marriage is nothing but a close bonding of two families. In my opinion both the marriage has equal importance. Like every dish has its own ingredients like wise every marriage has also its own ingredient and the main ingredients are love, caring, honesty, loyalty, understanding each other problem and standing for each other family. The ingredient which should be diminished or kept away is "EGO" of each other.
Problems arises in every marriage may be its love or arrange because in arrange marriage we don't know each other except names and in which company we are working, so it takes 1 to 2 year to know each other choices and behavior. In that period of time a lot of patience is required and the key to that special bond is the most important word called "SORRY".
Like wise in love marriage from the beginning we know each other so after marriage the expectation level of each other increases rapidly, and if in the same point your behavior changes then argument takes place.
Every problem which arises should be solved within the four walls of the room without involving a third party.
So, the major thing we should have a clear chit with our partner and make clear that there is no misunderstanding within us.
|Saloni said: (Jan 10, 2019)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. It connects two peoples Hurtly and they both also feels like that they made for each other. Mutual understanding between this two peoples is better. Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life.
But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.
|Anjali said: (Jan 8, 2019)|
|Everything has pros and cons, thanks for giving me a chance, I think both are good in their place it depends on the couple, how much trust, love can they give the relation.
I prefer to love marriage because it's better to know your partner instead after getting married. No only know your partner very well his like dislike happiness sadness but the main thing is understanding which is necessary for making the relation, if she/he can support him/her their critical time, they support him/her any conditions so this relation is really appreciable.
|Naveena D said: (Jan 1, 2019)|
|Good Morning Friends,
Marriage is an important part of every human's life. It helps to keep their next career path with their life partner. So both love and arrange marriage is always provide happiness. But we first should choose the partner our life. So choice is yours.
Love is nothing but unthinkable feeling our life. It cannot explain. However, before we married we love first in our partner. That is one soul in two body's. Love provide lot of happiness. So we feel it. Truly we love our life partner. So we choose the best partner even however before or arrange marriage. But how marriage is important in our life that way is also important in our parent's life.
So parents choose our life partner then, we love our partner after marriage. Love marriage or arrange marriage anything in our life. We love really and rightly with our life partner. That is important our life.
|Libin said: (Dec 28, 2018)|
I am Libi,
Marriage is an important event in every human's life. In that, they start a life with a partner. They share their feelings, happiness, good and also bad. After marriage, running a family is an important thing, if you have money then the love was much stronger but arranged marriage you have or haven't much stronger.
Here my thought is first we want to settle then arranged and then love your wife.
|Vinayak said: (Dec 27, 2018)|
|Good afternoon everyone,
Marriage is very importantant part in social institution. My frends this is very serious and important topics about life. In love marriage both partener are kown to each other while in case of arranged marriage both partner do not know to each other. According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arranged marriage because in love marriage both partners know each other (their like, dislike etc). They do not give any blame to others in future in their life. While in arrange marriage many problems faced by the couple.
|P. Raja Sekher said: (Dec 25, 2018)|
|In My point of view, marriage is the best of our life.
When the couples are dealing with understanding our thought out life being love and affection and blessings of parents and family members and starting to happiness life of carrier.
|Kiran Gajul said: (Dec 22, 2018)|
|I think, Love is the main factor that binds two individuals. Saints and poets alike have praised it. Therefore love marriages have more chances of success because there is pre-marital understanding between the would-be couples. More often, unpleasant consequences arise only when love is obstructed or the period of courtship is very short. If love is given way to and the latter is taken care of, love marriages succeed and nothing else.|
|Jyoti Manwal said: (Dec 22, 2018)|
|First, what is marriage? Marriage means to start a new life with a loveable person who knows us very well, our likes, dislikes, and all things. So there is a two way to spend our new life 1) -love marriage and 2) - arrange marriage. So I m in a favor of love marriage. Because In love marriage we both know each other perfectly. We can understand easily. And most important thing, there will be no dowry system. No violence. And after that, we will live life happily.|
|Latchiyavani said: (Dec 19, 2018)|
In my point of view, arrange marriage is best.
Because the reason we will get more bonding in life rather than love marriage bonding.
It is a new human in our life he had entered with full of trust and love. So, arrange marriage is best.
|Himanshi said: (Dec 18, 2018)|
|All the points made other memebers either in favour, or against the two marriage customs are highly appreciated. But, in my opinion both the marriages have their own pros and con's. So, it is not like love marriages never be entertaining divorces and arrange will always do. It is the behavior that makes it all through. Behavior of the two involved in this marriage like institution.|
|Shoaib Ahmed said: (Dec 16, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is more prioritised than that of an arranged marriage in our modern period. I shall always support love marriage where a person spends easy life with a known partner. As far as I am concerned that arranged merriage has a lot of chances to be divorced by any of parties If they are merried with each other. So Love marriage is better from my side.|
|Sourabh said: (Dec 16, 2018)|
|In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage they know each other they know their likes and dislikes their future plans their interest but in arrange marriage everything is very sudden and not get time to know each other and if it is like partners are not matching their mind perspective so they both have to face problems and in the end they get to go through divorce.|
|Shalini said: (Dec 12, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we understand each other know, love, like before the marriage both partners support in every situation they standing together and the rate of divorce is very less but in arrange marriage the divorce rate is very high the reason is both partners are unknown they don't know each other and it will take too much time to understand each other their likes and dislikes sometimes both Partners are not happy for this important decision of marriage and that's the reason is love marriage is better than arrange marriage.|
|Ankit Singhania said: (Dec 2, 2018)|
|In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. There are various points for the support of this statement.
1) We are the inhabitants of India which is famous all over the world for its culture and civilization. India is known to be a pyous country who does not allow the love marriage. As we all know that love marriage is a system of the Western country. Then why we use western culture?
2) Parents are considered to be god and goddess in our Indian society. They provide food, cloth, better education. They have a lot of expectations from us. We can not break their heart by doing love marriage.
3) The divorce rate is so high for Western countries which is above 50%. Because they prefer love marriage. But in India, this divorce rate is only 1%. How? Because we prefer to arrange marriage.
After concluding all these points we came to know that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
|Nupur said: (Nov 21, 2018)|
|Good evening everyone,
So, love marriage or arrange marriage all it depends where your souls lie. Yes, in love marriages both know each other form earlier and in arrange marriage it took time to know which most the people think it may not work so lets talk about the time of our parents or grandparents where family finds spouse for them they do not even meet each other before marriage but it works well though there might be facing some problem in early stage they managed to do some compromises. So what I am trying to say its all about accepting and understanding each other. But according to my love marriage with parents consent is best.
|Naveen Malik said: (Nov 18, 2018)|
|Good afternoon everyone.
My self Naveen Malik.
In my view love marriage and arrange marriage both are ok. In love marriage, both the partners know each other very well and in arrange marriage the partners will take time to know each other. Obviously parents will choose a better half for us but still in my personal opinion love marriage has better results compared to arrange marriages.
So, in my view, love marriage has greater value in today's modernisation India.
|Gurpreet Sran said: (Nov 17, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is good, Because in arrange marriage we get a lot of support and blessings from our parents, relatives and also our society. Think about your parents' reputation before taking a step because they are like God for us.|
|Sunakshi said: (Nov 16, 2018)|
|Both the options totally depends on us if you have option of love marriage and you are able to find a appropriate person for yourself you should go for it, But if you are not you Should leave this decision on your parents they will surely find a nice guy for you.|
|Rohit Sharma said: (Nov 15, 2018)|
|Good morning friends, I am Rohit Sharma.
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life.
But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.
Now, I want to some point of views of my friends.
|Gurpreet Sran said: (Nov 4, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is good because in this marriage we get support from the two families.|
|Neha Sharma said: (Nov 2, 2018)|
|In my opinion, As I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we choose partners yourself even then we had spent lots of time with each other before the marriage so we both knew about his/her likes, dislikes & behaviour.
If we talk about arrange marriage. We don't choose our life partners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why I prefer love marriage.
Therefore love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.
|Samir Arya said: (Oct 28, 2018)|
|Hello, everyone my name is Samir.
As, I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In love marraige, we choose partners oursleves, We had spent lots of time with each other before the marraige. There is mutual understanding with our patners. We both knew about his/her likes, dislikes, behaviour. If We talk about arrange marraige, We don't choose our life patners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why. I prefare love marriage then arrange marriage.
|Vishu said: (Oct 26, 2018)|
|Good evening everyone.
Today's topic is love v/s arrange marriage.
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good for people according to the situation. First of all, what is marriage?
Marriage the understanding everything between two people who are ready to give support to each other in every situation. Love marriage is that peoples know each other perfectly (likes, dislikes, Behaviour, thinking etc) but in arrange marriage people not know each other.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because people can easily understand each other and they don't face any problem to fit in society. While in arrange marriage people cannot easily understand the nature of our partner and not easily adjustable. So I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.
|Nitin Sharma said: (Oct 25, 2018)|
|According to my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because many problems face the couple after the love marriage like money, support etc thing and our society does not get permission in love marriage.|
|Naipal Singh said: (Oct 23, 2018)|
|According to my opinion.
Both are same because the main thing is understanding between husband and wife, and now a days also in case of arrange marriage all parents are giving sufficient time to both to understand and share the thoughts. So, that they can plan everything for future very well.
If I talk about love marriage than parents should also accept the proposal of their children to make them happy. Because if anybody loves anybody than it is not impossible to forget easily. By permission of parents love marriage also can be converted to arranging one.
|U.Rajasekhar said: (Oct 14, 2018)|
In My point of view about the love marriage vs arrange marriage:.
In love marriage, both people will understand their situations family problems. Before marriage, they share their feelings and situations.
And Nowadays these love marriages take negative directions. In love stage there are comparative and matured, after marriage, they have hurt the small things also. Most of the love marriages are divorced in today's world.
In arranged marriages, both peoples are not knowing anything about our better halves. This condition takes problems in marriage life. The couples will hurt for the small things. In arranged marriages, couples are cooperative of their family responsibilities and family importance in their life.
My conclusion is both are important but our respect towards the marriage culture is important. In marriage day you promise so many things but you don't fallow such things. So both should follow their responsibilities in the marriage life.
|Shweta said: (Oct 12, 2018)|
|The marriage should have two honest people with the idea to share their life as partners like friends. Before they move on to love. Then any love or arrange marriage would be a successfull one and should have respect for each other. Throughout their journey of life.|
|Princy Jain said: (Oct 11, 2018)|
|According to me, Love marriage is far more better than Arrange marriage. Because in Love marriage one is allowed to choose his/her life partner. And the person is already known to us with whom we are going to spend our whole life. In my opinion Love marriage is better because couples can understand each other in Love marriage, they have good bonding with each other.|
|Arjun said: (Oct 9, 2018)|
|According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because couples can understand each other in love batter than that of in arrange.|
|Preeti Maurya said: (Oct 8, 2018)|
|According to my perception, love marriage is better than arrange marriage couples are understanding and bonding very high they spend whole life to each other but in arrange marriage couples are not fully attached in soul and heart so we can differ easily love marriage is better.|
|Naga Sravani Tangirala said: (Oct 7, 2018)|
|In my view, the marriage should be like love come arrange in which there should be trust in each and every individual and also a belief in the family.|
|Gourav Bamnavat said: (Oct 4, 2018)|
|I think always love marriage is 100 times best than arrange marriage. This most behind big reason.
Both parents know different cultural and casting over in India after love marriage. So please support and cooperate love marriage.
|Harender said: (Oct 3, 2018)|
|According to me, the arrange marriage is best because it is done by the happiness and blessings of parents and family members|
|Vipin Chourasiya said: (Oct 2, 2018)|
|In case of love marrriage, mostly marriage becomes b/w diffrent caste so it is better in scientific view, because more probability for gene mutation, characers improving, improving resistance from some tradition diseases, and many more advantages regarding gene theory,
While in arrange marriage betwieen same caste same DNA, less chance for improving quality of genes.
|Israt said: (Oct 1, 2018)|
|According to me, love is God gifted, it's doesn't matter you got love marriage or arrange marriage, in every marriage life love is essential, it does not fact you love someone before or after marriage fact is how much you love him/her, how much you sharing and caring.|
|Vikash Bhati said: (Sep 27, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage better choice than arranged. In it's both partners know themselves perfectly to each other by heart and they have no any kind of distraction. Otherwise, they are live more openly then the arranged couple.|
|Prince said: (Sep 26, 2018)|
|According to me, both marriages are based on the trust. Trust on parents in arranged marriages that with whom you have to spend your whole life they will choose the deserving one.|
|Sajedul said: (Sep 22, 2018)|
|If love marriage turns into arrange marriage, it will be better for the future family planning of spouse. You can love someone/anyone but you can not get married to anyone without violating your guardian permission.|
|Shankar said: (Sep 22, 2018)|
|Arranged Marriage are best because the family support and you have a pleasent life than the love marriage. Family is the first thing they brought up with the most struggle for us. So, we should accept the reality of our parents decision.|
|Susil Kumar Malik said: (Sep 20, 2018)|
|In my point of view, both are good when two people understand each of problem and solve each other other than both marriages have the trouble of life.|
|Anu Patel said: (Sep 19, 2018)|
|Hello everyone according to me love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because marriage becomes only one time each person so its special for everyone and marriage all about depends on the two-person like dislike ambition efficiency and all that if two-person already knew each other, not facing future problem etc. So, In My point of view, the love marriage is better to thank you.|
|Ranjeet Kumar said: (Sep 17, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because all parent ' wishs. My child follow me because no risk in our culture.|
|Anya said: (Sep 16, 2018)|
|According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because before marriage we know and understand with each other. But in arrange marriage our parents will bring matches and we agree to parents decision.|
|Mohit Khokhar said: (Sep 15, 2018)|
|I support the arrange marriage.
In an arranged marriage, parents do enquiry about each other family so there is a probability that the marriage will happen in the similar kind of family.
Parents or relatives will think about the future of economic conditions.
The couple most like think about both of their families so they will learn to adjust.
Family and well-wishers are still there if there happens something wrong after marriage.
|Abinash said: (Sep 15, 2018)|
In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. There is less chance of dowry during marriage and also domestic violence in the society would be less if its a love marriage. So, we should definitely encourage live marriage so that we can't get out of any trouble and enjoy the future life in safely.
|Kammy said: (Sep 3, 2018)|
|So, You basically have 3 Options - Stay as a bachelor, Find the love of your life and go for love marriage, and, finally, trust your parents in hope that they will find a best match for you i.e. going for an arranged marriage.
According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.
What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.
Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.
So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.
Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.
|Kartikey Verma said: (Sep 2, 2018)|
|In my opinion, both the topics stand equally right. In today's scenario, in arrange marriage, parents give both people ample of time to understand each other before taking a final call. This helps them to understand each other in a better way. While talking about love marriage, the understanding betwen the two persons is very high as they are together for a longer period of time and knows each other in a beter way in every aspect of life.
In my opinion, dealing with the today's scenario where the parents are supportive there is not much difference between the love and arrange marriage because in both of them you get the time to know your partner.
|Praveen said: (Aug 26, 2018)|
|Hello, my dear friends.
In my point of view, it's very difficult to say which is really better among love marriage and arranged marriage. Both or like head and tails. Sometimes love marriage is better as same time arranged also better in some cases. But marriage is most important part of every ones life. I ll try to explain with an example as we know very well arranged marriages are can be done by parents without knowing their children opinion, we can say its a family forced marriage, but they ll care about them before and after marriage also. They will protect and save them in difficult situations even. But the persons who are going to marry thy don't know each others much. They may face problems after getting married. If come to love marriage both are comfortable with each other because they knew their behavior, tastes, decision making ufcourse everything. So they can live very easily but they might be eliminated by the families in some cases. At that time they might not have much protection. One more point I want to mention as we know now a days the persons who got love married they are also taking divorce then what is the meaning of love and where is the love. Where she/ he wants to go ? This we can see in arranged marriage also. The family save them. Finally, I'm concluding this topic it's difficult to say but I can stick with arranged marriage only. Thank you.
|Anand said: (Aug 24, 2018)|
|The gap what we observe between love marriage and arrange marriage can be minimised if parents starts seeing love marriage not in negative sense. They should think what is more important the community or their children. Simultaneously if a person decides to go against their parents they must think million times because no-one can be more important for a person than his/her mom and dad. There could be various issues of different people with their parents but they are always most respected.|
|Malini said: (Aug 22, 2018)|
According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.
So family support is most necessary if not.
Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.
Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.
Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.
Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.
|Shivanjali Gupta said: (Aug 10, 2018)|
I would say that I support love marriages because we have been taught that marriage is not a game and everyone has to take it seriously. Love marriage allows a person to know their partners in a better way that is likes, dislikes, comfort zones etc. Which can help them in taking their bond to an upper level. Love is the only guardian of every relationship and in arrange marriages love doesn't happens by choice but because their is no other choice. If you say that there can be problems between parents and children because love marriage then let me tell you sir that problems may occur in arrange marriages too. And what matters is that one should have the right to choose their own life partners because one has to spend one's whole life with that person.
|Manisha said: (Aug 6, 2018)|
|Hi myself Manisha.
My perception is candid about both ways of marriage. If you succeed in your life and you have the best relationship with someone, spontaneously your family will agree easily in case of love marriage. And arranged marriage would be your option. Thank you.
|Rashi said: (Aug 5, 2018)|
|In my opinion, the arrange marriages are much better than love marriages because first of all it is according to the consent and happiness of both the families. Secondly, parents are children's best wishes. So they decide the best for their children. And life is much more sorted in arrange marriage than a love marriage.|
|Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha said: (Aug 5, 2018)|
Good morning all my dear friends.
Myself Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha.
Today topic is Love Marriage Vs Arrange Marriage.
I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partners before marriage. Generally, both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambition etc and they already idea about their future. In love marriage, the most important factor is that destroy the dowry system.
LOVE IS GIFT OF GOD.
That's why I supported LOVE MARRIAGE.
|Priya Manchanda said: (Aug 4, 2018)|
|Arrange marriage is better than because my parents are allowed them and make me happy but love marriage is not successful because love is after the marriage but not in before the marriage many expectations is available in after the marriage in love marriage so better is arrange marriage.|
|Ashish Pandey said: (Aug 3, 2018)|
Good evening everyone.
Finally, I think that the love marriage is better than the arranged marriage, because it has many benefits such and the understanding between the two couples'', and the happiness and peace in the family and I want to send the message to all the youth to be careful in their love, and their emotions especially in marriage.
|Monalisa said: (Jul 27, 2018)|
Good Evening to one and all present here!
Of course, I agree to all of you who support Love Marriages and their reasons but I would like to support Arranged Marriages because, In love marriages, some of the parents may not agree them getting married. So as a result Parents and their children are getting separated and there arises alot of disputes between them. Therefore when a problem comes between the couple who gets married will directly apply to divorce due to the lack of good suggestions, knowledge and support from their parents. Whereas in arranged marriages, Parents will be supportive, together with us in all difficult situations. Parents and children are both happy because parents see all the 7 generations of each other's (bride and bridegroom) side are perfect or not and get their children married to not have any disputes/problems and lead a happy life after they get married.
|Randi said: (Jul 26, 2018)|
Talking about love marriage generally both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambitions etc and they have already had an idea about their future. Both the partners had already opened to each other and also they have evaluated their relationship before marriage how long can they take up. All these things are not possible in arrange marriage. Some of the times in arrange marriage one agrees to get married because of their parents. Love marriage gives you the freedom to decide the path of your life. So love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
|Shubham said: (Jul 26, 2018)|
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because love marrige people are powerful in their boning and releactionship bettween them. I think we do arrange marrige for our parents and society.
|Adarsh Awasthi said: (Jul 24, 2018)|
In my opinion, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage because in love marriage there is a mutual understanding between a couple & they always cooperate with each other & they share everything between themselves while another side if one person is elder & 2nd one is younger then sometimes they feel shy to say anything & they don't share any matter.
|Sakshi said: (Jul 20, 2018)|
|According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents support us. Because in love marriage we know most of the things (likes and dislikes) about our partner. But in the arrange marriage there may be the pressure from our parents and we can suffer from it in our future.|
|Pinkal Patel said: (Jul 18, 2018)|
|I like love marriage.
Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.
|Akash Raj Verma said: (Jul 17, 2018)|
According to me, arrange marriage is more beneficial than the love marriage because nowadays both are become a very similar thing whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage etc.
If I would talk about this generation somehow our parents begin to understand our feeling what we really want in future husband/wife, so that is very nice to us.
They finding a people according to us even they allow to meet them and and left some time to understand them, officially they meet numbers of time throughout the day since they know themselves for the first time, till the marriage, eventually they fully understand each other and finally they have fallen in love and got married to each other so far as my thinking its best way to getting arrange marriage despite given pain and hurt (love marriage) to anyone especially parent.
|Chandini said: (Jul 16, 2018)|
|Some people like love marriages because there have understanding before the marriage so then prefer love.
But arrange marriages have understandings after the marriages.
Our 4 to 5 years love may lose our childhood relationships in some causes so I prepare to support arrange marriages.
|Ayush Anand said: (Jul 15, 2018)|
|Arrange marriage is far better than love marriage because there is respect between husband and wife and they.
Clear their disputes calmly whereas in love marriage some time parents are not happy and without the happiness of parent the marriage is like hollow gift. And any dis[utes leads to divorce or act as a fire in breaking.
Thread of love between parents.
|Deepu said: (Jul 14, 2018)|
|Hi everyone, what I feel is love marriage is far better than arranged because, I have seen most of the people in relationships who are actually happy even after years because during the relationship they get to know about each other, their tastes and they have a proper understanding between them. It's not that in arranged marriages there is no love and understanding at all but what I think is once we get married we don't have any other option to do if we come to know that the person is not right for us. For whole life, we need to tolerate him even if we don't want to. There are some cases like even if we like a person and want to share an entire life with him parents doesn't support and it finally leads to an arranged marriage. Love or arranged marriage whatever it is we need to love a person as a human being as he is going to be a partner forever and I'm not telling that it's destiny but it's our choice towards everything and need to stay happy because it's our life. We don't need to give any apologies to anyone.|
|Kanika Rajkhowa said: (Jul 12, 2018)|
|Hi, my name is Kanika. I respect what all of your point of view but what my point of view is, that I prefer love marriage because in love marriage people understand each other so much what they want or not etc but it doesn't mean I criticize arrange marriage or I am against of arrange marriage because all people have their own choice and own opinions so I think no one can take bad decisions for themselves. That's all.
|Rajendra Rathore said: (Jul 11, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know everything about our partners. Like her hobby. Choice, Behaviour. Everything but in arrange marriage by arranging in one meeting how could they say that they made for each other.|
|Vipul said: (Jul 8, 2018)|
|In Love Marriage, more expectation than the surprise of love after Marriage, whereas in Arranged Marriage there is always a surprise of love with less expectation. In Love Marriage, most of the times Love ends and Marriage life (expectation) starts whereas in Arranged Marriage, Marriage life (expectation) ends and the surprise of Love starts.|
|Hariom Kaushik said: (Jul 8, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is prefer to arrange marriage because in love marriage couples understand each other in long time but in arrange marriage couples understand each other in one meeting. So, I support love marriage. Thanks.|
|Lekhika said: (Jul 3, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage is just a name, both are nothing without understanding, where the understanding met the word of marriage is successful. So, it is all about understanding love & care for each other. When the couple has all these things then they live a happy life, whether it is arranged or love marriage.|
|Afina Shamsudeen said: (Jun 28, 2018)|
I'm a girl of just 18 years old. I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. I think it depends on the nature of the people who are getting married, the longevity and prosperity of their married life. But I have an opinion of life is not a mere fantasy, I mean it gives pleasure for us to read an ideal true relationship in stories. But life is not a theory to be stated theoretically, rather it has a lot to do in practice. So I do believe in love, true love after marriage. It believes it will give the very same pleasure that a good love affair can give and it's so comforting to have a relationship after marriage with the partner.
Thanks. Have a nice time.
|Priyanka said: (Jun 21, 2018)|
|In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.|
|Taj Randhawa said: (Jun 15, 2018)|
|In my opinion, I prefer the arrange marriage then love marriage because this is not the marriage of 2 souls, this is to make a relationship between the 2 families. All we know, that our family choose the best for us. We can also do after the marriage our family gives us so much time to understand the feeling of each other. All we know, love is another name of compromise. To understand the feelings and lead a happily life with your partner and family. Also lead a respectable life.
|Rai said: (Jun 15, 2018)|
|In my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because before marraige in love no commitments and no more argues both thinking are we are true lovers and we can solve anything in our life problems but after marraige in loved both are initial stage very happy and life goes to heaven but some year passed they have trouble in life snd so much of worries. So arrange marraige is better.|
|Tripti said: (Jun 12, 2018)|
|In love marriage, you have that assurance before marriage itself that life partner will understand and support one doesn't need to adjust compromise much. Main is one knows the nature but observation regarding choosing the partner should be correct since it's your decision.
In arrange marriage, there is a fear of how will be my partner. One definitely need to take time while choosing your life partners so definitely I will prefer love marriage.
|Ajay Chaudhary said: (Jun 9, 2018)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is preferred to love marriage in arrange marriage couples are respected by their socity and their family sport them strongly in present time every family gives enough time to their children for understanding to each other before marriage and parents always choose the best for their children and there is no quarrel among the members in arrange marriage and further generation of couples are nicely affected by arranging marriage after all I want to say that according to Indian civilization arrange marriage more acceptable than love marriage and arrange marriage follows a systematic order so arrange marriage preferable to love marriage.|
|Sachin Kr Chauhan said: (Jun 7, 2018)|
|In my opinion, lover marriage is good for those who understand each other very much and they have decided to live with each other till their last breath because I found some people who are getting married without their parent's consent and. After some year they will divorce to each other so. If you do not understand your partner from stem to stern then you should not have go through lover marriage. So, In my opinion, love marriage or arrange marriage is nothing but it is a combination of two families.|
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