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|Mushu said: (May 18, 2020)|
Thank you for allowing me to speak on one of the most controversial topics which is LOVE MARRIAGE OR ARRANGE MARRIAGE.
I would start by elaborating on both.
Marriage is a legal form to recognize two people as partners.
Love marriage is a type a marriage where both individuals agree to spend their rest of their life together.
Arrange marriage is a type of marriage where the parents chose their partners.
According to my opinion Love marriage is better and more comfortable. Both the partners already know about each other, they know about there interests and mundanes.
Also, they have already been together, so more comfortable around each other and more understanding.
While in arrange marriage you don't know who the person really is, there is some news in which many of the few times the husband is not educated, or are already married. Hence it is necessary to have a background check before you marry the person.
But it's not the same case with all the arrange marriages, arrange marriage is beautiful too. It's just you need to choose the right person.
I will end by concluding whether it is love or arrange a search for the right person, and be the right person, everything else is secondary.
|Sona Singh said: (Apr 24, 2020)|
|In my point of view,
Love marriage is better than Arrange marriage.
Marriage is like life-long commitment. In love marriage, the couple knew each other very well, they understood each other fully, Hence there won't be many conflicts.
In Arrange Marriage, the couple does not know each other well. People who go for arranged marriage may not be that comfortable to discuss everything in detail before marriage. This may cause problems after marriage.
|Nicky said: (Apr 7, 2020)|
In my opinion, it doesn't matter the marriage is loved or arranged. The important thing is it should be based on friendship and trust. Where both partners feel comfortable with each other to share their stories and thoughts freely. Because in arrange marriage both partners are afraid of families and their reputation in society. They never show they're true identities, their past stories. Everyone wants to be like a perfect husband or a perfect wife. They never know each other that much closed as a friend knows. The clarity in any relationship is essential. It makes the bond stronger. We trust more. So take your time to marry anyone. 1st be friends. Know each other well then decide this marriage will happen or not. And be acceptable if someone has a dreadful past memory. Everyone learns from experience. Don't be judgemental. Anything can change.
|Swechchha Mishra said: (Feb 21, 2020)|
|As per my point of view, I support love marriage as compared to arrange marriages as in love marriage we get ample of time to know about the person and their feelings. We get time to know whether we can spend our whole life with each other or no.|
|Sagar Gogade said: (Feb 14, 2020)|
|In my point of view, we can't decide which is right. In love marriage they people know each others but in arrange marriage they take more time to understand. If we get good partner in arrange then its OK, but here is very low possibility to get good and understandable partner. So I am in fever of love marriage 70% and arrange marriage 30%. Thank you.|
|Chandan Kumar said: (Jan 28, 2020)|
|Hello everyone, I'm Chandan. Today I am going to give my best opinion about the love marriage vs Arranged marriage. From my point of view, love marriages is better than arranged marriages. Because in love marriages you already know the Lifepartner, her/his habits and behaviour and way of living and treating. So I will suggest to all for love marriages.|
|Hritik Solanki said: (Jan 20, 2020)|
|Hi I am Hritik,
According to me for a healthy relationship, it doesn't matter whether it was arranged marriage or love marriage. What ultimately matters is love and happiness. If the couple is happy with each other, they care for each other, they respect each other then they can face each and every problem of life and live happily.
|Shubham said: (Jan 17, 2020)|
|As far as I am concerned love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In love marriage both partner know about each and every thing about her / him also they tuning is better they have spend lot's of time with together that'y They made perfect for each other aslo they know about their secrets.|
|Dharmendra Rajoriya said: (Jan 8, 2020)|
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in the love marriage, we get to know each other very well and remain satisfied with each other or we can live each other a long time so love marriage is better than arrange marriage in modern situation.
|R P said: (Jan 1, 2020)|
|I will talk about the modern generation, Not the old generation where there were only arranged marriages. First, let's talk about arranged marriage. In an arranged marriage, we have to marry an unknown person. We completely don't know about his/her character. If he/she has a previous affair or loved someone before, then he/she will not be able to give full love to his arranged partner or one day when they meet and you get to know that your wife/husband has feelings for someone. How would that feel to you? Another disadvantage. If you don't fit with your partner or you don't like their habit or behavior.
How will you manage with that person for a lifetime? And nowadays girls are aware and educated. If they don't feel good with you or things didn't go well. Then you both can have a divorce. In the case of Love Marriages. In the modern age, most girls are smart. They think whether a guy would be fit with them or not. If they feel her parents will not agree then she will not involve her in life. If both partners love each other and if they are of the same caste. AND IF BOTH PARENTS AGREE AND DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH MARRIAGE. SO BOTH PARTNERS WILL GET FAMILY SUPPORT AND IT WILL BE BEST AND HAPPY MARRIAGE EVER.
|Swapnil said: (Dec 13, 2019)|
My name is swapnil pawar.
According to me, It cannot be decided which marriage will be most successful (love or arranged).
Essentially love marriage takes place when both the partners fall in love with each other, they understand each other better, however in arranged marriages, both the partners only know a little about each other. They are totally unaware about their partners likes and dislikes, their habits etc. But this unawareness makes the marriage that interesting. However, It is still impossible to determine which marriage is better.
|Rekha said: (Dec 7, 2019)|
|In my opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are good. Because it depends on two people mutual understanding. How to treat each other behavior, love, honesty, care. In love marriage, they know each other good hobbies bad hobbies how to treat partner when he angry they know everything before marriage happy, unhappy things how to handle upon our partner.
And in arrange marriage they know after marriage each other they take time to understand each other about partner behavior, care, anger, like, and it depends on similarity and Understanding. In arrange marriage problems come so your parents do compromise about two people. If love marriage comes a problem so couples self solve own problems. According to me both marriage are good marriages all depend on two people thinking Understanding and behavior nothing at all.
|Manasa said: (Dec 7, 2019)|
|No matter if it is love or arranged marriage. If they maintain mutual understanding in life and if both partners respectful, patient, love each other it leads to a happy life. It is a matter of two persons as well as their families to be loved. According to the India divorce list, love marriages are getting divorced more than an arranged marriage. Mostly in love marriages people are not maintaining there relationship till end of life. You have many reasons to love him/her before marriage and people should not find reasons to get divorce after marriage the love at starting should be maintained till the end of life. If both partners are in love till the end of life apart of love or arranged marriage they lead happy life.|
|V J said: (Nov 20, 2019)|
In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage both are acceptable. Both depend upon understanding. But LOVE MARRIAGE is the BEST. Because there is a good understanding between them. In ARRANGED MARRIAGE, there is no understanding. So, LOVE MARRIAGE is the best with your parent's permission.
|Sanjay said: (Nov 14, 2019)|
|Hi friends first of all thanks for giving an opportunity to display my view on the topic love marriage vs arrange marriage.
In my point of view love marriage is better than other. In love marriage the both of them know there character very well, in arranged marriage it will take more time to know the other person.
This is the main problem for going to divorce after marriage. In love marriage there is only one problem they don't have any family support if they had it then it will be the best life for that couples.
|Mayur Kathane said: (Nov 5, 2019)|
In my point of view, love and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding between the couple who are getting married. But in arrange marriage, both people can understand each other after marriage and in love marriage, already the person knew each other and came in a relationship after understanding.
So in my point of view love marriage overcome the arrange marriage.
|Raj Gupta said: (Nov 1, 2019)|
My Name is Raj.
According to my point of view love marriage and arrange marriage both are depending on understanding.
But love marriage is thinking about oneself.
And arrange marriage is all.
|Veerendra said: (Oct 30, 2019)|
In love marriage, there is only love between the couples and no family support,
In an arranged marriage, there is only family support but no love between them,
BUT in love N arranged marriages there is both love between them and family support to them so, finally love come arranged marriages OR arranged come love marriages or much better any other.
|Yuvraj said: (Oct 21, 2019)|
|I totally agree with Kanika Rajkhowa and like her views but I want to share my views that love marriage is right at its own place but ARRANGE MARRIAGE is also good because parents know each other well and know the circumstances that couple will face in future so for this parents give advice for prevent from bad circumstances which may be come in future.|
|Yuvraj said: (Oct 21, 2019)|
|Both love and arrange marriages are that all depend on thinking of individuals that which type of marriage they like.|
|Deeksha said: (Oct 13, 2019)|
|Marriage works when people accept each other with all the pros and corns, if the love/arrange marriage is based on pretty face of handsome salery then I am sry to say it will fade away one day and the marriage on the materialistic thing does not sustain long.|
|Aditi said: (Oct 5, 2019)|
In my perspective Marriage in our country is the convergence of two member as well as their families. Marriage is the understanding between two individuals and in love marriage we choose our partner with own understandings and agreement so I think it is better than arrange marriage.
|Ujjawal Saini said: (Oct 1, 2019)|
|Good morning one and all.
My name is Ujjawal Saini.
According to my point of view LOVE MARRIAGE is better because the both the individual knows each other very well before marriage and they decide to live life together. They both can easily understand the problem and issues happening in life. They both of them also knows the likes and dislikes of each other.
|Neelesh Verma said: (Sep 26, 2019)|
|In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage is just a name, both are nothing without understanding, where the understanding met the word of marriage is successful. So, it is all about understanding love & care for each other. When the couple has all these things then they live a happy life, whether it is arranged or love marriage.|
|Ritik Anand said: (Sep 19, 2019)|
According to me, we can't judge a marriage as successful or unsuccessful by blaming the love and arranged marriage. It totally depends on the mutual understanding between the two people who have taken the decision to live together throughout their life. So, if the bonding between both of them are strong then neither or nor anyone can judge their marriage. So my friend all marriage is good and they are really successful if our mental understanding is perfect. So, thank you and have a great day.
|Juhi said: (Sep 11, 2019)|
|At my point of view, love and arrange both marriages are good because it depends upon our life partner how they are co-operating with us, marriage is all about love, respect and believe. So we can't say which one is better from another one.|
|Juhi said: (Sep 10, 2019)|
|At my point of view, love and arrange both marriages are good because its all depends upon our partner he or she how they are cooperative with us. It's all about love, respect and believe with both who take the decision to live with each other.|
|Amit said: (Aug 8, 2019)|
|There is no surety about which will be successful, an arranged marriage or a love marriage. There is no perfect age to get married but there are perfect secrets which makes a relationship long lasting.
We have same problems in both just the tastes are different. The foundation of the relationship should not be based on our likes or dislikes because it's definite that two different person must posses some similarities or dissimilarities which is the law of nature.
They must develop a proper maturity and knowledge before getting into relationship. It can be possible sometimes that the person whom we love now doesn't posses those qualities which makes the married life stable.
One should inquire about whether he/she respect you or not, what he/she can sacrifice for you will decide your importance in his/her life.
In arranged marriage also one can clear his/her doubts about the questions which makes a relationship perfect because the happiness is not accessible just due to other partner but due to his qualities which makes the bondage stronger.
So there is no problem in both but one must has the perfect maturity, knowledge about the facts and qualities in the other which makes your relationship strong and happy.
|Aditi said: (Jul 29, 2019)|
The topic of our group discussion is Love vs Arrange Marriage.
What is Marriage? Marriage is a bond between two souls who takes an oath to support each other for a lifetime. And we can't decide whether to arrange or love marriage will end up successful. Because a successful marriage completely depends on the person, their partner, their level of understanding, Maturity and how they handle difficult situation of their life together.
|Ankit Gurawaria said: (Jul 24, 2019)|
My name is Ankit Gurawaria.
Today's topic is love marriage v/s arrange marriage.
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good for people according to the situation. First of all, what is marriage?
Marriage is an understanding between two people who are ready to give support to each other in every situation. Love marriage is that people know each other perfectly (likes, dislikes, behavior, thinking etc. ) but in arrange marriage people not know each other.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
|Pallavi Rajput said: (Jun 25, 2019)|
|Marriage means commitment of two peoples to one another legally and mutually understandably. Success of Marriage depends upon the partners whether its love or arrange. According to me, arrange marriage is very much depends upon luck because in arrange we don't know about the partner properly. In India, many places favors only arrange marriages and also creates many problems if couple wants to do love marriage. In 21st century, India still does not accept love marriage completely.|
|Keerthana said: (Jun 18, 2019)|
|In my point of view,
Whether love marriage or arranged marriage whatever it is depends on partners only. If their understanding and supporting is good nothing will come between them.
|Vinu said: (Jun 8, 2019)|
|Marriage is very imp aspect in every human life. But love marriage is good because we agree with the parents otherwise suffering from some problems in future. But the things are very imp for both of the pairs.
1. Love and affection.
3. Caring for each other.
4. Mutual understanding.
5. Respect each other.
|Nayana said: (May 15, 2019)|
|In my opinion, I favour love marriage with permission of our parents. Two persons know each other, understand each other and they are the ones who decided to live their rest of life together. It makes life better. Your partner will be supportive and helpful for you in achieving your dreams. Whereas a person whom you just met and married won't be able to understand your dreams or your wishes.|
|Mantu Sahani said: (May 8, 2019)|
|In my opinion, Both marriage are good. But if we love someone with the view of marriage, we must love according to our situations, family background, financial conditions and such types of more things. Then we can arrange and can take support of our family for marriage. But in during love we must not be share our weakness to the partners, otherwise it will help in divorce after marriage.
On other hands, if family arrange a marriage we can meet to understand each other. Then can marriage happily.
|Kukur Singh said: (May 8, 2019)|
|According to me,
Love marriage and Arrange marriage both depends on merit and demerits. If we take love marriage we know about our partner already and make life successful but our country believes in custom and not fully accept love marriage so We have faced our society our family.
On Other hand, our society believes in Arrange marriage and support this type of marriage but we have no idea about our partner and after sometimes make confuse and also in case we have faced sometimes divorce.
|Sharmi said: (May 6, 2019)|
In my point of view, love marriage can also need to be achieved with parents support its best thing I see. In love marriage we can understand our partner very well because of no compulsion when the relation can achieve their understanding without any compulsion its a very best relation I think so, that's can be achieved in love marriage. Instead of love marriage, the arranged marriage can be mostly done by their parents wish. There is no acknowledge about each other, So, I think it may lead to many divorces nowadays. The only think I wish to say anywhere "UNDERSTANDING CAN MAKE US EACH OTHER".
|Ajay Bhardwaj said: (Apr 19, 2019)|
|In my view, arrange marriage is better rather than love marriage because during the love marriage we do share every weak points with our partner, and some person can be miss advantage of our simplicity. Moreover, while in the arrange marriage we don't have complete knowledge about to life partner.|
|Prerna said: (Apr 12, 2019)|
|According to me, there is no problem in arranged marriages, but if we already love someone then even our parents should understand that and give a chance to that person with whom we want to spend our life.
But people always assume that if we have chosen someone or if we love someone, then that person is not right for us. Why is it so?
Our parents have the right to choose a life partner for us, but don't we have any right on our life? We are the ones who have to spend the whole life with that person, so it's very important that there is love between the two. But the society and family are generally very partial regarding this. If you love your better half after marriage, then it's perfect, but if you love them before marriage. They'll make you feel so guilty about it even when it's nothing wrong in it.
At the end, I would only say that if respecting our parents decision is our duty, then their duty is also to see whether we are happy with their decisions or not.
|Maaz Ahmed said: (Apr 8, 2019)|
|In my opinion, love marriage it good chance to let the couple know each other.|
|Devendra Singh said: (Apr 5, 2019)|
|I'm Devendra Singh.
Firstly, I want to say. Love and arrange marriage both have merit and demerit.
If we talk about arrange marriage.
This is India and in India marriage connects two families.
Mostly, Arrange marriage makes the family happy. But some time Love marriage doesn't make the family happy. In that case, family don't' support us. If our family would not support us. Then we can't go happy. After taking Love marriage we will have to face many difficulties. Then we require the help of our family.
At last, I want to say that I'm against the love marriage.
Because everything that can not make my family. I don't want to do so.
Now it depends on you that you want to make your family happy or unhappy.
|Akazhsha said: (Mar 18, 2019)|
|In my point of view, it is not our own authority to choose such decision. It's quite better to love our parents who were able to choose more than a better partner for our life.|
|Sajuraj said: (Mar 15, 2019)|
In my opinion, about this topic is, I am supporting an arranged marriage. Obviously, we have a right to do love marriage. That is not really a matter. But the thing we should give more priority to our "parents "Because when the time of our birth, The two people long dream came true. That is our Father and Mother. On that occasion, they thought like the whole world is in their hand. From there itself, they would give more care. In every second they would think about you. If you got any small injury, it will break their heart. Like that they will help us to grow up. After when we stand our own leg, we can take the decision to do love marriage. Is that too good? I don't think so. We should give more priority to our parents' opinion. They can find a better life partner for us.
|Khushboo said: (Mar 12, 2019)|
|Good afternoon friends.
According to my point of view both are good but I supporting to arrange marriage. Because in arrange marriage parents chek the family background and proper knowledge about other side people. So in case after marriage, any type of problem occurred then parents support you. Problem like. In love marriage, After marriage in girls case if her husband takes drinks or any other type of addiction and her husband harm on girls then that time girls will have support to her parents and family members.
|Sweety said: (Mar 8, 2019)|
|According to my point of view, both marriages are good but love marriage is best because in love marriage we know all things about each other examples -likes, dislikes etc.
In love marriage, both are living happily with each other without any problems and there is no any problem happen for women related to her job because her life partner knows very well about her career, her choice etc so according to me love marriage is best.
|Rajneeshmishra said: (Mar 1, 2019)|
My name is Rajneesh Mishra.
According to my point of views, both have merits and demerits. In love marriage both partner understand their feeling like and dislike it is plus point of love marriage but afterwards their relationship bounding is not same as before. Mostly divorce case happen in love marriage so at your own place both are right. In case of arrange marriage both partner does not understand each other. So it takes time for Harmony and he cannot show your feeling and both are feeling as shy. So some disadvantage in love marriage. So every type of marriage does not perfect we should have love emotions and respect.
|Swati said: (Feb 22, 2019)|
|Both arranged and love marriages have there pros and cons but it totally depends upon the husband and wife s mutual understanding.
In a couple there must be three things that are;
These 3 thing s are very important without these things no marriage will survive.
So no matter it is love marriage or arranges marriage both are good if the couple has love respect and beliefs on each other.
|Radhika Tarika said: (Feb 13, 2019)|
|According to my opinion, both marriages have merits and demerits we can not say that love marriage doesn't fail and arrange marriage doesn't have a happy life we need to love and care for a happy marriage life whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. I saw many peoples who had a love marriage and they are not happy. In love marriage, we know each other before marriage and in arrange marriage we are going to know each other after marriage that's the only difference between both marriages. Both marriages should have understanding and love and also we must have patience because every marriage has ups and downs. Both marriages is a new and happy part of our life so we should live not to spoil it.|
|Raheem said: (Feb 9, 2019)|
I AM Raheem,
Marriage is very important aspects in human life. It is a backbone of a society. It is a beginning stage of a Family. It create a society. So that we should think more and more before we get marry, before we plan to marry. It is not only a partners life but also it is creating an ideal parents and children.
Here we can think about our would how to be. Even if it is love marriage or arranged marriage. The first and important thing should be morale couples. I am not blaming lovers, if they get marry by keeping their moral side before their marriage. But most if the case not. Arranged marriage is so humble and straight path and understanding both families each other peacefully. So the elders and experienced members of family can guide and advise the new couples whether they can sellect suitable partner.
|Sohit said: (Feb 7, 2019)|
|Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families.
If they are love marriage or arrange marriage.
But according to my view love marriage is best.
1. In love marriage one has already know one's partner like, dislike and all about him.
2. In love marriage to people connect hurtly.
3. Understanding is necessary for making the relation.
4. Love marriage is the best way to end castism.
5. Love marriage is cheaper than the arrange marriage.
|Tanya B. said: (Jan 25, 2019)|
|For a marriage to be successful, I believe that few things are inmportant.
1. You should know your partner well. Of course, some arranged marriages work too, but I believe that Proper friendship and understanding is needed between two human beings for a marriage or union to work for life.
2, your family and their family should agree. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. If your family is giving you a hard time, then you must give them time and gently make them understand you point of view.
For this, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner.
|Sanju Ghasal said: (Jan 21, 2019)|
|Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families. Whether it is arranged marriage or love marriage, it will be successful only if both the partners are serious and honest in the relationship. It's only depends on their trust, care and understanding between them. In love marriage, one has already known one's partner's likes, dislikes and all about him. In arrange marriage, we can take time to learn about each other before marriage which is a sign of evolving society. Life partner must be selected according our own will, not by force but also allowance with our parents. Parents are the most important part of our life. We can't spend our life happily to hurt them.|
|Dibyajyoti Pattnaik said: (Jan 15, 2019)|
|Good morning ladies and gentlemen,
Marriage is nothing but a close bonding of two families. In my opinion both the marriage has equal importance. Like every dish has its own ingredients like wise every marriage has also its own ingredient and the main ingredients are love, caring, honesty, loyalty, understanding each other problem and standing for each other family. The ingredient which should be diminished or kept away is "EGO" of each other.
Problems arises in every marriage may be its love or arrange because in arrange marriage we don't know each other except names and in which company we are working, so it takes 1 to 2 year to know each other choices and behavior. In that period of time a lot of patience is required and the key to that special bond is the most important word called "SORRY".
Like wise in love marriage from the beginning we know each other so after marriage the expectation level of each other increases rapidly, and if in the same point your behavior changes then argument takes place.
Every problem which arises should be solved within the four walls of the room without involving a third party.
So, the major thing we should have a clear chit with our partner and make clear that there is no misunderstanding within us.
|Saloni said: (Jan 10, 2019)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. It connects two peoples Hurtly and they both also feels like that they made for each other. Mutual understanding between this two peoples is better. Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life.
But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.
|Anjali said: (Jan 8, 2019)|
|Everything has pros and cons, thanks for giving me a chance, I think both are good in their place it depends on the couple, how much trust, love can they give the relation.
I prefer to love marriage because it's better to know your partner instead after getting married. No only know your partner very well his like dislike happiness sadness but the main thing is understanding which is necessary for making the relation, if she/he can support him/her their critical time, they support him/her any conditions so this relation is really appreciable.
|Naveena D said: (Jan 1, 2019)|
|Good Morning Friends,
Marriage is an important part of every human's life. It helps to keep their next career path with their life partner. So both love and arrange marriage is always provide happiness. But we first should choose the partner our life. So choice is yours.
Love is nothing but unthinkable feeling our life. It cannot explain. However, before we married we love first in our partner. That is one soul in two body's. Love provide lot of happiness. So we feel it. Truly we love our life partner. So we choose the best partner even however before or arrange marriage. But how marriage is important in our life that way is also important in our parent's life.
So parents choose our life partner then, we love our partner after marriage. Love marriage or arrange marriage anything in our life. We love really and rightly with our life partner. That is important our life.
|Libin said: (Dec 28, 2018)|
I am Libi,
Marriage is an important event in every human's life. In that, they start a life with a partner. They share their feelings, happiness, good and also bad. After marriage, running a family is an important thing, if you have money then the love was much stronger but arranged marriage you have or haven't much stronger.
Here my thought is first we want to settle then arranged and then love your wife.
|Vinayak said: (Dec 27, 2018)|
|Good afternoon everyone,
Marriage is very importantant part in social institution. My frends this is very serious and important topics about life. In love marriage both partener are kown to each other while in case of arranged marriage both partner do not know to each other. According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arranged marriage because in love marriage both partners know each other (their like, dislike etc). They do not give any blame to others in future in their life. While in arrange marriage many problems faced by the couple.
|P. Raja Sekher said: (Dec 25, 2018)|
|In My point of view, marriage is the best of our life.
When the couples are dealing with understanding our thought out life being love and affection and blessings of parents and family members and starting to happiness life of carrier.
|Kiran Gajul said: (Dec 22, 2018)|
|I think, Love is the main factor that binds two individuals. Saints and poets alike have praised it. Therefore love marriages have more chances of success because there is pre-marital understanding between the would-be couples. More often, unpleasant consequences arise only when love is obstructed or the period of courtship is very short. If love is given way to and the latter is taken care of, love marriages succeed and nothing else.|
|Jyoti Manwal said: (Dec 22, 2018)|
|First, what is marriage? Marriage means to start a new life with a loveable person who knows us very well, our likes, dislikes, and all things. So there is a two way to spend our new life 1) -love marriage and 2) - arrange marriage. So I m in a favor of love marriage. Because In love marriage we both know each other perfectly. We can understand easily. And most important thing, there will be no dowry system. No violence. And after that, we will live life happily.|
|Latchiyavani said: (Dec 19, 2018)|
In my point of view, arrange marriage is best.
Because the reason we will get more bonding in life rather than love marriage bonding.
It is a new human in our life he had entered with full of trust and love. So, arrange marriage is best.
|Himanshi said: (Dec 18, 2018)|
|All the points made other memebers either in favour, or against the two marriage customs are highly appreciated. But, in my opinion both the marriages have their own pros and con's. So, it is not like love marriages never be entertaining divorces and arrange will always do. It is the behavior that makes it all through. Behavior of the two involved in this marriage like institution.|
|Shoaib Ahmed said: (Dec 16, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is more prioritised than that of an arranged marriage in our modern period. I shall always support love marriage where a person spends easy life with a known partner. As far as I am concerned that arranged merriage has a lot of chances to be divorced by any of parties If they are merried with each other. So Love marriage is better from my side.|
|Sourabh said: (Dec 16, 2018)|
|In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage they know each other they know their likes and dislikes their future plans their interest but in arrange marriage everything is very sudden and not get time to know each other and if it is like partners are not matching their mind perspective so they both have to face problems and in the end they get to go through divorce.|
|Shalini said: (Dec 12, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we understand each other know, love, like before the marriage both partners support in every situation they standing together and the rate of divorce is very less but in arrange marriage the divorce rate is very high the reason is both partners are unknown they don't know each other and it will take too much time to understand each other their likes and dislikes sometimes both Partners are not happy for this important decision of marriage and that's the reason is love marriage is better than arrange marriage.|
|Ankit Singhania said: (Dec 2, 2018)|
|In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. There are various points for the support of this statement.
1) We are the inhabitants of India which is famous all over the world for its culture and civilization. India is known to be a pyous country who does not allow the love marriage. As we all know that love marriage is a system of the Western country. Then why we use western culture?
2) Parents are considered to be god and goddess in our Indian society. They provide food, cloth, better education. They have a lot of expectations from us. We can not break their heart by doing love marriage.
3) The divorce rate is so high for Western countries which is above 50%. Because they prefer love marriage. But in India, this divorce rate is only 1%. How? Because we prefer to arrange marriage.
After concluding all these points we came to know that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
|Nupur said: (Nov 21, 2018)|
|Good evening everyone,
So, love marriage or arrange marriage all it depends where your souls lie. Yes, in love marriages both know each other form earlier and in arrange marriage it took time to know which most the people think it may not work so lets talk about the time of our parents or grandparents where family finds spouse for them they do not even meet each other before marriage but it works well though there might be facing some problem in early stage they managed to do some compromises. So what I am trying to say its all about accepting and understanding each other. But according to my love marriage with parents consent is best.
|Naveen Malik said: (Nov 18, 2018)|
|Good afternoon everyone.
My self Naveen Malik.
In my view love marriage and arrange marriage both are ok. In love marriage, both the partners know each other very well and in arrange marriage the partners will take time to know each other. Obviously parents will choose a better half for us but still in my personal opinion love marriage has better results compared to arrange marriages.
So, in my view, love marriage has greater value in today's modernisation India.
|Gurpreet Sran said: (Nov 17, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is good, Because in arrange marriage we get a lot of support and blessings from our parents, relatives and also our society. Think about your parents' reputation before taking a step because they are like God for us.|
|Sunakshi said: (Nov 16, 2018)|
|Both the options totally depends on us if you have option of love marriage and you are able to find a appropriate person for yourself you should go for it, But if you are not you Should leave this decision on your parents they will surely find a nice guy for you.|
|Rohit Sharma said: (Nov 15, 2018)|
|Good morning friends, I am Rohit Sharma.
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life.
But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.
Now, I want to some point of views of my friends.
|Gurpreet Sran said: (Nov 4, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is good because in this marriage we get support from the two families.|
|Neha Sharma said: (Nov 2, 2018)|
|In my opinion, As I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we choose partners yourself even then we had spent lots of time with each other before the marriage so we both knew about his/her likes, dislikes & behaviour.
If we talk about arrange marriage. We don't choose our life partners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why I prefer love marriage.
Therefore love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.
|Samir Arya said: (Oct 28, 2018)|
|Hello, everyone my name is Samir.
As, I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In love marraige, we choose partners oursleves, We had spent lots of time with each other before the marraige. There is mutual understanding with our patners. We both knew about his/her likes, dislikes, behaviour. If We talk about arrange marraige, We don't choose our life patners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why. I prefare love marriage then arrange marriage.
|Vishu said: (Oct 26, 2018)|
|Good evening everyone.
Today's topic is love v/s arrange marriage.
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good for people according to the situation. First of all, what is marriage?
Marriage the understanding everything between two people who are ready to give support to each other in every situation. Love marriage is that peoples know each other perfectly (likes, dislikes, Behaviour, thinking etc) but in arrange marriage people not know each other.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because people can easily understand each other and they don't face any problem to fit in society. While in arrange marriage people cannot easily understand the nature of our partner and not easily adjustable. So I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.
|Nitin Sharma said: (Oct 25, 2018)|
|According to my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because many problems face the couple after the love marriage like money, support etc thing and our society does not get permission in love marriage.|
|Naipal Singh said: (Oct 23, 2018)|
|According to my opinion.
Both are same because the main thing is understanding between husband and wife, and now a days also in case of arrange marriage all parents are giving sufficient time to both to understand and share the thoughts. So, that they can plan everything for future very well.
If I talk about love marriage than parents should also accept the proposal of their children to make them happy. Because if anybody loves anybody than it is not impossible to forget easily. By permission of parents love marriage also can be converted to arranging one.
|U.Rajasekhar said: (Oct 14, 2018)|
In My point of view about the love marriage vs arrange marriage:.
In love marriage, both people will understand their situations family problems. Before marriage, they share their feelings and situations.
And Nowadays these love marriages take negative directions. In love stage there are comparative and matured, after marriage, they have hurt the small things also. Most of the love marriages are divorced in today's world.
In arranged marriages, both peoples are not knowing anything about our better halves. This condition takes problems in marriage life. The couples will hurt for the small things. In arranged marriages, couples are cooperative of their family responsibilities and family importance in their life.
My conclusion is both are important but our respect towards the marriage culture is important. In marriage day you promise so many things but you don't fallow such things. So both should follow their responsibilities in the marriage life.
|Shweta said: (Oct 12, 2018)|
|The marriage should have two honest people with the idea to share their life as partners like friends. Before they move on to love. Then any love or arrange marriage would be a successfull one and should have respect for each other. Throughout their journey of life.|
|Princy Jain said: (Oct 11, 2018)|
|According to me, Love marriage is far more better than Arrange marriage. Because in Love marriage one is allowed to choose his/her life partner. And the person is already known to us with whom we are going to spend our whole life. In my opinion Love marriage is better because couples can understand each other in Love marriage, they have good bonding with each other.|
|Arjun said: (Oct 9, 2018)|
|According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because couples can understand each other in love batter than that of in arrange.|
|Preeti Maurya said: (Oct 8, 2018)|
|According to my perception, love marriage is better than arrange marriage couples are understanding and bonding very high they spend whole life to each other but in arrange marriage couples are not fully attached in soul and heart so we can differ easily love marriage is better.|
|Naga Sravani Tangirala said: (Oct 7, 2018)|
|In my view, the marriage should be like love come arrange in which there should be trust in each and every individual and also a belief in the family.|
|Gourav Bamnavat said: (Oct 4, 2018)|
|I think always love marriage is 100 times best than arrange marriage. This most behind big reason.
Both parents know different cultural and casting over in India after love marriage. So please support and cooperate love marriage.
|Harender said: (Oct 3, 2018)|
|According to me, the arrange marriage is best because it is done by the happiness and blessings of parents and family members|
|Vipin Chourasiya said: (Oct 2, 2018)|
|In case of love marrriage, mostly marriage becomes b/w diffrent caste so it is better in scientific view, because more probability for gene mutation, characers improving, improving resistance from some tradition diseases, and many more advantages regarding gene theory,
While in arrange marriage betwieen same caste same DNA, less chance for improving quality of genes.
|Israt said: (Oct 1, 2018)|
|According to me, love is God gifted, it's doesn't matter you got love marriage or arrange marriage, in every marriage life love is essential, it does not fact you love someone before or after marriage fact is how much you love him/her, how much you sharing and caring.|
|Vikash Bhati said: (Sep 27, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage better choice than arranged. In it's both partners know themselves perfectly to each other by heart and they have no any kind of distraction. Otherwise, they are live more openly then the arranged couple.|
|Prince said: (Sep 26, 2018)|
|According to me, both marriages are based on the trust. Trust on parents in arranged marriages that with whom you have to spend your whole life they will choose the deserving one.|
|Sajedul said: (Sep 22, 2018)|
|If love marriage turns into arrange marriage, it will be better for the future family planning of spouse. You can love someone/anyone but you can not get married to anyone without violating your guardian permission.|
|Shankar said: (Sep 22, 2018)|
|Arranged Marriage are best because the family support and you have a pleasent life than the love marriage. Family is the first thing they brought up with the most struggle for us. So, we should accept the reality of our parents decision.|
|Susil Kumar Malik said: (Sep 20, 2018)|
|In my point of view, both are good when two people understand each of problem and solve each other other than both marriages have the trouble of life.|
|Anu Patel said: (Sep 19, 2018)|
|Hello everyone according to me love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because marriage becomes only one time each person so its special for everyone and marriage all about depends on the two-person like dislike ambition efficiency and all that if two-person already knew each other, not facing future problem etc. So, In My point of view, the love marriage is better to thank you.|
|Ranjeet Kumar said: (Sep 17, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because all parent ' wishs. My child follow me because no risk in our culture.|
|Anya said: (Sep 16, 2018)|
|According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because before marriage we know and understand with each other. But in arrange marriage our parents will bring matches and we agree to parents decision.|
|Mohit Khokhar said: (Sep 15, 2018)|
|I support the arrange marriage.
In an arranged marriage, parents do enquiry about each other family so there is a probability that the marriage will happen in the similar kind of family.
Parents or relatives will think about the future of economic conditions.
The couple most like think about both of their families so they will learn to adjust.
Family and well-wishers are still there if there happens something wrong after marriage.
|Abinash said: (Sep 15, 2018)|
In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. There is less chance of dowry during marriage and also domestic violence in the society would be less if its a love marriage. So, we should definitely encourage live marriage so that we can't get out of any trouble and enjoy the future life in safely.
|Kammy said: (Sep 3, 2018)|
|So, You basically have 3 Options - Stay as a bachelor, Find the love of your life and go for love marriage, and, finally, trust your parents in hope that they will find a best match for you i.e. going for an arranged marriage.
According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.
What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.
Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.
So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.
Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.
|Kartikey Verma said: (Sep 2, 2018)|
|In my opinion, both the topics stand equally right. In today's scenario, in arrange marriage, parents give both people ample of time to understand each other before taking a final call. This helps them to understand each other in a better way. While talking about love marriage, the understanding betwen the two persons is very high as they are together for a longer period of time and knows each other in a beter way in every aspect of life.
In my opinion, dealing with the today's scenario where the parents are supportive there is not much difference between the love and arrange marriage because in both of them you get the time to know your partner.
Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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