Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Manasa said:   6 years ago
No matter if it is love or arranged marriage. If they maintain mutual understanding in life and if both partners respectful, patient, love each other it leads to a happy life. It is a matter of two persons as well as their families to be loved. According to the India divorce list, love marriages are getting divorced more than an arranged marriage. Mostly in love marriages people are not maintaining there relationship till end of life. You have many reasons to love him/her before marriage and people should not find reasons to get divorce after marriage the love at starting should be maintained till the end of life. If both partners are in love till the end of life apart of love or arranged marriage they lead happy life.
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Naveena D said:   8 years ago
Good Morning Friends.

According to me, Love and Arranged marriage is better. Both of the equal role-playing in our life. Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Because after marriage they are fall in love. They are start their life with the security. This is most beautiful life.

Love marriage is good one. Because they are fall in love. Those days is most happiest days. But their parents will never agree their love. Then so many problems will be create. So love marriage will be affect both of their family.

So arranged marriage is better. Because both of the family members will be happy. And other thing is love and arranged marriage is also better. If their family agree their love. Then it will be better.
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Pooja said:   8 years ago
According to my point of view, Both types of marriages are right on their places because, basically marriage is the collaboration, union between two respective families which are combined by two people, the agreement between two families causes the new relationship between two people.

Basically arranged marriage is the tradition in our country. Where two unknown people are spending their lives together with the agreement of their respective families, tradition, nature. They spend their lives to gather. But at some point, if husband and wife's thoughts not matched then it will become the big issues between their families and it may affect on family, their tradition also and causes the end of the relationship.
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Devendra Singh said:   6 years ago
I'm Devendra Singh.

Firstly, I want to say. Love and arrange marriage both have merit and demerit.

If we talk about arrange marriage.

This is India and in India marriage connects two families.

Mostly, Arrange marriage makes the family happy. But some time Love marriage doesn't make the family happy. In that case, family don't' support us. If our family would not support us. Then we can't go happy. After taking Love marriage we will have to face many difficulties. Then we require the help of our family.

At last, I want to say that I'm against the love marriage.

Because everything that can not make my family. I don't want to do so.

Now it depends on you that you want to make your family happy or unhappy.
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GAURAV KASHYAP said:   5 years ago
Hello, gentlemen, this is GAURAV in front of you and now I'm going to talk about love marriage vs arrange marriage marriage is the most important event of everyone's life when I talk about love marriage we have thousands of options to choose our partner but if we see against it there is only a handful option.

When we talk about understanding as we all know that in love we know all the activities such as likes or dislikes but if we talk about arrange marriage it's not possible.

Love marriage is only one way to demolish the cast system and dowry systems which have been playing for a long time.

In my point of views, the love marriage is much more better than that one.

Thank you to go through patiently.
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Sanju Ghasal said:   7 years ago
Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families. Whether it is arranged marriage or love marriage, it will be successful only if both the partners are serious and honest in the relationship. It's only depends on their trust, care and understanding between them. In love marriage, one has already known one's partner's likes, dislikes and all about him. In arrange marriage, we can take time to learn about each other before marriage which is a sign of evolving society. Life partner must be selected according our own will, not by force but also allowance with our parents. Parents are the most important part of our life. We can't spend our life happily to hurt them.
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Radhika Tarika said:   6 years ago
According to my opinion, both marriages have merits and demerits we can not say that love marriage doesn't fail and arrange marriage doesn't have a happy life we need to love and care for a happy marriage life whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. I saw many peoples who had a love marriage and they are not happy. In love marriage, we know each other before marriage and in arrange marriage we are going to know each other after marriage that's the only difference between both marriages. Both marriages should have understanding and love and also we must have patience because every marriage has ups and downs. Both marriages is a new and happy part of our life so we should live not to spoil it.
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Atul kumar said:   8 years ago
Marriage, a sacred knot for the rest of our life after the day it took place. The basic requirement is to have love affection and care for our partner. And if it's a love marriage, we are fulfilling the basic requirements before hand. The rest depends on the partners in action or on their bonhomie or how easily and maturely they cope with each other. So, I prefer love over arranged one.

However, there are certain difficulties for the case which I prefer and it's caste or religion in most of the cases. But if we reconsider over it then we will find that actually, these are the vices that are weakening our nation, rather humanity. So, we should support humanity and even our nation as much as possible.
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Nisha verma said:   4 years ago
Hii everyone.

My name is Nisha and today topic is love vs arranged marriage.

Advantages:

My opinion is love and arranged both are good and both bad because love marriage know perfectly.

Each other and both parents understand feelings and situations and strong bonding and arranged marriage don't know each other new couple and new family.

Disadvantage.

Love marriage after that any issue of the couple than divorce and separate both are and arranged marriage don't know each other's not understand feeling sadness and happiness.

In my point of view, both are marriage not successful only matter three things.

Love.
Happyness.
Understanding each other than automatic good life enjoy.

Thanks everyone.
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Anurag said:   3 months ago
Good evening friends.

The topic of love and arrange marriage is quite relevant in our society, where both systems co- exist. Love marriage allows individual to choose their life partner based on emotional understanding and shared values, which can lead to stronger comparability. On the other hand, arranged marriage are often backed by families, ensuring social and cultural alignment, and offering a strong support system.

Whether LOVE or Arrange a successful marriage depends on how well the two individual handle challenges, mutual respect, communication, adjust with each other and grow together. In fact in modern India is increasingly embracing LOVE-CUM-ARRANGED which brings the best of both world.
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