Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Tripti Rathore said:
9 years ago
I felt really bad after I see this vs between the two. What people meant with love marriage-marrying someone with love and knowing the person very well irrespective of parents choice. Arrange marriage-marriage with more involvement from parents.
Love never see love marriage or arrange it just happens after or before marriage. It can happen to anybody any part of your life with your partner. Never got in confusion like this that love marriage is only having love more than arrange, it is ambiguous in nature. Just depends on person to person. If a person knows how to love definitely he/she would love his/her, partner, anyway.
Life is beautiful love is beautiful. Marriage itself is a beautiful thing.
Love never see love marriage or arrange it just happens after or before marriage. It can happen to anybody any part of your life with your partner. Never got in confusion like this that love marriage is only having love more than arrange, it is ambiguous in nature. Just depends on person to person. If a person knows how to love definitely he/she would love his/her, partner, anyway.
Life is beautiful love is beautiful. Marriage itself is a beautiful thing.
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Sameena said:
1 year ago
First of all, we can't say which marriage is better than the other.
Because there were people who were happy in their love marriage & there were few people who were happy in arranged marriages.
But in my point of view, I would like to choose a love marriage.
In a love marriage, we already know the person very well as we have spent quality time with them before. And they support us in every situation. Even if they have conflicts in between relationship they will sort them out by themself, they won't give a chance to a third person to ruin their life. In a love marriage, a girl can live an independent life. Rest of their life they can live happily as they want without any restrictions.
Because there were people who were happy in their love marriage & there were few people who were happy in arranged marriages.
But in my point of view, I would like to choose a love marriage.
In a love marriage, we already know the person very well as we have spent quality time with them before. And they support us in every situation. Even if they have conflicts in between relationship they will sort them out by themself, they won't give a chance to a third person to ruin their life. In a love marriage, a girl can live an independent life. Rest of their life they can live happily as they want without any restrictions.
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Afina shamsudeen said:
7 years ago
Hi friends.
I'm a girl of just 18 years old. I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. I think it depends on the nature of the people who are getting married, the longevity and prosperity of their married life. But I have an opinion of life is not a mere fantasy, I mean it gives pleasure for us to read an ideal true relationship in stories. But life is not a theory to be stated theoretically, rather it has a lot to do in practice. So I do believe in love, true love after marriage. It believes it will give the very same pleasure that a good love affair can give and it's so comforting to have a relationship after marriage with the partner.
Thanks. Have a nice time.
I'm a girl of just 18 years old. I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. I think it depends on the nature of the people who are getting married, the longevity and prosperity of their married life. But I have an opinion of life is not a mere fantasy, I mean it gives pleasure for us to read an ideal true relationship in stories. But life is not a theory to be stated theoretically, rather it has a lot to do in practice. So I do believe in love, true love after marriage. It believes it will give the very same pleasure that a good love affair can give and it's so comforting to have a relationship after marriage with the partner.
Thanks. Have a nice time.
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Malini said:
7 years ago
Hello everyone!
According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.
So family support is most necessary if not.
Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.
Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.
Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.
Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.
According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.
So family support is most necessary if not.
Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.
Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.
Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.
Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.
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Abhishek said:
8 years ago
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person, not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previously there was a lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.
In love marriage, you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they judge you by your physical appearance.
Most of the people have the wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get boring after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have a better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.
In love marriage, you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they judge you by your physical appearance.
Most of the people have the wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get boring after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have a better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.
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Ms Rakshit said:
8 years ago
According to me, marriage is not only a bonding of two people but also it is a bonding of two families. Marriage is more about knowing each other, respect each other. If you want to make a successful marriage life you should have enough understanding power and adjusting capability. In love marriage, you have the opportunity to know each other's family members, their cultures etc. So that, you can adjust easily. But in an arranged marriage, these things are not possible. Moreover, some arranged marriage demands dowry which is a social curse. But every arranged marriage is not bad and vice versa. If two persons have enough love, respect, adjusting ability then it will become successful.
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AIRMAN PAWAN SAINI said:
4 years ago
Hello Friends.
Today we are discussing the topic.
" Love marriage vs Arrange marriage ".
Although in India Arrange marriage is most successful but in my opinion love marriage is best. In love marriage, both partners knew very well to each other before they get married. There doesn't matter of caste whom to your love & lack chance of dispute.
If in future Relationships not very well then they are self-responsible for it, instead of blaming on their Parents & Relatives.
Conclusion:
Both love marriage & Arrange marriage may succeed & can be longer if Both Partners loyal, satisfied& not misunderstanding to each other.
This is the point of my side.
Thank you.
Today we are discussing the topic.
" Love marriage vs Arrange marriage ".
Although in India Arrange marriage is most successful but in my opinion love marriage is best. In love marriage, both partners knew very well to each other before they get married. There doesn't matter of caste whom to your love & lack chance of dispute.
If in future Relationships not very well then they are self-responsible for it, instead of blaming on their Parents & Relatives.
Conclusion:
Both love marriage & Arrange marriage may succeed & can be longer if Both Partners loyal, satisfied& not misunderstanding to each other.
This is the point of my side.
Thank you.
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Uday said:
5 years ago
Good evening,
I am here to say my views on today's discussion Love marriage vs Arrange marriage.
In India, we use a verb about marriage that is "marriages are made in heaven ". In my view, both marriages have their own importance. I say that arranged marriages are better than love marriages because in love marriages the motto is only loving and caring but it doesn't teach the life struggles and when one faces this many take up the wrong decisions. But this will not happen in arrange marriages because our parents know when is the right time for marriage and check all the details of other families then sets us marriage here one will develop responsibility and know their duties.
I am here to say my views on today's discussion Love marriage vs Arrange marriage.
In India, we use a verb about marriage that is "marriages are made in heaven ". In my view, both marriages have their own importance. I say that arranged marriages are better than love marriages because in love marriages the motto is only loving and caring but it doesn't teach the life struggles and when one faces this many take up the wrong decisions. But this will not happen in arrange marriages because our parents know when is the right time for marriage and check all the details of other families then sets us marriage here one will develop responsibility and know their duties.
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Shalu said:
9 years ago
I would say, if you have chosen your partner wisely, not blindly fallen in love with someone so that you can't see what are his or her intentions, then love marriage is good. Because you know your partner's expectations, you build that understanding which keeps your efforts high towards the partner. Loving someone and getting love in return means a lot. Then you just need to convince your parents. Love marriage is not a crime. I just don't get why parents react like it's a crime. If they love us, they should support us and fight with people who are against it instead of fighting with us for those people who only pulls your leg down, never appreciate you when you are going up.
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Namdev said:
8 years ago
Hello everyone.
According to my point of view,
Arrange marriage is best for maintain relation ship both. Arrange marriage are also permit by our parents I think parents plays best role in our life then why we avoid thinking about marriage. If they will agree love marriage then no problem but your parent are ignore for love marriage and you are doing love marriage it's not good for breaking hearts of our parents. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both. I think many when doing love marriage that women don't want and like his mother-in-law and fatherinlaw she want to live in single and different then the start problem breaking heart of parents.
According to my point of view,
Arrange marriage is best for maintain relation ship both. Arrange marriage are also permit by our parents I think parents plays best role in our life then why we avoid thinking about marriage. If they will agree love marriage then no problem but your parent are ignore for love marriage and you are doing love marriage it's not good for breaking hearts of our parents. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both. I think many when doing love marriage that women don't want and like his mother-in-law and fatherinlaw she want to live in single and different then the start problem breaking heart of parents.
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