Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Malika said:
7 years ago
I think LOVE MARRIAGE is better than ARRANGED MARRIAGE because in my point of view marriage means a union between man and woman. Union means the action of joining together. Love means a strong feeling of affection, that affection makes both perfect. In love marriage there is a mutual understanding between the couple, That makes them happy.
Not only LOVE MARRIAGES Even ARRANGED MARRIAGES have the same affection but some of them are not adjusted, rest of the remaining are so HAPPY.
I am not discouraged ARRANGED MARRIAGES and I am also not Encouraged LOVE MARRIAGES because LOVE happens at any time to anyone so don't judge that marriage is so good that type of marriage is bad.
Not only LOVE MARRIAGES Even ARRANGED MARRIAGES have the same affection but some of them are not adjusted, rest of the remaining are so HAPPY.
I am not discouraged ARRANGED MARRIAGES and I am also not Encouraged LOVE MARRIAGES because LOVE happens at any time to anyone so don't judge that marriage is so good that type of marriage is bad.
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SHIWANI said:
8 years ago
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previosly there was lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.
In love marriage you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they jaudge you by your physical appearance.
Most of the people have wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get bored after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.
In love marriage you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they jaudge you by your physical appearance.
Most of the people have wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get bored after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.
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Tanya b. said:
7 years ago
For a marriage to be successful, I believe that few things are inmportant.
1. You should know your partner well. Of course, some arranged marriages work too, but I believe that Proper friendship and understanding is needed between two human beings for a marriage or union to work for life.
2, your family and their family should agree. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. If your family is giving you a hard time, then you must give them time and gently make them understand you point of view.
For this, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner.
1. You should know your partner well. Of course, some arranged marriages work too, but I believe that Proper friendship and understanding is needed between two human beings for a marriage or union to work for life.
2, your family and their family should agree. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. If your family is giving you a hard time, then you must give them time and gently make them understand you point of view.
For this, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner.
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Snigdha said:
8 years ago
Hi, everyone.
In my opinion, love marriage is better than a arrange marriage. Because in a love marriage already we have an idea about that person like his or her likes, dislikes. And from a long time, we have been cooperating with each other and that will remain for forwarding life also. So it's not about love also about mutual understanding in between two beautiful persons who will become a life partner. Life is not for a short span. Marriage is a vehicle and the wife and spouse are two wheels of that. So if there will no cooperation with each other that vehicle will face accident. So for such vehicle, it's important to know each other and love each other externally.
In my opinion, love marriage is better than a arrange marriage. Because in a love marriage already we have an idea about that person like his or her likes, dislikes. And from a long time, we have been cooperating with each other and that will remain for forwarding life also. So it's not about love also about mutual understanding in between two beautiful persons who will become a life partner. Life is not for a short span. Marriage is a vehicle and the wife and spouse are two wheels of that. So if there will no cooperation with each other that vehicle will face accident. So for such vehicle, it's important to know each other and love each other externally.
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Ajay chaudhary said:
7 years ago
In my point of view, arrange marriage is preferred to love marriage in arrange marriage couples are respected by their socity and their family sport them strongly in present time every family gives enough time to their children for understanding to each other before marriage and parents always choose the best for their children and there is no quarrel among the members in arrange marriage and further generation of couples are nicely affected by arranging marriage after all I want to say that according to Indian civilization arrange marriage more acceptable than love marriage and arrange marriage follows a systematic order so arrange marriage preferable to love marriage.
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Vijaykumar s said:
8 years ago
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because love marriage is an easy way to understand the two hearts and it is I mean love means an agreement between two hearts. In love marriage, they can easily understand each other and respect each other and it is also one of the ways of creating or bonding the two families but arrange marriage is also good but in arrange marriage couples can't understand each other immediately it will take more to just adjustment between each other. IN arrange marriage they know each other after marriage but in love marriage, both are very close and they are knowing about each other perfectly by their love feelings.
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Mithilesh said:
8 years ago
In my opinion whether there is love marriage or arrange marriage the only thing which is important is understanding between husband and wife. If they understand each other than their life defiantly be heaven.
Similarly if understand b/w husband and wife not good than their life surely become hell.
If you find your lover with whom you can spent whole life then you should go through love marriage. And if not then go through arranged marriage then, let it put to the god hand, who knows there will be one of the happiest couple.
And at last I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also can be happen after marriage.
Similarly if understand b/w husband and wife not good than their life surely become hell.
If you find your lover with whom you can spent whole life then you should go through love marriage. And if not then go through arranged marriage then, let it put to the god hand, who knows there will be one of the happiest couple.
And at last I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also can be happen after marriage.
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RISHU MISHRA said:
4 years ago
Hello guys,
Today our topic is, "Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage".
As my point of view, that marriage types are not important but relations are important to each other, if we ignore parents suggestion about arrange marriage, may be possible to break the relation between them and if we agree with parents and if we love to anyone them there is also break the relation between them.
In both divorce also possible, no issue that why? but if it is possible for any reason.
So, we understand all situations and after that, we decide that I also agree with arrange marriage better than love marriage due to relation with father is more important than love.
Thank you,
Today our topic is, "Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage".
As my point of view, that marriage types are not important but relations are important to each other, if we ignore parents suggestion about arrange marriage, may be possible to break the relation between them and if we agree with parents and if we love to anyone them there is also break the relation between them.
In both divorce also possible, no issue that why? but if it is possible for any reason.
So, we understand all situations and after that, we decide that I also agree with arrange marriage better than love marriage due to relation with father is more important than love.
Thank you,
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Preethi Baskaran said:
8 years ago
Hai, I'm Preethi Baskaran from India.
Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.
Thanks.
Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.
Thanks.
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Pritam g said:
7 years ago
According to me, love Marriage and arrange marriage both are equally depend on the understanding I don't know more about on both matter but recently I saw two couples married with love relationship and I shocked no one understands to each other no any bounding in both couple who always beating and diputing to each other and both have equally ego and no one can hear the word of each other. No family members are involved in the husband wife matter because it was the love Marriage. So we can say that if you want to take support of year family fast of all you have to do the arrange Marriage. It is not only arrange Marriage it is mutual combination of two families.
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