Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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MegalaRanganath said:
5 years ago
According to me either love marriage or arranged marriage.
It depends on men & women who need to understand each other what is marriage how to handle a men & women, she leaves everything and stays with a man for life long because she believes a lot that the husband is one will look everything to her after her parents. Some love marriage also will end with divorce because of no mutual understanding also no proper support from both the families even arranged marriages also will have problems. Marriage means its new relationship which we can live together at any situation with happy where we can build a new family of ours like husband, wife & kids.
It depends on men & women who need to understand each other what is marriage how to handle a men & women, she leaves everything and stays with a man for life long because she believes a lot that the husband is one will look everything to her after her parents. Some love marriage also will end with divorce because of no mutual understanding also no proper support from both the families even arranged marriages also will have problems. Marriage means its new relationship which we can live together at any situation with happy where we can build a new family of ours like husband, wife & kids.
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Manoj said:
5 years ago
Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heart wrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. At last, Marriages are made in heaven.
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Firoj khan said:
5 years ago
Marriage is a connection of the two soul.
It is a very important part of life. We need a partner in life they help each other in difficult situations. In love marriage, we know our partners before marriage and we understand each other very well as well as we know how to react in different condition. But in arrange marriage we not know each other before and we take some time and our likes and dislike may be different as well as our understanding and behaviour may be different. In arrange marriage not only join two couple but also join two families. The most important thing in marriage is understanding behaviour and how can they stand in a difficult time.
It is a very important part of life. We need a partner in life they help each other in difficult situations. In love marriage, we know our partners before marriage and we understand each other very well as well as we know how to react in different condition. But in arrange marriage we not know each other before and we take some time and our likes and dislike may be different as well as our understanding and behaviour may be different. In arrange marriage not only join two couple but also join two families. The most important thing in marriage is understanding behaviour and how can they stand in a difficult time.
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JITENDRA KUMAWAT said:
7 years ago
Hello, friends.
According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage both couples know each other very well before marriage.
And in love marriage, the person does not regret his decisions because both couples are decided partner after knowing each other.
But arranged marriage has a different meaning.
In arrange marriage, both couple's parents decide a better match for him.
And both couples didn't know each other.
If their hobbies, Choice and behaviour is not matched then came a difficulty between both families and couples and finally it' lead to divorce.
So according to me, I like love marriage.
Thanks.
According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage both couples know each other very well before marriage.
And in love marriage, the person does not regret his decisions because both couples are decided partner after knowing each other.
But arranged marriage has a different meaning.
In arrange marriage, both couple's parents decide a better match for him.
And both couples didn't know each other.
If their hobbies, Choice and behaviour is not matched then came a difficulty between both families and couples and finally it' lead to divorce.
So according to me, I like love marriage.
Thanks.
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Ruchita Sonkusare said:
7 years ago
Hello friends,
I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.
Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.
Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.
In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.
Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.
I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.
Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.
Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.
In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.
Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.
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Nilofar Kurshith K said:
1 year ago
In my point of view, marriage is a basic point of starting a life between two people it's taken time to understand each other as well, no ego and try to solve your problems with each other don't include third-person it's ruining your marriage life. Love marriage is knowing about each other like likes or dislikes, fighting how you behave in front of each other your flaws and getting married.
In an arranged marriage, parents will take care of each other responsibilities they will select according to status background etc then getting married each other and talk to the person step by step so they know each other after all the time and places.
Thank you.
In an arranged marriage, parents will take care of each other responsibilities they will select according to status background etc then getting married each other and talk to the person step by step so they know each other after all the time and places.
Thank you.
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Shiraja said:
4 months ago
Hi, I am Shiraja.
My point of view would be I am not against love or arranged marriage because it all ends with marriage, the partner, compatibility, the green flag or reg flag whataver and more than this everyone has to end up in commitment with family and partner. So, basically I think love reperesent indenpendent your values, respect and also whome you chose. But in arrange for luxury, settled, two family loving each other thats all.
I prefer a love marriage.
Because I believe if the two person's soul is united this universe will fight for them to get married.
Being typically arranged is like getting settled and no masala.
Have a good day, guys.
My point of view would be I am not against love or arranged marriage because it all ends with marriage, the partner, compatibility, the green flag or reg flag whataver and more than this everyone has to end up in commitment with family and partner. So, basically I think love reperesent indenpendent your values, respect and also whome you chose. But in arrange for luxury, settled, two family loving each other thats all.
I prefer a love marriage.
Because I believe if the two person's soul is united this universe will fight for them to get married.
Being typically arranged is like getting settled and no masala.
Have a good day, guys.
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M.karthikeyan said:
9 years ago
Love marriage is the best because the understanding between the two members should been good in this relation during loving period both know their characters fully it helps to after marriage both are involve I small fights because the fight makes the relationship between two members stronger and stronger fully one of the person either boy or girl apologies each other as a result relation should be been stronger I love marriage.
In arrange marriage in between the six months both boy and a girl are acting each other but I love marriage no.
Parents also support love marriage then arrange marriage.
But some parents only.
Because of in caste marriage.
In arrange marriage in between the six months both boy and a girl are acting each other but I love marriage no.
Parents also support love marriage then arrange marriage.
But some parents only.
Because of in caste marriage.
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Kartikey verma said:
7 years ago
In my opinion, both the topics stand equally right. In today's scenario, in arrange marriage, parents give both people ample of time to understand each other before taking a final call. This helps them to understand each other in a better way. While talking about love marriage, the understanding betwen the two persons is very high as they are together for a longer period of time and knows each other in a beter way in every aspect of life.
In my opinion, dealing with the today's scenario where the parents are supportive there is not much difference between the love and arrange marriage because in both of them you get the time to know your partner.
In my opinion, dealing with the today's scenario where the parents are supportive there is not much difference between the love and arrange marriage because in both of them you get the time to know your partner.
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Yukta said:
5 years ago
Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heartwrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. #Marraiges are made in heaven.
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