Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Manoj kumar said:
5 years ago
Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heartwrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. #Marraiges are made in heaven.
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Rajneeshmishra said:
6 years ago
Hi everyone.
My name is Rajneesh Mishra.
According to my point of views, both have merits and demerits. In love marriage both partner understand their feeling like and dislike it is plus point of love marriage but afterwards their relationship bounding is not same as before. Mostly divorce case happen in love marriage so at your own place both are right. In case of arrange marriage both partner does not understand each other. So it takes time for Harmony and he cannot show your feeling and both are feeling as shy. So some disadvantage in love marriage. So every type of marriage does not perfect we should have love emotions and respect.
My name is Rajneesh Mishra.
According to my point of views, both have merits and demerits. In love marriage both partner understand their feeling like and dislike it is plus point of love marriage but afterwards their relationship bounding is not same as before. Mostly divorce case happen in love marriage so at your own place both are right. In case of arrange marriage both partner does not understand each other. So it takes time for Harmony and he cannot show your feeling and both are feeling as shy. So some disadvantage in love marriage. So every type of marriage does not perfect we should have love emotions and respect.
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Sai velpuri said:
9 years ago
Sai: Hi friends. In my point of view, love marriage is the best one because they understand very well before the marriage. Particularly summing of two different religions it leads to unity in society. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. But in arrange marriage parents choose the bride/groom by seeing the appearance, wealth, job etc. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage we will be happy when we vanish our ego with soft nature. Yes particularly patience is very important in marriage life. Few members said arrange marriage can bond two families but love marriage can bond two religions or different castes.
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Akash said:
8 years ago
Hi, friends. This is Akash. In my point of view, love marriage is better when compared with the arranged marriages because arranged marriages are just like buying a product in Amazon or Flipkart as we are searching for the person with whom we want to share our future. Is it so pity that we have to leave our 3/4th of life with the person whom we choose just like a product in any app. But in case of love marriages, they will have a mutual understanding between each other and they are matured enough to take decisions rather than loving blindly. They have guts to satisfy their parents then only they have to step forward to love with others.
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Nupur said:
7 years ago
Good evening everyone,
So, love marriage or arrange marriage all it depends where your souls lie. Yes, in love marriages both know each other form earlier and in arrange marriage it took time to know which most the people think it may not work so lets talk about the time of our parents or grandparents where family finds spouse for them they do not even meet each other before marriage but it works well though there might be facing some problem in early stage they managed to do some compromises. So what I am trying to say its all about accepting and understanding each other. But according to my love marriage with parents consent is best.
So, love marriage or arrange marriage all it depends where your souls lie. Yes, in love marriages both know each other form earlier and in arrange marriage it took time to know which most the people think it may not work so lets talk about the time of our parents or grandparents where family finds spouse for them they do not even meet each other before marriage but it works well though there might be facing some problem in early stage they managed to do some compromises. So what I am trying to say its all about accepting and understanding each other. But according to my love marriage with parents consent is best.
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Neha said:
8 years ago
It's not about LOVE marriage or Arrange marriage. Failure happens in both cases. Out of my 4 cousins, 2 had arranged marriage and they are very happy. One cousin had LOVE marriage (after relation of 3 years) and they are planning for divorce, after 2 years of marriage, 4th cousin is happy in their LOVE marriage.
Life before marriage is totally different, When you date someone you will always try to impress each other with your positive things and you try to hide your negative side. This happens in both cases LOVE and ARRANGED marriage.
Remember below things for successful marriage.
Honesty, respect and commitment, person space.
Life before marriage is totally different, When you date someone you will always try to impress each other with your positive things and you try to hide your negative side. This happens in both cases LOVE and ARRANGED marriage.
Remember below things for successful marriage.
Honesty, respect and commitment, person space.
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Abc said:
7 years ago
As you know both marriages is good no one is bad it totally depends on your mentality, according to me both marriages are important but in love marriage, its depend on your personality but I know many love marriage is a success but many families are supportive. Those family who is educated and understand your feelings then support you.
In arrange marriage, both couples are unknown to each other but your family is very happy. After marriage, they are in love and its love is very deep and it does not depend on your personality it's your nature.
So guys in both situations, marriage is good and its own place their own importance.
In arrange marriage, both couples are unknown to each other but your family is very happy. After marriage, they are in love and its love is very deep and it does not depend on your personality it's your nature.
So guys in both situations, marriage is good and its own place their own importance.
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Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha said:
7 years ago
Hello everyone.
Good morning all my dear friends.
Myself Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha.
Today topic is Love Marriage Vs Arrange Marriage.
I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partners before marriage. Generally, both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambition etc and they already idea about their future. In love marriage, the most important factor is that destroy the dowry system.
LOVE IS GIFT OF GOD.
That's why I supported LOVE MARRIAGE.
THANK YOU.
Good morning all my dear friends.
Myself Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha.
Today topic is Love Marriage Vs Arrange Marriage.
I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partners before marriage. Generally, both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambition etc and they already idea about their future. In love marriage, the most important factor is that destroy the dowry system.
LOVE IS GIFT OF GOD.
That's why I supported LOVE MARRIAGE.
THANK YOU.
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Jack said:
8 years ago
The one who loves you and whom you love back.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
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Nancy said:
8 years ago
In my opinion,
Both are good but arrange marriage is better for our Indian society.
If we prefer love marriage against our parents and that marriage for some reason didn't last for long years then we would be in no condition to go back to our parent's house as they won't accept us. If in case they will, then society won't let them live happily. It will create a problem only for our parents.
In case of arranged marriage, at least if the marriage for some reason didn't last for long, parents will take us back as they chose that guy for you and it was their mistake.
For me, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
Both are good but arrange marriage is better for our Indian society.
If we prefer love marriage against our parents and that marriage for some reason didn't last for long years then we would be in no condition to go back to our parent's house as they won't accept us. If in case they will, then society won't let them live happily. It will create a problem only for our parents.
In case of arranged marriage, at least if the marriage for some reason didn't last for long, parents will take us back as they chose that guy for you and it was their mistake.
For me, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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