Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Rani Kumari said:   5 years ago
Hi,

Everyone I am Rani Kumari Today's topic is Arrange Marriage VS Love Marriage.

Now, we will start the discussion.

In my opinion, Love marriage is a better choice than arrange marriage if we already in love with someone otherwise go with the arranged marriage but with the condition that at first, both the partners take their own time to know each other very well about there both the good or bad things.

Because a healthy and long relationship needs the understanding, trust, respect, best friendship and unconditional Love.

Generally, which is found in love marriage but not every time in arrange marriage.

Thank you.
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Gaddala Vinay Kumar said:   8 years ago
Hi friends, myself Vinay Kumar Gaddala.

In my way, both are same but one thing is understanding is important between couples. If there is no understanding any relation will break up either it love marriage or arranged marriage. But in love, both persons spend their time for each other that may help to understand each other. But in arranged marriages, there is no conversation between both couples before marriage in past. Nowadays, after marriage fixing they making conversation themselves.

What I mean to say is understanding play an important role in life either it love or arranged marriage.

Thank you.
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Patatu said:   8 years ago
Good morning everyone:

Today we have good topic for discussion i.e. love marriage vs arrange marriage.

In love marriage, both he and she become first friend after they are cared for each other and entered into commitment, while they are building a career.

But in arrange marriage, parents choosing a partner for her child after completion of their career and when they are settled down. After marriage, they become friends and then they entered into their life so that they are wasted there half-life for understanding each other and commitment.

So in my point of view love marriage is best!.

Good luck.
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Sheyan Swaraj said:   8 years ago
Hi, Friends.

As I think Love Marriage is more successful than Arrange Marriage because in love marriage there is only devotion.

And reliance between the couples. In it, they choose their life partner, it means.

That they can relinquish their life for their partner and completely confess the responsibilities of their partner. It makes them firm for handling the marriage & assist them in leading a peaceful life. They do really love each other. So they can face the difficulties together easily and exist their life happily. In this way, we can say that love marriage is perfect in this modern era.
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Adarsh Pandey said:   8 years ago
Love marriage is far better than the arrange marriage because,

Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.

Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.

And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.

This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.
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Sharmi said:   6 years ago
Hi.

In my point of view, love marriage can also need to be achieved with parents support its best thing I see. In love marriage we can understand our partner very well because of no compulsion when the relation can achieve their understanding without any compulsion its a very best relation I think so, that's can be achieved in love marriage. Instead of love marriage, the arranged marriage can be mostly done by their parents wish. There is no acknowledge about each other, So, I think it may lead to many divorces nowadays. The only think I wish to say anywhere "UNDERSTANDING CAN MAKE US EACH OTHER".
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Randi said:   7 years ago
Hello everyone,

Talking about love marriage generally both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambitions etc and they have already had an idea about their future. Both the partners had already opened to each other and also they have evaluated their relationship before marriage how long can they take up. All these things are not possible in arrange marriage. Some of the times in arrange marriage one agrees to get married because of their parents. Love marriage gives you the freedom to decide the path of your life. So love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
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Shalini said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we understand each other know, love, like before the marriage both partners support in every situation they standing together and the rate of divorce is very less but in arrange marriage the divorce rate is very high the reason is both partners are unknown they don't know each other and it will take too much time to understand each other their likes and dislikes sometimes both Partners are not happy for this important decision of marriage and that's the reason is love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
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OVIYA said:   3 years ago
Marriage is a commitment btw 2 souls and 2 families.

ARRANGE MARRIAGE:

Our parents know what is good for us, they won't think to destroy our lives. Though we don't know each other we have to understand each other feelings and commence to love them.

Love marriage:

Getting an understanding partner is really important. We can understand each other and we won't blame our parents for any problem because it's our choice and we know how to compromise with each other.

Conclusion:

Both marriages have equal importance. It depends upon how you understand your partner's feelings and adjust to them.
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Reddy said:   8 years ago
In my view, Arranged Marriages is more better than Love Marriages. AM always make us more responsible that leads to life move forward in a blessed way and both partners work hard and without ego's for the bright features. AM also more secure bc we have lot of support from both bride& groom families.

In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
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