Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Shalini said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we understand each other know, love, like before the marriage both partners support in every situation they standing together and the rate of divorce is very less but in arrange marriage the divorce rate is very high the reason is both partners are unknown they don't know each other and it will take too much time to understand each other their likes and dislikes sometimes both Partners are not happy for this important decision of marriage and that's the reason is love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
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OVIYA said:   4 years ago
Marriage is a commitment btw 2 souls and 2 families.

ARRANGE MARRIAGE:

Our parents know what is good for us, they won't think to destroy our lives. Though we don't know each other we have to understand each other feelings and commence to love them.

Love marriage:

Getting an understanding partner is really important. We can understand each other and we won't blame our parents for any problem because it's our choice and we know how to compromise with each other.

Conclusion:

Both marriages have equal importance. It depends upon how you understand your partner's feelings and adjust to them.
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Reddy said:   9 years ago
In my view, Arranged Marriages is more better than Love Marriages. AM always make us more responsible that leads to life move forward in a blessed way and both partners work hard and without ego's for the bright features. AM also more secure bc we have lot of support from both bride& groom families.

In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
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Sravan Kumar B said:   9 years ago
Both Types has their Pros & Cons.

I support Arranged marriage, Marriage is not Just an individual matter, it's of a Family.

You can find partner from the Family of same Financial status.

You can find partner from same culture & type of Family.

Its is not that you are forcefully married, You have choice to choose within the scope.

Attraction or infatuation or even LOVE cannot withhold relations, it does need money, commitment.

I feel Commitment & money can be guaranteed in Arranged marriage, unlike Love marriage.

I left my parents for my Love which haunts me. Till death.
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Urman khan said:   8 years ago
Hello friends.

Myself Urman Khan.

According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.

And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.

But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.

And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.

Love is life.

Thank you.
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Yogesh jadaun said:   6 years ago
Now we are going to discuss on the topic of Love marriage vs Arrange marriage.

Dear friends, in my opinion in love marriage both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other but as far as I am concerned to arrange marriage is not a contract between two individual but a relationship of two families.

Love married couple can help in removing social evil like dowry system with their mutual concern.

So, as far as, I concerned love marriage is better than arrange marriage in my opinion.

That's all my thought about this topic.

Thank you.
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Neha Joe said:   9 years ago
Hi. I believe the success of both love and arranged marriage depends on the life partners who are bound in this beautiful institution. Marriage is all about adjustments and compromises with each other. So it is better to adjust with the person you know already than adjusting with a stranger whom you have seen once or twice before marriage. So if you can't adjust with the person your parents found for you, then aren't you disappointing them? It is better to convince your parents and adjust and live with the person you love because, at the end of the day, it is only you who is affected.
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Rachel said:   8 years ago
Here people are discussing getting respect through arrange marriage, but in my point of view, we should change our mentality. Intercast marriage is fine and loving some other person is fine too. Having sex before marriage is fine. By arrange marriage you only can earn respect for narrow-minded people. Bored minded people will respect you by your behaviour and work. There nothing wrong in love marriage. Noone has to decide rule for other. No book has written such rules. Just live for life by your rules. And if people don't respect the girl you love they should not mean to you anymore.
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Neha sharma said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, As I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we choose partners yourself even then we had spent lots of time with each other before the marriage so we both knew about his/her likes, dislikes & behaviour.

If we talk about arrange marriage. We don't choose our life partners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why I prefer love marriage.

Therefore love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.
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Monalisa sarangi said:   8 years ago
I don't have any idea of love marriage because mine is arranged but I can say from my experience that in arrange marriage you didn't get enough time to know each other (my opinion) and after that adjusting yourself with someone whom you don't know properly and his parents is just a very hard task. Well, in this case, you have only one plus point that you could gain the support of your parents. And also it is not necessary that you will develop a love for your partner in arrange marriages (my opinion) I seriously want to know others views as I don't have any ideas on love marriage!
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