Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Both Types has their Pros & Cons.

I support Arranged marriage, Marriage is not Just an individual matter, it's of a Family.

You can find partner from the Family of same Financial status.

You can find partner from same culture & type of Family.

Its is not that you are forcefully married, You have choice to choose within the scope.

Attraction or infatuation or even LOVE cannot withhold relations, it does need money, commitment.

I feel Commitment & money can be guaranteed in Arranged marriage, unlike Love marriage.

I left my parents for my Love which haunts me. Till death.

Hello friends.

Myself Urman Khan.

According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.

And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.

But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.

And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.

Love is life.

Thank you.

Now we are going to discuss on the topic of Love marriage vs Arrange marriage.

Dear friends, in my opinion in love marriage both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other but as far as I am concerned to arrange marriage is not a contract between two individual but a relationship of two families.

Love married couple can help in removing social evil like dowry system with their mutual concern.

So, as far as, I concerned love marriage is better than arrange marriage in my opinion.

That's all my thought about this topic.

Thank you.

Hi. I believe the success of both love and arranged marriage depends on the life partners who are bound in this beautiful institution. Marriage is all about adjustments and compromises with each other. So it is better to adjust with the person you know already than adjusting with a stranger whom you have seen once or twice before marriage. So if you can't adjust with the person your parents found for you, then aren't you disappointing them? It is better to convince your parents and adjust and live with the person you love because, at the end of the day, it is only you who is affected.

Here people are discussing getting respect through arrange marriage, but in my point of view, we should change our mentality. Intercast marriage is fine and loving some other person is fine too. Having sex before marriage is fine. By arrange marriage you only can earn respect for narrow-minded people. Bored minded people will respect you by your behaviour and work. There nothing wrong in love marriage. Noone has to decide rule for other. No book has written such rules. Just live for life by your rules. And if people don't respect the girl you love they should not mean to you anymore.

In my opinion, As I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we choose partners yourself even then we had spent lots of time with each other before the marriage so we both knew about his/her likes, dislikes & behaviour.

If we talk about arrange marriage. We don't choose our life partners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why I prefer love marriage.

Therefore love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.

I don't have any idea of love marriage because mine is arranged but I can say from my experience that in arrange marriage you didn't get enough time to know each other (my opinion) and after that adjusting yourself with someone whom you don't know properly and his parents is just a very hard task. Well, in this case, you have only one plus point that you could gain the support of your parents. And also it is not necessary that you will develop a love for your partner in arrange marriages (my opinion) I seriously want to know others views as I don't have any ideas on love marriage!

I just think arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. Because love marriage becomes failure after a small misunderstanding but a arrange marriage becomes long lasting. The main disadvantage of love marriage the couples know each other only as positively view not negatively view but in arrange marriage our family investigate all thing about bride/groom so that as my point of view arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. But some time love marriage also become successful and some time arrange marriage also become failure it totally depends upon the couples.

I like love marriage.

Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.

Love marriage.

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.

- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.

- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.

- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.

- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.