Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Siddharth Bhardwaj said:
5 years ago
Hello friends. I am Siddharth from Patna. Today we are going to discuss the topic arrange marriage vs love marriage. Marriage is a beautiful process in which connects the souls of two partners. It is a very important moment for everyone's life. Love marriage and arrange marriage are two different variations of marriage in love marriage individuals choose their partner for marriage but in arrange marriage families of both individual choose partner for them. Both the marriage have their merits and demerits for example in love marriage individuals know all in and outs of there partner but in arrange marriage everything thing is new for each other. They know very less about each other. On the other hand, the divorce ratio of love marriage is much more than arrange marriage. I am in favour of arrange marriage because our parents have more experience than us what is good and what is bad for us.
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Bhupesh Kumar said:
8 years ago
Hi friends,
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
Thank you.
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
Thank you.
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Ravi Raj said:
5 years ago
Marriage is an important social institution and every individual wants to have a perfect match. In love marriages, individuals choose partners on their own, while in case of arranged marriages, partners are being chosen by the family. However, we all know that a great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences, be it love marriage or an arranged one.
Conclusion:
Both " the love and the arranged marriages " have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it's the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately, no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage because just like life, marriages too are full of uncertainties.
Conclusion:
Both " the love and the arranged marriages " have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it's the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately, no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage because just like life, marriages too are full of uncertainties.
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Jingli said:
5 years ago
Maximum Everyone desires to have a love marriage. In Love marriage, we know each other very well and if any problem comes we can easily handle because we know how our partner will react for that. The understanding level has high in love marriage. We feel immense satisfaction when our partner is we be lovable one. It's really a gift for people whose first love ended with marriage. True love never fades away.
In arrange marriage also we have good point to speak. Our parents know how to create a bright future for their children. Especially in choosing our life partner. In arrange marriage we get to know each other day by day. But that is also a really nice one too.
In love marriage or an arranged marriage, it's all depending on the couple that how they lead their life with happiness, compromises and togetherness.
In recent days love come to arrange marriage are also happening.
In arrange marriage also we have good point to speak. Our parents know how to create a bright future for their children. Especially in choosing our life partner. In arrange marriage we get to know each other day by day. But that is also a really nice one too.
In love marriage or an arranged marriage, it's all depending on the couple that how they lead their life with happiness, compromises and togetherness.
In recent days love come to arrange marriage are also happening.
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Anchal kumari said:
5 years ago
Good morning everyone.
Myself Anchal kumari.
And according to me, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage. It does not mean that I said that every love marriage is good because along with love some other things also matter just like finical condition. If both the member is independent then yes love marriage is a good option because you know each other very well. You know all the strength and weakness, bad and good habits of each and before marriage, you accept this all thinks but in arrange marriage you don't know each other you don't know the good and bad habits of each other and some habits can make problems in your relationship because this is true that parents never tell bad habits at the time of marriage then only show you the good habits good thinks of her daughter /son.
And the most important thing that only loves marriage can remove and that is dowry.
Myself Anchal kumari.
And according to me, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage. It does not mean that I said that every love marriage is good because along with love some other things also matter just like finical condition. If both the member is independent then yes love marriage is a good option because you know each other very well. You know all the strength and weakness, bad and good habits of each and before marriage, you accept this all thinks but in arrange marriage you don't know each other you don't know the good and bad habits of each other and some habits can make problems in your relationship because this is true that parents never tell bad habits at the time of marriage then only show you the good habits good thinks of her daughter /son.
And the most important thing that only loves marriage can remove and that is dowry.
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Sachin sainthiya said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends According to me, love marriage is the best.
Many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this type of marriage is based on understanding between the two parts. And settlement in their family they also love in happiness and peace. Because the had chosen each other from the beginning.
Happiness is also very important benefit of love marriage. As everyone in the family will feel with comfort the couple can enjoy their life. They will b content about themselves they will not make the usually quarrel which we see in most of the families.
Finally, I think that the love marraige is better than arrange marraige. Because it has many benefits, Such as the understanding between the two couple and the happiness and peace in the family, and I want to send a message to all the youth to be careful in their love. And their emotions specially in marriage.
Many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this type of marriage is based on understanding between the two parts. And settlement in their family they also love in happiness and peace. Because the had chosen each other from the beginning.
Happiness is also very important benefit of love marriage. As everyone in the family will feel with comfort the couple can enjoy their life. They will b content about themselves they will not make the usually quarrel which we see in most of the families.
Finally, I think that the love marraige is better than arrange marraige. Because it has many benefits, Such as the understanding between the two couple and the happiness and peace in the family, and I want to send a message to all the youth to be careful in their love. And their emotions specially in marriage.
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Naveena D said:
7 years ago
Good Morning Friends,
Marriage is an important part of every human's life. It helps to keep their next career path with their life partner. So both love and arrange marriage is always provide happiness. But we first should choose the partner our life. So choice is yours.
Love is nothing but unthinkable feeling our life. It cannot explain. However, before we married we love first in our partner. That is one soul in two body's. Love provide lot of happiness. So we feel it. Truly we love our life partner. So we choose the best partner even however before or arrange marriage. But how marriage is important in our life that way is also important in our parent's life.
So parents choose our life partner then, we love our partner after marriage. Love marriage or arrange marriage anything in our life. We love really and rightly with our life partner. That is important our life.
Marriage is an important part of every human's life. It helps to keep their next career path with their life partner. So both love and arrange marriage is always provide happiness. But we first should choose the partner our life. So choice is yours.
Love is nothing but unthinkable feeling our life. It cannot explain. However, before we married we love first in our partner. That is one soul in two body's. Love provide lot of happiness. So we feel it. Truly we love our life partner. So we choose the best partner even however before or arrange marriage. But how marriage is important in our life that way is also important in our parent's life.
So parents choose our life partner then, we love our partner after marriage. Love marriage or arrange marriage anything in our life. We love really and rightly with our life partner. That is important our life.
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Nicky said:
5 years ago
Hello friends,
In my opinion, it doesn't matter the marriage is loved or arranged. The important thing is it should be based on friendship and trust. Where both partners feel comfortable with each other to share their stories and thoughts freely. Because in arrange marriage both partners are afraid of families and their reputation in society. They never show they're true identities, their past stories. Everyone wants to be like a perfect husband or a perfect wife. They never know each other that much closed as a friend knows. The clarity in any relationship is essential. It makes the bond stronger. We trust more. So take your time to marry anyone. 1st be friends. Know each other well then decide this marriage will happen or not. And be acceptable if someone has a dreadful past memory. Everyone learns from experience. Don't be judgemental. Anything can change.
Thanks.
In my opinion, it doesn't matter the marriage is loved or arranged. The important thing is it should be based on friendship and trust. Where both partners feel comfortable with each other to share their stories and thoughts freely. Because in arrange marriage both partners are afraid of families and their reputation in society. They never show they're true identities, their past stories. Everyone wants to be like a perfect husband or a perfect wife. They never know each other that much closed as a friend knows. The clarity in any relationship is essential. It makes the bond stronger. We trust more. So take your time to marry anyone. 1st be friends. Know each other well then decide this marriage will happen or not. And be acceptable if someone has a dreadful past memory. Everyone learns from experience. Don't be judgemental. Anything can change.
Thanks.
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Ashish malik said:
8 years ago
Hi. Friend.
This is Aashish Malik.
I think arrange marriage is best because when will we do arrange marriage our parents we be happy and they always love you like you and they are always sporting you. One more thing spouse you got love married after that your partner can't love your parents so what will are you doing and can you left your partner for parents (I can't) because of parents that god who gave our an every small beautiful movement. They never think bad for ours. In that boys all love to someone but it's must because without life is nothing But this love we should do after marriage. Spouse you have to way one way go to your love and one way go to your parents you have chosen any one So What will you choose. One who that your love or second your parents. Whom you wanna left is this question. So I can't say love life is bad but after that arrange marriage.
This is Aashish Malik.
I think arrange marriage is best because when will we do arrange marriage our parents we be happy and they always love you like you and they are always sporting you. One more thing spouse you got love married after that your partner can't love your parents so what will are you doing and can you left your partner for parents (I can't) because of parents that god who gave our an every small beautiful movement. They never think bad for ours. In that boys all love to someone but it's must because without life is nothing But this love we should do after marriage. Spouse you have to way one way go to your love and one way go to your parents you have chosen any one So What will you choose. One who that your love or second your parents. Whom you wanna left is this question. So I can't say love life is bad but after that arrange marriage.
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Tannu said:
4 years ago
Hello everyone.
We are here to discuss love marriage vs arrange marriage so I find love marriage is far better than arrange marriage. Marriage is a long life commitment you are going to spend your entire life with someone. So decision to choose a life partner should be in one's own hand.
In love marriage both partners know each other very well before marriage. They already know what are the good or bad habits of their partner and they happily accept this. On the other side in arrange marriage you do not accept this but you have to accept this. You have to compromise sometimes in arrange marriage.
Sometimes we face many problems related with our personal or professional life and in love marriage partner support each other at any kind of situation they become the support system of each other.
Dowry and caste system can be demolished by love marriage.
Thank you.
We are here to discuss love marriage vs arrange marriage so I find love marriage is far better than arrange marriage. Marriage is a long life commitment you are going to spend your entire life with someone. So decision to choose a life partner should be in one's own hand.
In love marriage both partners know each other very well before marriage. They already know what are the good or bad habits of their partner and they happily accept this. On the other side in arrange marriage you do not accept this but you have to accept this. You have to compromise sometimes in arrange marriage.
Sometimes we face many problems related with our personal or professional life and in love marriage partner support each other at any kind of situation they become the support system of each other.
Dowry and caste system can be demolished by love marriage.
Thank you.
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