Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

According to me, there is no problem in arranged marriages, but if we already love someone then even our parents should understand that and give a chance to that person with whom we want to spend our life.

But people always assume that if we have chosen someone or if we love someone, then that person is not right for us. Why is it so?

Our parents have the right to choose a life partner for us, but don't we have any right on our life? We are the ones who have to spend the whole life with that person, so it's very important that there is love between the two. But the society and family are generally very partial regarding this. If you love your better half after marriage, then it's perfect, but if you love them before marriage. They'll make you feel so guilty about it even when it's nothing wrong in it.

At the end, I would only say that if respecting our parents decision is our duty, then their duty is also to see whether we are happy with their decisions or not.

Good evening all.

I am Anupam kumari and I am expressing my view on a given topic.

The topic is love marriage vs arrange marriage. Marriage means you are getting marrry with a person either he or she. So it didn't matter either it love or arrange. According to me, I am a mother of a boy and my marriage is arranged but I support love marriage because in love marriage you know about that people will go to marry if you are going in arrange marriage lots of cheater are there and telling lie in taking for dowry. You don't kow about the people how he/ she is? How her/ his behavior, lots of problems facing after arrange marriage and you don't compromise then results will divorce. At recent time, lot of ladies are suffering from their laws misbehaviour. And difficulties increase day by day and one day they got sucide. So love marriage is much better than arrange marriage and it also reduce dowery and cast system. That's all about my opinion, thanks to all of you.

In my point of view, both marriages are successful. But arrange marriage is more successful than love marriage. Because in love marriage young girls and boys say that we know each other completely and they get married. But I think they know each other only towards positively their negative activities are hidden. And also in love marriage less family support. So love marriage Is not maintain relationship with all the members of families for a long time. But in arrange marriage right understanding between bride and bridegroom's family. Relationship maintained for long time and marriage couple trust and respect each other too much. In India divorce rate is very low as compared to advanced countries. Because in our country gives more priority of arrange marriage. According to divorce rate of most of the countries divorce rate of love marriage is too much more than arrange marriage. So according to me arrange marriage is much better than love marriage and safe.

Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".

Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.

If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.

In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.

Marriage is a sacred ritual in our Indian society its not only about bonding of two people it's about bonding of two families and cultures arranged marriage is the better one because in it the person who will become our life partner is chosen by our parents and our parents are our BEST WELL WISHERS and want to see us happy and if we take the examples of our parents and our relatives most of whom have done arranged marriages are living happily and successfully whereas if we see the current scenario relationship has become a part of style and trend rather than being based on true love which leads to complications pain and distress after the marriage so I think one should go with arranged marriage which is acceptable to all and keeps one's parents happy and content.

On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.

Hello everyone!

Good Evening to one and all present here!

Of course, I agree to all of you who support Love Marriages and their reasons but I would like to support Arranged Marriages because, In love marriages, some of the parents may not agree them getting married. So as a result Parents and their children are getting separated and there arises alot of disputes between them. Therefore when a problem comes between the couple who gets married will directly apply to divorce due to the lack of good suggestions, knowledge and support from their parents. Whereas in arranged marriages, Parents will be supportive, together with us in all difficult situations. Parents and children are both happy because parents see all the 7 generations of each other's (bride and bridegroom) side are perfect or not and get their children married to not have any disputes/problems and lead a happy life after they get married.

In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. There are various points for the support of this statement.

1) We are the inhabitants of India which is famous all over the world for its culture and civilization. India is known to be a pyous country who does not allow the love marriage. As we all know that love marriage is a system of the Western country. Then why we use western culture?

2) Parents are considered to be god and goddess in our Indian society. They provide food, cloth, better education. They have a lot of expectations from us. We can not break their heart by doing love marriage.

3) The divorce rate is so high for Western countries which is above 50%. Because they prefer love marriage. But in India, this divorce rate is only 1%. How? Because we prefer to arrange marriage.

After concluding all these points we came to know that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

Hello everyone.

Marriage Means a journey of life with two souls.

Marriage means to souls having the ability to have patiece and to contribute equally to make it a great life.

Love marriage is that people know each other perfectly but in arranged marriage people not know each other.

I favor a love marriage with the permission of our parents.

Both have merits and demerits.

In a love marriage, both partners understand their feeling, like, and dislike. It is the plus point of love marriage but afterwords the relationship bounding is not some as before mostly divorce case happen in love marriage. So that your oven place both are right.

In case of arranged marriage, both partners do not understand each other. So it takes time. Show your feeling and both are feeling as shy.

So some advantages in arrange marriage. So both type of marriage does not perfect. We should have love emotion and respect.

A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on whether arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As you're going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.

A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on weather arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As your going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.