Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

No one can say that love marriage or the arrange marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

Hi everyone, what I feel is love marriage is far better than arranged because, I have seen most of the people in relationships who are actually happy even after years because during the relationship they get to know about each other, their tastes and they have a proper understanding between them. It's not that in arranged marriages there is no love and understanding at all but what I think is once we get married we don't have any other option to do if we come to know that the person is not right for us. For whole life, we need to tolerate him even if we don't want to. There are some cases like even if we like a person and want to share an entire life with him parents doesn't support and it finally leads to an arranged marriage. Love or arranged marriage whatever it is we need to love a person as a human being as he is going to be a partner forever and I'm not telling that it's destiny but it's our choice towards everything and need to stay happy because it's our life. We don't need to give any apologies to anyone.

Hi friends,

ARRANGED MARRIAGE.

-- Arranged marriages are better than love marriages.
-- In arranged married life they have some understanding between them.
-- In olden Days the parents are sitting together and they talk each other family background.
-- For suppose the couple have any problem they met their parents and solve their problems and lead their life happily.
-- Before their marriage, they know the partners likes, dislikes.
-- And they have mutual understanding between them.

LOVE MARRIAGE.

-- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is a infatuation.
-- At that time what ever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.

CONCLUSION.

-- Many problems are in both married life. At last, I believe that arranged marriages lead more role from olden days onwards.

I won't say what is good and what is bad but for the ones who are in love they should prefer for love arranged marriage rather than hurting their parents and disrespecting them it's not necessary that the person who is he/she is in love with will be good they should have a perfect information about their partners rather than going with dem blindly if your parents are still not accepting then you should not leave the topic but try convincing dem who knows what changes their mind 2nd thing is about arrange marriage it's not true when your parents find your partner is good dey will 70% see their wealth and then they'll see what their nature is the point is see how is the person it's not necessary when your parents find a guy or girl is always good, even dey haven't met dem properly how can they suggest the child for the upcoming future? it's your life dude you have some rights go for love or arrange but see that your partner understands you trust you support you and there is a bright future together.

Hi, friends,

In My point of view about the love marriage vs arrange marriage:.

In love marriage, both people will understand their situations family problems. Before marriage, they share their feelings and situations.

And Nowadays these love marriages take negative directions. In love stage there are comparative and matured, after marriage, they have hurt the small things also. Most of the love marriages are divorced in today's world.

Arranged marriages:

In arranged marriages, both peoples are not knowing anything about our better halves. This condition takes problems in marriage life. The couples will hurt for the small things. In arranged marriages, couples are cooperative of their family responsibilities and family importance in their life.

My conclusion is both are important but our respect towards the marriage culture is important. In marriage day you promise so many things but you don't fallow such things. So both should follow their responsibilities in the marriage life.

Hello everyone.

I also wanted to say something regarding love marriage vs arranged marriage. Both have some pros and cons.
I think in an arranged marriage, the best part is everyone is happy and give their blessings to the newlywed. Every parent has the dream that someday they will choose the right person for their son or daughter. It's their right totally because they spend all their lives taking care of us.

Also now in arranged marriage, there are many changes with time. It's not like your family will force someone on you. Definitely, they will ask for your consent. There are unofficial meetings between both of them where they can decide if they like the other person or not.

So, I think if possible one can go for an arranged marriage but if you truly love someone and wanted to spend your life with that person only then try to convince your parents and please only after their consent take that biggest step of your life.

These are my thoughts based on the environment around me.

Hello, Everyone! The Understanding between the partners is the basic and most important element for any kind of marriage to succeed whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. Obviously, in the case of Love marriages, one gets to experience and develop this attribute much before taking the most important decision of marrying the person and hence I would give slightly more marks to Love marriages.

But then in today's generation, people prefer to have pizza delivered to their home in 30 minutes rather than sweating a bit in cooking food by their own hands. And this lack of patience can be seen in other fields too including relationships. I know cases of separation between both kinds of couples, the ones who did Love marriages and also an equal number of couples who did arrange marriage. And this shows that in the end cooking the dish of relationship to its best flavour completely boils down to the blending of ingredients named as Trust, Patience, Understanding and Forgiveness.

Hello everyone,

According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.

1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.

2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.

3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.

AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.

Love marriage vs Arranged Marriage.

I support both loves and arrange because marriage is not a game. But only there is a problem in love marriage in India is not acceptable by parents and family members because there are so many issues comes over such as tradition caste system which is a vital and critical issue for our society thinking. i.e, is why couples are not supported by parents when there is a problem. But in some family members who are educated then acceptable only and only both couples are in a good job or both are in same dignity and having a same education degree.

In arrange Marriage there is no such type of problem i.e, parents always with us.

And family members, society accepted easily.

But there is a problem dowry system which is also a critical issue which damaged girl's life.

We have to think that marriage is whole life bonding. And we have to understand it's a marriage love or arranged first understand to each other. His /her emotions and feelings.