Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Hi to all, I am Rinku and now I'm going to allocate that which is better in b2n love and arrange marriage.

As per my view, the marriage types are not important but relationship are important to each other. If we ignore parents suggestion about the arrange marriage May be possible that to break relation between them. And if we agree with the parents, and if we love to anyone then there is also break the relation between lovers.

Both are situation are puzzling.

Most of the parents in our country support to arrange marriage because they think it will be better for us.

But most of the new generation support to love marriage because they fell in love. A Lot of lovers could not complete our willing due to custom, parents, job etc. Then they destroy our willing and press the thought of love and our lovely dreams That is they don't want to do it.

Love is not a bad thing and parents think always better for us. Therefore Both have importance for us. Change love marriage into the arrange marriage with satisfaction our parents.

Be happy with your lover and parents.

First of all, marriage is not the conclusion of life. Love or Arrange a marriage is a lifetime commitment. Loving someone is not easy but staying in love with someone is more difficult. When you accept someone for who they are and go through every pain and still want to be with them then you should marry them.

When we talk about love marriage it is like loving a stranger. It's like trying to know someone every day and trying to explore their lives everyday. And the fear of losing one another is gone because there is family pressure too. To have a happy married life you have to stop judging others.

Falling in love and getting married or arranged marriage both has love but in different ways. So it's about loving someone imperfect perfectly.

Marriage is very special in itself, it is to keep. You have to make sacrifices without sacrificing urself.

Be strong enough to be able to make a good choice and to be able to live the commitment of marriage and to be able to build a relationship. And be the best spouse who chooses the same person every day.

I strictily support Arranged marriages.

In most of the cases, it has proven that love marriages create lots of issues in their life. Love is just a kind of attraction between a girl and a boy, it looks beautiful when they are in the love but once if they won't listen to their parents words and start their life by getting married, problems will start, even misunderstandings also starts and the relations ship between them weakens and this will lead to breaking up of their marriage and their even parents don't have that much chance to talk with that people.

Arranged marriage is very good when compared to love marriage why because without knowing the details of person, family background our parents don't let us into that relationship. We can have a secured life, good relationship, family, and friends. They have very good understanding between each other, love in arranged marriages increases day by day whereas in love marriages it decreases gradually and even if any problems occur our parents are there to look after that in the arranged marriages.

Most of youth treat physical attraction as LOVE. For relationship of 2-year people are ready to leave their parents with whom they stayed for 25 years.

When you date someone you will always show your positive side to another person (boy/girl) to impress them. You will always hide your negative side. When someone knows about negative side, they will break with you. People call it heartbreak or break marriage. That's the main reason of failure of LOVE marriage because expectation is very high.

People says that In LOVE marriage person is very compatible. Are you joking? To find the compatible person you need to date at least 50-100 persons. Hit rate is 5-10% in first attempt.

Have anyone has ever seen in LOVE marriage that girl is not attractive or good looking. 95% of LOVE marriages are based on look of girl.

I am not favoring ARRANGE marriage also.

SO instead of going for arrange or LOVE marriage. Find the person who respects others, kind hearted, honest. If you find such person you will fall in love with him/her again and again.

Hello everyone.

According to my point of view, both are good because no one person having same selection or taste, they prefer what they want.

But both love and arranged marriages are having problems.

LOVE Marriage:

1. In love marriage both genders are facing the main problem is to convince their parents.

2. Incase both families agree with their love they are very lucky couple.

3. Love marriage makes a strong bond between the couples because of they already know their feelings, behaviour, character everything, so they adjusted in their life.

4. They both families are don't know each other because they also having good effection.

ARRANGED marriages:

1. A strong family support having these marriages.

2. In Arranged marriages mostly both are don't know their behaviour etc. So initially they get shy.

3. In case any Quarles among these people they families is combined and alive the problems.

Finally, both marriages are equal but in love, they mingle small point of time in arranged marriages they take a long time.

Thank you.

Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage always better than love marriage because arrange marriage is not a contact b/w two people but a confluence of two familes and two familes involved in arrange marriage you know my dear friends in arrange marriage my life partner is select my familes and I think that my familes is selected my life partner better than me because he knows as my negative and positive points and my nature he know as which type girl is better than me and any parents is never wants he's son of life partner is wrong in any way so l think that arrange marriage better than love marriage, and in love marriage before marriage two person b/w love in love love time two person is always nose and look positive point with each other he's never shown own negative point and after being married he's known as negative points with each other and everyday great a new problem and he way of divorce and one day is divorce with each other so I think that love marriage is never better than arrange marriage, That's all.

I think it depends on which marriage you get offered first. If you fall in love with someone I think it's best to talk to your family about marrying this person so they do sort out any marriage arrangements they have made or want to make. You need to consider the couple feelings. I know a family who is in problems because their son is in love with one girl but his parents have made him marry his cousin whom they arranged. Now he has both women and he is only happy with the one he fell in love with. He keeps the wife his parents chose because he wants to make them happy and keep family pride. To make it worst he has kids with both women. I think love marriage is better in this case. If he had not found someone he loves then yes he can just do arrange marriage. In love marriage, you fall in love with the things you get to know about the person. That's why we fall in love. In arrange marriage you only start to love the person because you care for them, they look after your family perhaps. But it is in most cases, not true love.

Hello everyone,

According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.

So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.

Thank you.

In my opinion, both have their own pros and cons. Although, I am leaning on arranged marriage. And I can explain this. Many do not understand the concept of arranged marriage. You are not marrying a complete stranger. You can maintain a good bond with your parents and tell them what you look for in a partner. They will do the searching for you. Not to forget, marriage is not only the union of two people but also their families. Families do play an important role.

Sometimes you can fall in love with someone and be totally unaware of their family and culture. If so, what if you don't fit into their family?

Now, the chances of this happening in an arranged marriage is very very less. Because your parents know what is best for you and they do their research about the family that you are marrying into.

However, sometimes your loved one and their family might be a catch as well.

But in my opinion, Love marriages are a "hit or miss" like situation. It may or may not work out. Whereas, arranged marriages are a safe bet.

Hi friends,

Arrange marriage is always better than love marriage. As we all of us know Mistakes will happen by humans only some of which will teach us life lessons.

Confusing! Let me tell you my point of view, because, In both cases, there is a chance of choosing wrong person as a life partner. We may realize it after marriage ar some point of time whether it is love or arrange.

In case of love 'U' are purely responsible for everything and will not get any support, but in case of arrange, parents are responsible for everything and they always stand beside U as a strong supporter which you actually need when you are heartbroken either in love or arrange.

In case of love marriage, You should only stand and collect all the broken pieces of heart. In case of arrange Marriage, before you fall or even after falling, your family will make you stand again and will help you in collecting the broken heart pieces.

Support from parents and family is always the greatest strength ever!!!

Hope you guys like it.

Thank you.