Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

From my point of view, love marriage and arrange marriage are two ways to marry.

It can't be said which is a better way to marry. Because in arranged marriage your parents find your partner and maybe you never meet 1before to that person. On the other hand in a love marriage, you find a partner for you. From whom you meet before you know him well. But it doesn't clarify that a love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in some cases your partner whom you love a lot may cheat on you in future and give you a divorce.

On the other hand, a partner who is chosen by your parents will never give you divorce by family pressure or maybe you are connected to that unknown person most. May you both will understand each other's feelings, habits, likes and dislikes.

In my opinion, I will say that you should have to choose your partner wisely whether it's a love marriage or a arranged marriage.

Because it doesn't matter which marriage are you doing but matters what you doing. You have to choose the right partner for you, a partner who really cares about u, who gives attention to you and the main thing who respects you. And you should do the same things to him.

Topic: love marriage vs arrange marriage.

Deciding how you want to marry, arranged marriage or love marriage, should be an individual's own perspective, it shouldn't be based on anyone else's thinking, Because after all you are the person who is going to be doing the marriage.

The mindset of Indian society is very lagged behind, And in respective of surviving in this uncertain world, you are supposed to cope with the trends.

Marriages are not bad, whether it be arranged or love, it's the human being where the problem is, Some the love marriages work very well, where you don't know the other person at all, on the other hand, some the love marriages don't work, where you knew the person beforehand.

So it's just a matter of shame if you are blaming the marriage rather than the person.

Compromise is the key for every relationship to be peaceful and successful, be it son- dad, mom-son, husband-wife, etc.

With the above discussion, I would finally like to conclude by saying that, Whatever a person wants to choose, love marriage or arrange marriage let it be, don't ever put your thoughts into somebody else, it might be good for you but not for others.

Thank you.

I believe that there is no use of debating whether love marriage is better or arranged because both are good in their own ways and it depends from person to person and from family to family.

It is always good to know a person really well before we take a step ahead and get married which is a feature of love marriage. And since both of you know each other well there is a strong chance of sustenance. Again in arranged marriage, our parents choose our life partner depending on compatibility and status which is again important because there will be ego clash if we don't belong to the same status.

Both has pros and cons because in the case of love marriage couples get bored of each other easily since they know each other beforehand whereas in arranged marriage they get to know each other slowly and gradually and their marriage grows slowly. Again in love marriage, you know the person well before you take the plunge but in arranged marriage, since we don't know the person well, he/she might turn out to be someone else after marriage. This discussion won't end so we can conclude that it depends totally on the person involve in marriage and also LUCK.

I think love marriage is good. There is a stigma in mind of people that love marriage. It can't last long as in parents and relatives opinion. They even don't to listen to anything about their child decisions. They all need approval from society and emotional drama society. But I personally society begin with ourselves. If both boy and girl are happy then parents are happy.

Society is always evil who will pull the legs from behind if you are from standardised family basically in Haryana people are orthodox and I must say they have 2 faces. It is up to parents that they want their child happy or not if they really listen to society. They can't be happy and their child would not be happy in future.

Let go to arrange marriage I really want to tell people who are in favour of arranged marriage these people also have two faces one according to family and other for his personal life. Basically, boy who do arrange marriage has extra affair they were attached to their previous lover. Then what is the meaning of this useless marriage when you are not true to your partner.

I really disagree with a partner who cheats their other soul mate.

All have different taste and preferences. One can be in favour of something while the other can't be. And we can't force anyone to feel in the Same way that we feel. My intention is not to hurt anyone.

But if I have to choose between love and arrange I would go with the arrange one. Our parents had sacrificed their dreams in order to fulfil our small demands, so when it comes to choosing bride/groom they will choose the right one for their child. Both the families will be in touch so it'll be easier for the couple to solve their problems which come on their way. We can take the example of our own parents how they are spending their life with their beloved ones, ones who used to be stranger. We have more time to understand each other. Don't it sound interesting at first people don't know each other but as the time passes they become close and their friendship gets stronger and their trust, they care each other as a best friend rather than a lover. Isn't it beautiful? in arrange, marriage couples are guided by parents experience so there is less probability of misunderstanding and divorce.

So I prefer the arranged marriage.

As I have seen the comments people are believing in both. Love and arrange.

Arrange marriage is best. I agree on this because parents are choosing for their child, yes obviously the best bride or best groom. But if you are loving someone then how come you will do a arrange marriage.

Don't you think that it is a foolishness? I know parents are making a good decision. But they have to understand this thing also. That their child is not a kid now. He or she may fall in love n he or she wants to marry as per choice. It's the 21st century. Boy and girl should be measured in same parameters. Then why only for a boy they looking a better girl. Why girl can't give their decision to their parents.

Seriously for you, your parents are choosing someone n then they will ask you to marry that guy. Why I'm not understanding. They only think of their respect in society n all about culture.

For me, I full support to love marriage but for that parents also accept this one. Because girls are not a commodity or a thing, that whom you want you can give it to them.

Love marriage is good, but only with parents blessings.

Marriage is just a legal, social contract. If a couple is truly understanding and loving of each other and wants to live together, there shouldn't have to be a legal obligation involved to do so. But unfortunately, that's not how our society has evolved.

Be it arranged or love marriage, people can grow apart.

In an arranged marriage, one is bound into a relationship with added familial obligations that may make it difficult to get out of. At least in love marriage, one has a good idea of what kind of partner they're with; their likes dislike and that they are compatible enough to enter into a marriage to begin with. But in an arranged marriage, the couple most likely doesn't know a lot about each other and they may end up with someone they're absolutely dissatisfied with either emotionally or physically but choose to remain in that marriage because of the family "arranged" nature of it, but it will eventually grow sour and break apart. No one involved in such a marriage can ever be happy!

The concepts of marriage and love and relationships have to be revisited by our society as a whole.

Hello friends, I agree with all of you, because every friend is right in itself, but my point of view. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because they understand each other a long Time, there is no dowry system, no casteism, no religion, who is better for our country, because these problems created a lot of problems. There is no problem in love marriage, if the marriage take place with the help of parents, and we talk about arrange marriage, we don't know each other, how can we sleep each other, there is no love, there is only mean to live life Nd born child, in arrange marriage we don't know past relationship and type of relationship, because some relationship never ended, your partner cheated you in arrange marriage, but in love marriage cheating chances is very low, so I like love marriage, you live your life, not your parents, so you can choose your life partner, I give an example, when you buy a mobile, you don't ask to your parents, because you know the feature of mobile, that's why in love marriage we know very well our partner, So friends love marriage is best.

Marriage is an important step in everyone's life.

In my opinion, both love marriages and arranged marriages have equal importance.

Both the marriages have pros and cons.

In case of love marriage, you don't have enough maturity to choose the right person, you are in a stage of attraction, where everything good or bad seems to be right or you. Also if you marry the person without your parents concern, it effects their pride and dignity in the society. So, when you think you love someone just put your opinion in front your parents. They can judge who's good and best suitable for you.

Whereas, in case of arranged marriage it's a very daring step to marry a complete stranger. But the thing is that you need to have complete faith in your parents that they never make a wrong choice for you, they see the family, background, status everything and then they present guy/girl in front you.

Therefore, it all depends on you, to maintain a healthy relationship and happy life which is all concerned about understanding each other without ego's, commitment, person's space and honesty.

Marriage is the meeting of two souls who will bring happiness to the families either it is love or arrange.

It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.

Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.

In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.

I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.

It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.

So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.