Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Kailash said:
5 years ago
Love marriage and arrange marriage are two different things but marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. In the love marriage, we can choose our partner but in the arranged marriage our family chose our partner. And both have merit and demerits in love marriage we know our partner properly we know already his her behaviour and likes dislike. And in arrange marriage we know our partner behaviour and likes dislike day by day.
But I think arrange marriage is good because in this our parents get our partner by their choice.
But I think arrange marriage is good because in this our parents get our partner by their choice.
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Ravi Raj said:
5 years ago
Marriage is an important social institution and every individual wants to have a perfect match. In love marriages, individuals choose partners on their own, while in case of arranged marriages, partners are being chosen by the family. However, we all know that a great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences, be it love marriage or an arranged one.
Conclusion:
Both " the love and the arranged marriages " have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it's the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately, no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage because just like life, marriages too are full of uncertainties.
Conclusion:
Both " the love and the arranged marriages " have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it's the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately, no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage because just like life, marriages too are full of uncertainties.
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Yukta said:
5 years ago
Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heartwrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. #Marraiges are made in heaven.
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Jingli said:
6 years ago
Maximum Everyone desires to have a love marriage. In Love marriage, we know each other very well and if any problem comes we can easily handle because we know how our partner will react for that. The understanding level has high in love marriage. We feel immense satisfaction when our partner is we be lovable one. It's really a gift for people whose first love ended with marriage. True love never fades away.
In arrange marriage also we have good point to speak. Our parents know how to create a bright future for their children. Especially in choosing our life partner. In arrange marriage we get to know each other day by day. But that is also a really nice one too.
In love marriage or an arranged marriage, it's all depending on the couple that how they lead their life with happiness, compromises and togetherness.
In recent days love come to arrange marriage are also happening.
In arrange marriage also we have good point to speak. Our parents know how to create a bright future for their children. Especially in choosing our life partner. In arrange marriage we get to know each other day by day. But that is also a really nice one too.
In love marriage or an arranged marriage, it's all depending on the couple that how they lead their life with happiness, compromises and togetherness.
In recent days love come to arrange marriage are also happening.
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Theti said:
6 years ago
Marriage is just a legal, social contract. If a couple is truly understanding and loving of each other and wants to live together, there shouldn't have to be a legal obligation involved to do so. But unfortunately, that's not how our society has evolved.
Be it arranged or love marriage, people can grow apart.
In an arranged marriage, one is bound into a relationship with added familial obligations that may make it difficult to get out of. At least in love marriage, one has a good idea of what kind of partner they're with; their likes dislike and that they are compatible enough to enter into a marriage to begin with. But in an arranged marriage, the couple most likely doesn't know a lot about each other and they may end up with someone they're absolutely dissatisfied with either emotionally or physically but choose to remain in that marriage because of the family "arranged" nature of it, but it will eventually grow sour and break apart. No one involved in such a marriage can ever be happy!
The concepts of marriage and love and relationships have to be revisited by our society as a whole.
Be it arranged or love marriage, people can grow apart.
In an arranged marriage, one is bound into a relationship with added familial obligations that may make it difficult to get out of. At least in love marriage, one has a good idea of what kind of partner they're with; their likes dislike and that they are compatible enough to enter into a marriage to begin with. But in an arranged marriage, the couple most likely doesn't know a lot about each other and they may end up with someone they're absolutely dissatisfied with either emotionally or physically but choose to remain in that marriage because of the family "arranged" nature of it, but it will eventually grow sour and break apart. No one involved in such a marriage can ever be happy!
The concepts of marriage and love and relationships have to be revisited by our society as a whole.
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Uday said:
6 years ago
Good evening,
I am here to say my views on today's discussion Love marriage vs Arrange marriage.
In India, we use a verb about marriage that is "marriages are made in heaven ". In my view, both marriages have their own importance. I say that arranged marriages are better than love marriages because in love marriages the motto is only loving and caring but it doesn't teach the life struggles and when one faces this many take up the wrong decisions. But this will not happen in arrange marriages because our parents know when is the right time for marriage and check all the details of other families then sets us marriage here one will develop responsibility and know their duties.
I am here to say my views on today's discussion Love marriage vs Arrange marriage.
In India, we use a verb about marriage that is "marriages are made in heaven ". In my view, both marriages have their own importance. I say that arranged marriages are better than love marriages because in love marriages the motto is only loving and caring but it doesn't teach the life struggles and when one faces this many take up the wrong decisions. But this will not happen in arrange marriages because our parents know when is the right time for marriage and check all the details of other families then sets us marriage here one will develop responsibility and know their duties.
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Aarti kumari said:
6 years ago
In my opinion, Both marriage are good. But if we love someone with the view of marriage, we must love according to our situations, family background, financial conditions and such types of more things. Then we can arrange and can take the support of our family for marriage. But in during love, we must not share our weakness to the partners, otherwise, it will help in divorce after marriage. In my point of view, the love marriage is better.
Thank you.
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Sandeep Ahlawat said:
6 years ago
Hello everyone.
Before clearing my opinion, firstly we should know the advantages and disadvantages of both love marriage and arrange marriage.
Both are good at their own point of view, in love marriage both the person already knows each other and this is a major advantage of love marriage while in arrange marriage the marriage is between two families and this advantage gives a strong possibility to this relationship that this relationship is strong.
So finally I am in favour of arranged marriage but sometimes it depends on conditions.
Thank you very much.
Before clearing my opinion, firstly we should know the advantages and disadvantages of both love marriage and arrange marriage.
Both are good at their own point of view, in love marriage both the person already knows each other and this is a major advantage of love marriage while in arrange marriage the marriage is between two families and this advantage gives a strong possibility to this relationship that this relationship is strong.
So finally I am in favour of arranged marriage but sometimes it depends on conditions.
Thank you very much.
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Aditi Bharnuke said:
6 years ago
According to my view,
We have to make adjustments and comprise for both the type of marriage, whether its love or arranged.
In case of love marriage, we know each other very well, but as time passes we taken for granted everything about our partner. In an arranged marriage, we are giving some time to our partners to understand.
We have to make adjustments and comprise for both the type of marriage, whether its love or arranged.
In case of love marriage, we know each other very well, but as time passes we taken for granted everything about our partner. In an arranged marriage, we are giving some time to our partners to understand.
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Shujat said:
6 years ago
Hi everyone, in my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage you know everything about your partner her likes, dislikes, interests, and most important thing her secrets which are known to you and which is not possible in arrange marriage. In arrange marriage there are a lot of chances of quarrel, misunderstanding. And in this relationship parents do solve the problems and you are unable to communicate and solve the problem so I will go for love marriage.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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