Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Himanshu Kumar said:   5 years ago
Hello everyone.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

I want to share my own views in front of you about love marriage.

1. In the love marriage the couple understand each other very well so they solve the problem each other and handle it easily.

2. They choose to each other without any compromise so the parents do not found to demand dowry. It is a blessing for society.

3. In the love marriage the caste system has ended.
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Yogesh jadaun said:   5 years ago
Now we are going to discuss on the topic of Love marriage vs Arrange marriage.

Dear friends, in my opinion in love marriage both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other but as far as I am concerned to arrange marriage is not a contract between two individual but a relationship of two families.

Love married couple can help in removing social evil like dowry system with their mutual concern.

So, as far as, I concerned love marriage is better than arrange marriage in my opinion.

That's all my thought about this topic.

Thank you.
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Kartik jadhao said:   5 years ago
Hi friends.

My opinion is love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because love couple had understood themselves at a long period of time. They already know about each other's likes & dislikes. But in arrange marriage, it's not possible. We can suggest our partner in love, about our parent's nature, and suggest her to behave well with them.
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Mohit sengar said:   5 years ago
Hi everyone,

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage you know everything about your partner her likes, dislikes, interests, and most important thing her secrets which are known to you and which is not possible in arrange marriage.

In arrange marriage, there are a lot of chances of quarrel, misunderstanding. And in this relationship parents do solve the problems and you are unable to communicate and solve the problem so I will go for love marriage.

Thank you.
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Ansh singh Thakur said:   5 years ago
Hello friends, I am Singh hailing from Sultanpur. Today we are going to discuss on the topic of love marriage vs arranged marriage. In my point of view, both marriages have some pros and some cons.

Whether it love marriage or arrange marriage the relationship will work only if the partners are serious and honest in the relationship. Life partners must be selected according to their own will and not by force. Nowadays people are taking the time to know about each other before marriage even in arranged marriages. So this is a sign of society.
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Firoj khan said:   5 years ago
Marriage is a connection of the two soul.

It is a very important part of life. We need a partner in life they help each other in difficult situations. In love marriage, we know our partners before marriage and we understand each other very well as well as we know how to react in different condition. But in arrange marriage we not know each other before and we take some time and our likes and dislike may be different as well as our understanding and behaviour may be different. In arrange marriage not only join two couple but also join two families. The most important thing in marriage is understanding behaviour and how can they stand in a difficult time.
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Siddharth Bhardwaj said:   5 years ago
Hello friends. I am Siddharth from Patna. Today we are going to discuss the topic arrange marriage vs love marriage. Marriage is a beautiful process in which connects the souls of two partners. It is a very important moment for everyone's life. Love marriage and arrange marriage are two different variations of marriage in love marriage individuals choose their partner for marriage but in arrange marriage families of both individual choose partner for them. Both the marriage have their merits and demerits for example in love marriage individuals know all in and outs of there partner but in arrange marriage everything thing is new for each other. They know very less about each other. On the other hand, the divorce ratio of love marriage is much more than arrange marriage. I am in favour of arrange marriage because our parents have more experience than us what is good and what is bad for us.
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Kailash said:   5 years ago
Love marriage and arrange marriage are two different things but marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. In the love marriage, we can choose our partner but in the arranged marriage our family chose our partner. And both have merit and demerits in love marriage we know our partner properly we know already his her behaviour and likes dislike. And in arrange marriage we know our partner behaviour and likes dislike day by day.

But I think arrange marriage is good because in this our parents get our partner by their choice.
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Ravi Raj said:   5 years ago
Marriage is an important social institution and every individual wants to have a perfect match. In love marriages, individuals choose partners on their own, while in case of arranged marriages, partners are being chosen by the family. However, we all know that a great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences, be it love marriage or an arranged one.

Conclusion:
Both " the love and the arranged marriages " have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it's the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately, no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage because just like life, marriages too are full of uncertainties.
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Yukta said:   5 years ago
Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heartwrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. #Marraiges are made in heaven.
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