Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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MegalaRanganath said:   5 years ago
According to me either love marriage or arranged marriage.

It depends on men & women who need to understand each other what is marriage how to handle a men & women, she leaves everything and stays with a man for life long because she believes a lot that the husband is one will look everything to her after her parents. Some love marriage also will end with divorce because of no mutual understanding also no proper support from both the families even arranged marriages also will have problems. Marriage means its new relationship which we can live together at any situation with happy where we can build a new family of ours like husband, wife & kids.
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Anchal kumari said:   5 years ago
Good morning everyone.

Myself Anchal kumari.

And according to me, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage. It does not mean that I said that every love marriage is good because along with love some other things also matter just like finical condition. If both the member is independent then yes love marriage is a good option because you know each other very well. You know all the strength and weakness, bad and good habits of each and before marriage, you accept this all thinks but in arrange marriage you don't know each other you don't know the good and bad habits of each other and some habits can make problems in your relationship because this is true that parents never tell bad habits at the time of marriage then only show you the good habits good thinks of her daughter /son.

And the most important thing that only loves marriage can remove and that is dowry.
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Manoj Kumar jakhar said:   5 years ago
First of all, Good morning to all of you. I am Manoj.

Now I am expressing my views on the topic and topic is Love marriage V/S Arrange marriage.

There are many advantage and disadvantage of love marriage and arrange marriage.

Love marriage.

1) The marriage is life_long commitment. So, selecting a life partner should be one's own hand.
2) In love marriage, the couple know each other very well and there will be no hesitant weather also love Or not.
3) people who go for love marriage is more choice that who go for arrange marriage because almost arrange marriage happen in the same religion/caste.

DISADVANTAGE of love marriage:

1) people who go for love marriage, is also independent of their relationship.
2) Love marriage is socially unacceptable in some parts of India.
3) Love is not only important in life. We should check our family background and economical conditions.

ARRANGE MARRIAGE:

1) In arrange marriage couple both parents know each other and agree on both of parents.
2) Parents and well-wishers are thought about their future and economical conditions.

DISADVANTAGE:

1) Arrange marriage is like a lottery.
2) Couples do not share their view in a long way because there is very less time before marriage.
3) Divorce rate is less in arrange marriage compared to love marriage. So we can not say that arrange marriage is happy in life.
So, that's all about my views on the topic.

Thanks.
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Vijay pal jakhar said:   5 years ago
Hello friends.

Now, I want to tall you about the topic which has been given to me love marriage v/s arrange marriage.

Marriage is a long-life commitment. Marriage is a very important part of life in which people choose their own life partner.

In love marriage.

Love marriage is the best to arrange marriage. In love marriage, couples know each other and they spent times each other before marriage. Who man do love marriage which many choices but who man do arrange marriage no more options because arrange marriage doing in same caste/religion/society etc?

Some disadvantages in love marriage, in my views who people doing love marriage, are mostly independent so they are left from their society. In love marriage, both couples are don't wait for their parents.

In Arrange marriage.

In arrange marriage both couples don't know each other because mostly don't spend time before marriage. In arrange marriage, parents force them for marriage.

In arrange marriage both parents are coming to each other home for seeing couples. Then we decided on marriage. In arrange marriage, couples thought about both families.

According to research, Albert epistle says that love in arranging marriages tends to fade away with time, whereas love in arranged marriages grows with time.

In arrange marriage divorce rate less than from love marriage so love marriage is best for life.

In my views love marriage best from arrange marriage because in love marriage both couples agree from this.

Thanks for all.
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Roni said:   5 years ago
Hi I'm Roni.

I want to put my thoughts on love vs arranged marriage.

As we all know that marriage is an important part of our life where we meet a person with whom we going to spend the rest of our life.

In love, two people already know there nature and feeling. But on the other hand in Arrange marriage couples take time to make comfortable with each other which is also a good phase/experience of our life.

In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because it helps to demolish dowry and cast system from our society.

Thank you.
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Vishal Sharma said:   5 years ago
Now I would like to talk about the topic which has been given to me the topic is Love marriage Vs arrange marriage.

My views on this topic is like that love marriage is better than arrange marriage. But it is better only until there is no problem before their parents. Although in love marriage the couple well familiar with each other and it is very helpful in their life. Their thoughts are common if they are lived in close contact for a long time. Yet in love marriage, the advice of parents is most necessary. There is also a loss of love marriage that divorce ratio is found more in love marriage rather than arrange marriage. In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage but the all information of their life partner. Thank you for giving me a chance to express my views in front of you.
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Manoj said:   5 years ago
Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heart wrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. At last, Marriages are made in heaven.
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Manoj kumar said:   5 years ago
Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heartwrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. #Marraiges are made in heaven.
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Vivek said:   5 years ago
Hello everyone.

I am going to share my views on Love marriage and arrange marriage.

Marriage is one of the most important parts of a human being. Marriage is the long life commitment so the decision to choose a life partner should be in one's own hand.

In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

Because in love marriage couple knew and well understood each other. We know understanding is the key of better relationship.

Love marriage is the only way to demolish the caste system and dowry system.

Thank you.
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GAURAV KASHYAP said:   5 years ago
Hello, gentlemen, this is GAURAV in front of you and now I'm going to talk about love marriage vs arrange marriage marriage is the most important event of everyone's life when I talk about love marriage we have thousands of options to choose our partner but if we see against it there is only a handful option.

When we talk about understanding as we all know that in love we know all the activities such as likes or dislikes but if we talk about arrange marriage it's not possible.

Love marriage is only one way to demolish the cast system and dowry systems which have been playing for a long time.

In my point of views, the love marriage is much more better than that one.

Thank you to go through patiently.
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