Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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AIRMAN PAWAN SAINI said:   4 years ago
Hello Friends.

Today we are discussing the topic.

" Love marriage vs Arrange marriage ".

Although in India Arrange marriage is most successful but in my opinion love marriage is best. In love marriage, both partners knew very well to each other before they get married. There doesn't matter of caste whom to your love & lack chance of dispute.

If in future Relationships not very well then they are self-responsible for it, instead of blaming on their Parents & Relatives.

Conclusion:

Both love marriage & Arrange marriage may succeed & can be longer if Both Partners loyal, satisfied& not misunderstanding to each other.

This is the point of my side.

Thank you.
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Jhumar Lal said:   4 years ago
Hello everyone.

Marriage Means a journey of life with two souls.

Marriage means to souls having the ability to have patiece and to contribute equally to make it a great life.

Love marriage is that people know each other perfectly but in arranged marriage people not know each other.

I favor a love marriage with the permission of our parents.

Both have merits and demerits.

In a love marriage, both partners understand their feeling, like, and dislike. It is the plus point of love marriage but afterwords the relationship bounding is not some as before mostly divorce case happen in love marriage. So that your oven place both are right.

In case of arranged marriage, both partners do not understand each other. So it takes time. Show your feeling and both are feeling as shy.

So some advantages in arrange marriage. So both type of marriage does not perfect. We should have love emotion and respect.
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Ayush singh slathia said:   4 years ago
Good morning everyone my name is Ayush.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment and both gender or partners have to spend their whole life with each other.

Now moving toward the given topic love marriage vs arranged marriage.

In my opinion, arranged marriages are good rather than love marriages.
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Anupam kumari said:   4 years ago
Good evening all.

I am Anupam kumari and I am expressing my view on a given topic.

The topic is love marriage vs arrange marriage. Marriage means you are getting marrry with a person either he or she. So it didn't matter either it love or arrange. According to me, I am a mother of a boy and my marriage is arranged but I support love marriage because in love marriage you know about that people will go to marry if you are going in arrange marriage lots of cheater are there and telling lie in taking for dowry. You don't kow about the people how he/ she is? How her/ his behavior, lots of problems facing after arrange marriage and you don't compromise then results will divorce. At recent time, lot of ladies are suffering from their laws misbehaviour. And difficulties increase day by day and one day they got sucide. So love marriage is much better than arrange marriage and it also reduce dowery and cast system. That's all about my opinion, thanks to all of you.
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Charanchery said:   4 years ago
Love marriage pros and cons:

1. Understanding one other easily and Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. In love marriage either must be done at least a job.
3. Due to some parents do not accept love marriage then they were to depend for food, shelter etc.,

Arrange marriage pros and cons:

1. Understanding each other makes some time. Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. And there is a parent's support for any cause.
3. It also has a condition to do a job to run the family.

Conclusion:

Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

But I am not saying love marriage is bad. We must accept both parents to support them for love. When they accept then love marriage also can be done in arrange marriage.

Here in arrange marriage, all the relatives are blessed to make relationship for about 100 years happy.
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KC Pandey said:   4 years ago
Hello everyone.

According to my point of view, Marriage is a very important social institution. Every individual wants to have a perfect match, but the criteria for choosing a partner are different. In love marriages, individuals prefer to choose their partners on their own, while in the case of arranging marriages individuals prefer partners chosen by their family or parents. There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose a partner for marriage. Let's analyze which one of the two is better.

Love marriage:

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.

-Couple is responsible for its choice and the onus of the blame in the future lies on the couple only and nobody else.

-Couple is aware of each other likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.

-Couples can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.

-The culture of extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

Arrange marriage:

-Arrange Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a confluence of two families.

-Two families involved in arrange marriages know each other very well and are compatible with each other.

-Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated.

-Couple is guided by parents experience whereas in a love marriage couple is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.
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Jahnvi singh parmar said:   4 years ago
Marriage is a very important decision of our life. It doesn't matter a lot that it is love or arrange. But the important component of marriage is understanding between couples. In a love marriage, we know each other before marriage so we already have understanding. In arrange marriage it took some time for better understanding between couples.
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Ch.Sai Sireesha said:   4 years ago
According to me, whether it is love or arranged marriage accepting and understanding each other is very important. In a love marriage, it is easy to understand each other because they spend a lot of time before marriage, In an arranged marriage, it takes some time to understand others. Once the bond is established between each other they can live happily by adjusting and compromising to the day to day problems. Therefore in my personal opinion, a love marriage with parents happiness is the best option.
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Tannu said:   4 years ago
Hello everyone.

We are here to discuss love marriage vs arrange marriage so I find love marriage is far better than arrange marriage. Marriage is a long life commitment you are going to spend your entire life with someone. So decision to choose a life partner should be in one's own hand.

In love marriage both partners know each other very well before marriage. They already know what are the good or bad habits of their partner and they happily accept this. On the other side in arrange marriage you do not accept this but you have to accept this. You have to compromise sometimes in arrange marriage.

Sometimes we face many problems related with our personal or professional life and in love marriage partner support each other at any kind of situation they become the support system of each other.

Dowry and caste system can be demolished by love marriage.

Thank you.
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Priyadarshinee said:   4 years ago
Marriage is an important part of every human's life.

Marriage is not a play of doll and dolly it's the promise of a lifetime it is the bond of two families and couples also.

So the couple should always well be known by each other. They would know about like and dislike of each other when they are well known by each other they have no tension and problems.
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