Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Sanjay Kumar S said:
3 years ago
Hi all,
I'm Sanjay Kumar,
Arranged marriage. It's like a fresh relationship which is arranged by a family where we get a new person in our life and start a new life the thing is we don't know anything about them in person day by day we get attached and then they love each other it's like a long journey but sometimes everything won't go in a way we like it's also after some months we can't get to a vibe along with them so it's like 50-50 chances to get a good partner.
But in a love arrangement, we get to know our partner already and can live a life which the couples have already dreamed among them to lead a life and both can be supportive of each other and we can get a good marriage life of about 80-90% or even 100%. So, love or arrange marriage. To get a proper good life we need to know each other before getting into marriage. Thank you.
I'm Sanjay Kumar,
Arranged marriage. It's like a fresh relationship which is arranged by a family where we get a new person in our life and start a new life the thing is we don't know anything about them in person day by day we get attached and then they love each other it's like a long journey but sometimes everything won't go in a way we like it's also after some months we can't get to a vibe along with them so it's like 50-50 chances to get a good partner.
But in a love arrangement, we get to know our partner already and can live a life which the couples have already dreamed among them to lead a life and both can be supportive of each other and we can get a good marriage life of about 80-90% or even 100%. So, love or arrange marriage. To get a proper good life we need to know each other before getting into marriage. Thank you.
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OVIYA said:
4 years ago
Marriage is a commitment btw 2 souls and 2 families.
ARRANGE MARRIAGE:
Our parents know what is good for us, they won't think to destroy our lives. Though we don't know each other we have to understand each other feelings and commence to love them.
Love marriage:
Getting an understanding partner is really important. We can understand each other and we won't blame our parents for any problem because it's our choice and we know how to compromise with each other.
Conclusion:
Both marriages have equal importance. It depends upon how you understand your partner's feelings and adjust to them.
ARRANGE MARRIAGE:
Our parents know what is good for us, they won't think to destroy our lives. Though we don't know each other we have to understand each other feelings and commence to love them.
Love marriage:
Getting an understanding partner is really important. We can understand each other and we won't blame our parents for any problem because it's our choice and we know how to compromise with each other.
Conclusion:
Both marriages have equal importance. It depends upon how you understand your partner's feelings and adjust to them.
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Mohit said:
4 years ago
From my point of view, a Love marriage is better than arranged marriage because;
1. Better understanding between couples.
2. Couples know the likes and dislikes of each other and what they need to be happy.
3. Marriage is not a contract between two families it is a relationship of love.
4. Its stops inequality in society.
5. In this marriage a little bit of chance of quarrels between them.
6. They discuss their old memories.
7. They solve their misunderstanding themselves.
1. Better understanding between couples.
2. Couples know the likes and dislikes of each other and what they need to be happy.
3. Marriage is not a contract between two families it is a relationship of love.
4. Its stops inequality in society.
5. In this marriage a little bit of chance of quarrels between them.
6. They discuss their old memories.
7. They solve their misunderstanding themselves.
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Rajdeep kumar said:
4 years ago
Hello everyone.
My name is Rajdeep Kumar.
Today going to discuss Love marriage vs Arranged marriage.
What is marriage? Marriage is a lifelong commitment between two partners and also two families.
In my opinion, both marriages have equal importance.
Advantages of love marriage.
1. They know very well each other.
2. In a love marriage one already knows one's partner like dislike and all about him.
3. Love marriage is the better way to end casteism.
4. They respect each other.
5. If sometimes, later anything happens then they don't blame their families because they choose each other.
Arranged marriage:
1. Our parents found a life partner as you know no one parents think bad about own's children.
2. Both families being strong relationships because of marriage.
Conclusion:- in my opinion both marriage has equal importance, marriage is a combination of two families and two soul mate, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner. And they forget some small mistakes and they help each other both are good if the couple has love respect and believe in each other.
Thank you, everyone.
My name is Rajdeep Kumar.
Today going to discuss Love marriage vs Arranged marriage.
What is marriage? Marriage is a lifelong commitment between two partners and also two families.
In my opinion, both marriages have equal importance.
Advantages of love marriage.
1. They know very well each other.
2. In a love marriage one already knows one's partner like dislike and all about him.
3. Love marriage is the better way to end casteism.
4. They respect each other.
5. If sometimes, later anything happens then they don't blame their families because they choose each other.
Arranged marriage:
1. Our parents found a life partner as you know no one parents think bad about own's children.
2. Both families being strong relationships because of marriage.
Conclusion:- in my opinion both marriage has equal importance, marriage is a combination of two families and two soul mate, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner. And they forget some small mistakes and they help each other both are good if the couple has love respect and believe in each other.
Thank you, everyone.
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Vinit said:
4 years ago
From my perspective, a love marriage is better than arranged marriage because in a love marriage couples love each other & like each other. Thus they can lead a happy marriage.
For marriage love, trust, choices, and likes are important aspects for maintaining the relationship of husband and wife.
It only can be possible when the boy and the girl know each other.
Love marriage is one of the best solutions to tackle the problems of dowry and also all the crimes related to dowry.
For marriage love, trust, choices, and likes are important aspects for maintaining the relationship of husband and wife.
It only can be possible when the boy and the girl know each other.
Love marriage is one of the best solutions to tackle the problems of dowry and also all the crimes related to dowry.
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Aman singh rajput said:
4 years ago
In my point of view, both are marriage not successful only matter three things.
* Love.
* Happyness.
* Understanding each other than automatic good life enjoy.
In my opinion, a love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Because in love marriage couple knows and well understood each other. We know understanding is the key of a better relationship.
Marriage is a beautiful connection between two souls.
* Love.
* Happyness.
* Understanding each other than automatic good life enjoy.
In my opinion, a love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Because in love marriage couple knows and well understood each other. We know understanding is the key of a better relationship.
Marriage is a beautiful connection between two souls.
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Sanskriti said:
4 years ago
Topic: love marriage vs arrange marriage.
Deciding how you want to marry, arranged marriage or love marriage, should be an individual's own perspective, it shouldn't be based on anyone else's thinking, Because after all you are the person who is going to be doing the marriage.
The mindset of Indian society is very lagged behind, And in respective of surviving in this uncertain world, you are supposed to cope with the trends.
Marriages are not bad, whether it be arranged or love, it's the human being where the problem is, Some the love marriages work very well, where you don't know the other person at all, on the other hand, some the love marriages don't work, where you knew the person beforehand.
So it's just a matter of shame if you are blaming the marriage rather than the person.
Compromise is the key for every relationship to be peaceful and successful, be it son- dad, mom-son, husband-wife, etc.
With the above discussion, I would finally like to conclude by saying that, Whatever a person wants to choose, love marriage or arrange marriage let it be, don't ever put your thoughts into somebody else, it might be good for you but not for others.
Thank you.
Deciding how you want to marry, arranged marriage or love marriage, should be an individual's own perspective, it shouldn't be based on anyone else's thinking, Because after all you are the person who is going to be doing the marriage.
The mindset of Indian society is very lagged behind, And in respective of surviving in this uncertain world, you are supposed to cope with the trends.
Marriages are not bad, whether it be arranged or love, it's the human being where the problem is, Some the love marriages work very well, where you don't know the other person at all, on the other hand, some the love marriages don't work, where you knew the person beforehand.
So it's just a matter of shame if you are blaming the marriage rather than the person.
Compromise is the key for every relationship to be peaceful and successful, be it son- dad, mom-son, husband-wife, etc.
With the above discussion, I would finally like to conclude by saying that, Whatever a person wants to choose, love marriage or arrange marriage let it be, don't ever put your thoughts into somebody else, it might be good for you but not for others.
Thank you.
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Ashish Singh said:
4 years ago
In my opinion, we should do love marriage, because we do the marriage for our choice, and in an arranged marriage, we don't know about that person who gets married to us, we have to live the life with that unknown person we don't know about them anything, so it's better we do the arrange marriage but if you want to do the arrange marriage so you should do with the permission of your family and relative.
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Yesh said:
4 years ago
In my point of view, both love and arrange marriage have pros and cons. It is not a matter of arrange or love marriage if they both have an understanding nature. They need to spend time with partners and discuss what is the likes and dislikes.
In a love marriage, We need to convince the parents if they accept then ok, otherwise, we need to face a lot of problems. If anything goes wrong with the partner then we can't go back and talk with the parents. But in arrange, marriage parents will take care of and they will settle down everything.
In a love marriage, We need to convince the parents if they accept then ok, otherwise, we need to face a lot of problems. If anything goes wrong with the partner then we can't go back and talk with the parents. But in arrange, marriage parents will take care of and they will settle down everything.
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Nisha verma said:
4 years ago
Hii everyone.
My name is Nisha and today topic is love vs arranged marriage.
Advantages:
My opinion is love and arranged both are good and both bad because love marriage know perfectly.
Each other and both parents understand feelings and situations and strong bonding and arranged marriage don't know each other new couple and new family.
Disadvantage.
Love marriage after that any issue of the couple than divorce and separate both are and arranged marriage don't know each other's not understand feeling sadness and happiness.
In my point of view, both are marriage not successful only matter three things.
Love.
Happyness.
Understanding each other than automatic good life enjoy.
Thanks everyone.
My name is Nisha and today topic is love vs arranged marriage.
Advantages:
My opinion is love and arranged both are good and both bad because love marriage know perfectly.
Each other and both parents understand feelings and situations and strong bonding and arranged marriage don't know each other new couple and new family.
Disadvantage.
Love marriage after that any issue of the couple than divorce and separate both are and arranged marriage don't know each other's not understand feeling sadness and happiness.
In my point of view, both are marriage not successful only matter three things.
Love.
Happyness.
Understanding each other than automatic good life enjoy.
Thanks everyone.
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