Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Nicky said:   6 years ago
Hello friends,

In my opinion, it doesn't matter the marriage is loved or arranged. The important thing is it should be based on friendship and trust. Where both partners feel comfortable with each other to share their stories and thoughts freely. Because in arrange marriage both partners are afraid of families and their reputation in society. They never show they're true identities, their past stories. Everyone wants to be like a perfect husband or a perfect wife. They never know each other that much closed as a friend knows. The clarity in any relationship is essential. It makes the bond stronger. We trust more. So take your time to marry anyone. 1st be friends. Know each other well then decide this marriage will happen or not. And be acceptable if someone has a dreadful past memory. Everyone learns from experience. Don't be judgemental. Anything can change.

Thanks.
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Swechchha mishra said:   6 years ago
As per my point of view, I support love marriage as compared to arrange marriages as in love marriage we get ample of time to know about the person and their feelings. We get time to know whether we can spend our whole life with each other or no.
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Sagar Gogade said:   6 years ago
In my point of view, we can't decide which is right. In love marriage they people know each others but in arrange marriage they take more time to understand. If we get good partner in arrange then its OK, but here is very low possibility to get good and understandable partner. So I am in fever of love marriage 70% and arrange marriage 30%. Thank you.
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Chandan kumar said:   6 years ago
Hello everyone, I'm Chandan. Today I am going to give my best opinion about the love marriage vs Arranged marriage. From my point of view, love marriages is better than arranged marriages. Because in love marriages you already know the Lifepartner, her/his habits and behaviour and way of living and treating. So I will suggest to all for love marriages.
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Hritik Solanki said:   6 years ago
Hi I am Hritik,

According to me for a healthy relationship, it doesn't matter whether it was arranged marriage or love marriage. What ultimately matters is love and happiness. If the couple is happy with each other, they care for each other, they respect each other then they can face each and every problem of life and live happily.
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Shubham said:   6 years ago
As far as I am concerned love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In love marriage both partner know about each and every thing about her / him also they tuning is better they have spend lot's of time with together that'y They made perfect for each other aslo they know about their secrets.
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Dharmendra Rajoriya said:   6 years ago
Hello friends.

Good afternoon.

According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in the love marriage, we get to know each other very well and remain satisfied with each other or we can live each other a long time so love marriage is better than arrange marriage in modern situation.
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R P said:   6 years ago
I will talk about the modern generation, Not the old generation where there were only arranged marriages. First, let's talk about arranged marriage. In an arranged marriage, we have to marry an unknown person. We completely don't know about his/her character. If he/she has a previous affair or loved someone before, then he/she will not be able to give full love to his arranged partner or one day when they meet and you get to know that your wife/husband has feelings for someone. How would that feel to you? Another disadvantage. If you don't fit with your partner or you don't like their habit or behavior.

How will you manage with that person for a lifetime? And nowadays girls are aware and educated. If they don't feel good with you or things didn't go well. Then you both can have a divorce. In the case of Love Marriages. In the modern age, most girls are smart. They think whether a guy would be fit with them or not. If they feel her parents will not agree then she will not involve her in life. If both partners love each other and if they are of the same caste. AND IF BOTH PARENTS AGREE AND DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH MARRIAGE. SO BOTH PARTNERS WILL GET FAMILY SUPPORT AND IT WILL BE BEST AND HAPPY MARRIAGE EVER.
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Swapnil said:   6 years ago
Hello everyone,
My name is swapnil pawar.

According to me, It cannot be decided which marriage will be most successful (love or arranged).

Essentially love marriage takes place when both the partners fall in love with each other, they understand each other better, however in arranged marriages, both the partners only know a little about each other. They are totally unaware about their partners likes and dislikes, their habits etc. But this unawareness makes the marriage that interesting. However, It is still impossible to determine which marriage is better.
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Rekha said:   6 years ago
In my opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are good. Because it depends on two people mutual understanding. How to treat each other behavior, love, honesty, care. In love marriage, they know each other good hobbies bad hobbies how to treat partner when he angry they know everything before marriage happy, unhappy things how to handle upon our partner.

And in arrange marriage they know after marriage each other they take time to understand each other about partner behavior, care, anger, like, and it depends on similarity and Understanding. In arrange marriage problems come so your parents do compromise about two people. If love marriage comes a problem so couples self solve own problems. According to me both marriage are good marriages all depend on two people thinking Understanding and behavior nothing at all.
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