Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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R P said:
6 years ago
I will talk about the modern generation, Not the old generation where there were only arranged marriages. First, let's talk about arranged marriage. In an arranged marriage, we have to marry an unknown person. We completely don't know about his/her character. If he/she has a previous affair or loved someone before, then he/she will not be able to give full love to his arranged partner or one day when they meet and you get to know that your wife/husband has feelings for someone. How would that feel to you? Another disadvantage. If you don't fit with your partner or you don't like their habit or behavior.
How will you manage with that person for a lifetime? And nowadays girls are aware and educated. If they don't feel good with you or things didn't go well. Then you both can have a divorce. In the case of Love Marriages. In the modern age, most girls are smart. They think whether a guy would be fit with them or not. If they feel her parents will not agree then she will not involve her in life. If both partners love each other and if they are of the same caste. AND IF BOTH PARENTS AGREE AND DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH MARRIAGE. SO BOTH PARTNERS WILL GET FAMILY SUPPORT AND IT WILL BE BEST AND HAPPY MARRIAGE EVER.
How will you manage with that person for a lifetime? And nowadays girls are aware and educated. If they don't feel good with you or things didn't go well. Then you both can have a divorce. In the case of Love Marriages. In the modern age, most girls are smart. They think whether a guy would be fit with them or not. If they feel her parents will not agree then she will not involve her in life. If both partners love each other and if they are of the same caste. AND IF BOTH PARENTS AGREE AND DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH MARRIAGE. SO BOTH PARTNERS WILL GET FAMILY SUPPORT AND IT WILL BE BEST AND HAPPY MARRIAGE EVER.
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Swapnil said:
6 years ago
Hello everyone,
My name is swapnil pawar.
According to me, It cannot be decided which marriage will be most successful (love or arranged).
Essentially love marriage takes place when both the partners fall in love with each other, they understand each other better, however in arranged marriages, both the partners only know a little about each other. They are totally unaware about their partners likes and dislikes, their habits etc. But this unawareness makes the marriage that interesting. However, It is still impossible to determine which marriage is better.
My name is swapnil pawar.
According to me, It cannot be decided which marriage will be most successful (love or arranged).
Essentially love marriage takes place when both the partners fall in love with each other, they understand each other better, however in arranged marriages, both the partners only know a little about each other. They are totally unaware about their partners likes and dislikes, their habits etc. But this unawareness makes the marriage that interesting. However, It is still impossible to determine which marriage is better.
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Rekha said:
6 years ago
In my opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are good. Because it depends on two people mutual understanding. How to treat each other behavior, love, honesty, care. In love marriage, they know each other good hobbies bad hobbies how to treat partner when he angry they know everything before marriage happy, unhappy things how to handle upon our partner.
And in arrange marriage they know after marriage each other they take time to understand each other about partner behavior, care, anger, like, and it depends on similarity and Understanding. In arrange marriage problems come so your parents do compromise about two people. If love marriage comes a problem so couples self solve own problems. According to me both marriage are good marriages all depend on two people thinking Understanding and behavior nothing at all.
And in arrange marriage they know after marriage each other they take time to understand each other about partner behavior, care, anger, like, and it depends on similarity and Understanding. In arrange marriage problems come so your parents do compromise about two people. If love marriage comes a problem so couples self solve own problems. According to me both marriage are good marriages all depend on two people thinking Understanding and behavior nothing at all.
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Manasa said:
6 years ago
No matter if it is love or arranged marriage. If they maintain mutual understanding in life and if both partners respectful, patient, love each other it leads to a happy life. It is a matter of two persons as well as their families to be loved. According to the India divorce list, love marriages are getting divorced more than an arranged marriage. Mostly in love marriages people are not maintaining there relationship till end of life. You have many reasons to love him/her before marriage and people should not find reasons to get divorce after marriage the love at starting should be maintained till the end of life. If both partners are in love till the end of life apart of love or arranged marriage they lead happy life.
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V J said:
6 years ago
Hi friends.
In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage both are acceptable. Both depend upon understanding. But LOVE MARRIAGE is the BEST. Because there is a good understanding between them. In ARRANGED MARRIAGE, there is no understanding. So, LOVE MARRIAGE is the best with your parent's permission.
In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage both are acceptable. Both depend upon understanding. But LOVE MARRIAGE is the BEST. Because there is a good understanding between them. In ARRANGED MARRIAGE, there is no understanding. So, LOVE MARRIAGE is the best with your parent's permission.
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Sanjay said:
6 years ago
Hi friends first of all thanks for giving an opportunity to display my view on the topic love marriage vs arrange marriage.
In my point of view love marriage is better than other. In love marriage the both of them know there character very well, in arranged marriage it will take more time to know the other person.
This is the main problem for going to divorce after marriage. In love marriage there is only one problem they don't have any family support if they had it then it will be the best life for that couples.
In my point of view love marriage is better than other. In love marriage the both of them know there character very well, in arranged marriage it will take more time to know the other person.
This is the main problem for going to divorce after marriage. In love marriage there is only one problem they don't have any family support if they had it then it will be the best life for that couples.
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Mayur kathane said:
6 years ago
Hello friends!
In my point of view, love and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding between the couple who are getting married. But in arrange marriage, both people can understand each other after marriage and in love marriage, already the person knew each other and came in a relationship after understanding.
So in my point of view love marriage overcome the arrange marriage.
In my point of view, love and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding between the couple who are getting married. But in arrange marriage, both people can understand each other after marriage and in love marriage, already the person knew each other and came in a relationship after understanding.
So in my point of view love marriage overcome the arrange marriage.
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Raj Gupta said:
6 years ago
Hello friend.
My Name is Raj.
According to my point of view love marriage and arrange marriage both are depending on understanding.
But love marriage is thinking about oneself.
And arrange marriage is all.
My Name is Raj.
According to my point of view love marriage and arrange marriage both are depending on understanding.
But love marriage is thinking about oneself.
And arrange marriage is all.
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Veerendra said:
6 years ago
HELLO FRIENDS.
In love marriage, there is only love between the couples and no family support,
In an arranged marriage, there is only family support but no love between them,
BUT in love N arranged marriages there is both love between them and family support to them so, finally love come arranged marriages OR arranged come love marriages or much better any other.
In love marriage, there is only love between the couples and no family support,
In an arranged marriage, there is only family support but no love between them,
BUT in love N arranged marriages there is both love between them and family support to them so, finally love come arranged marriages OR arranged come love marriages or much better any other.
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Yuvraj said:
6 years ago
I totally agree with Kanika Rajkhowa and like her views but I want to share my views that love marriage is right at its own place but ARRANGE MARRIAGE is also good because parents know each other well and know the circumstances that couple will face in future so for this parents give advice for prevent from bad circumstances which may be come in future.
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