Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Shivansh said:   9 years ago
Hi friends.

According to me, love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knows about likes and dislikes of our partner, in this way we can run our life smoothly, but in arrange marriage we don't know about our partners likes and dislikes which creates problems in the life, we are not a product, as a human being we also have the feelings for someone to whom we love, it should be our decision to whom we want to marry, if parents will think about their status in the society, and their name in the society, is they don't know that others will help them in the happiness only but when they are in trouble nobody will stand behind them for their protection. Parents should also respect the feelings of their child.
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Sayli patil said:   9 years ago
I think so love marraige is best in arrange marraige lots of time is required for understanding our patner but in love marraige we know who is important to our patner what should we do make him.

I always suggest love marraige.
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Arthapurba said:   9 years ago
Hi everyone. After I read all the statement before me, I realise something that actually unique.

Most of us thought that arrange married are part of tradition and women as a commodity. But have you realize something? For me arrange married is a man and a woman married by their parents because a lot of reason for example that the daughter and the son have an age that actually perfects to become a bride or groom, but there a condition that makes there can't getting married soon like they only focus on study, workaholic, still alone a. K. A doesn't have any mate before, don't wanna fall in love or never fall in love, or can't find the true match, weird, etc. That makes their parents worried, 'what if my son or daughter still life alone after I died? Who will take care him or her?' That's why arranged married is needed to be held. That's why parent seek the perfect match for their kid, start from health (there is no parent want their kid marriage with someone full of disease), wealth (its kind of materialistic, but who parents want their kid life in poverty, no one want it), and background (that's the matter after all to know the truth identity).

And love marriage. It's just love. Have no reason to be in love and to be love with or by someone.

But marriage about love is not the simple like what people always read on book or novel or by watching drama on TV.

Marriage by love is needed preparation first, start to prepare from metal until wealth.

Why mental? Bcs we know it's not a taboo again that our mate can change into another people just for less than 24 hours we living together with them. Somehow a relationship before marriage & their appearance such wonderful may be a little bit annoying but still can acceptable by us. But after marriage, we will stay with them 24 hours on 7 days without holiday that can make a new behaviour that never shows before marriage, become a huge drama section on marriage life.

And for me which one of the best?

Both of that are perfect for their own reason.
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Arya kumar pawan said:   9 years ago
I agree with all of my friends, but according to my point of view, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In case of love marriage, we know the quality, the behavior and mentality of our future life partner very well. You have to spend your life yourself with your life partner. So we choose our life partner ourselves.

I always suggest love marriage.
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Tripti Rathore said:   9 years ago
I felt really bad after I see this vs between the two. What people meant with love marriage-marrying someone with love and knowing the person very well irrespective of parents choice. Arrange marriage-marriage with more involvement from parents.

Love never see love marriage or arrange it just happens after or before marriage. It can happen to anybody any part of your life with your partner. Never got in confusion like this that love marriage is only having love more than arrange, it is ambiguous in nature. Just depends on person to person. If a person knows how to love definitely he/she would love his/her, partner, anyway.

Life is beautiful love is beautiful. Marriage itself is a beautiful thing.
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M.sruthi sree said:   9 years ago
In My View, the arranged marriages are better love marriages why because for suppose in love marriages if they have any problems in their married life. They won't come to their parents. Why because their leaved their parents and they thought that they have mutual understanding between them. But in my there is no mutual understanding between them. They thought like that but actually not like that. In particular age they that love but it is absolutely wrong. In that age that is not at all love it is infatuation. But they don't know that at that time. They felt that after some years that is wrong but at that time but there is no use. Coming to arranged marriages there is a mutual understanding between the couple and their parents also. In olden days all marriages are arranged but now most of the marriages are love. At that time the parents are sitting together they talk each other their children and their traditions all are they talked each other. And then they married each other. For suppose any problem come between them they talked with their parents. So that they solved their problems like that. And the most important thing is in either arranged or love marriages the cooperation between them is very important. At last, I conclude that arranged marriages is better than love marriages.
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Sruthi sree said:   9 years ago
Hi friends,

ARRANGED MARRIAGE.

-- Arranged marriages are better than love marriages.
-- In arranged married life they have some understanding between them.
-- In olden Days the parents are sitting together and they talk each other family background.
-- For suppose the couple have any problem they met their parents and solve their problems and lead their life happily.
-- Before their marriage, they know the partners likes, dislikes.
-- And they have mutual understanding between them.

LOVE MARRIAGE.

-- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is a infatuation.
-- At that time what ever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.

CONCLUSION.

-- Many problems are in both married life. At last, I believe that arranged marriages lead more role from olden days onwards.
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Nive said:   9 years ago
Both at times fails. Even arranged marriages sometimes lead to failure. So marriage is where both boy and girl adjust themselves and lead a happy life.
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Kiranmai said:   9 years ago
I feel arranged marriages are better than love marriages. The way of loving is different but love exists in both marriages. For any relation to be successful first they need to understand each other. But parents and society mostly supports arranged marriages.
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Bipul Kumar said:   9 years ago
Hi friend, I'm Bipul Kumar it's my topic is love marriage. Everyone marriage has own their merit and demerit. In my opinion, Love Marriage is better than Arrange Marriage. Because girl and boy love can any condition spend their life and I doesn't say wrong arrange marriage. Arrange marriage is very important of human life and arrange marriage depends on Indian society. Both of you couple between mis understanding behavior.

Conclusion - Love marriage very beautiful, happiness, and its my suggestion is love marriage is very beautiful than arrange marriage.
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