Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Smruti said:   9 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is good. Because in love marriage they both know each other from a long time and they already knew about each others background like dislike character nature everything after knowing this much they choose each other so if they will marry each other then they will not face any major problem. I know parents might oppose them for marriage but if they are really want to spend their hole life together then they should convince their parents.
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RInku yadav said:   9 years ago
Hi, I'm Rinku Yadav. I likes love marriage. They knew about each other past time so they will no facing any problem who is relative each other. I knows that them parents against marriage because perents don't understands about them love. However parents declare marriage but they (parents) want to marriage acording society. According to me, shoud be replace love marriage.
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Kasim said:   9 years ago
Hi friends.

According to my point of view, in arrange marriages parents select husband for their daughter with their own measuring rods which may not suit a girl.

They considered the girls only a commodity to be handed over to the boy of their choice.

It an insult to the principle of the equality of sexes.
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Arshia said:   9 years ago
Hi friends,

Arrange marriage is always better than love marriage. As we all of us know Mistakes will happen by humans only some of which will teach us life lessons.

Confusing! Let me tell you my point of view, because, In both cases, there is a chance of choosing wrong person as a life partner. We may realize it after marriage ar some point of time whether it is love or arrange.

In case of love 'U' are purely responsible for everything and will not get any support, but in case of arrange, parents are responsible for everything and they always stand beside U as a strong supporter which you actually need when you are heartbroken either in love or arrange.

In case of love marriage, You should only stand and collect all the broken pieces of heart. In case of arrange Marriage, before you fall or even after falling, your family will make you stand again and will help you in collecting the broken heart pieces.

Support from parents and family is always the greatest strength ever!!!

Hope you guys like it.

Thank you.
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Anu said:   9 years ago
As I have seen the comments people are believing in both. Love and arrange.

Arrange marriage is best. I agree on this because parents are choosing for their child, yes obviously the best bride or best groom. But if you are loving someone then how come you will do a arrange marriage.

Don't you think that it is a foolishness? I know parents are making a good decision. But they have to understand this thing also. That their child is not a kid now. He or she may fall in love n he or she wants to marry as per choice. It's the 21st century. Boy and girl should be measured in same parameters. Then why only for a boy they looking a better girl. Why girl can't give their decision to their parents.

Seriously for you, your parents are choosing someone n then they will ask you to marry that guy. Why I'm not understanding. They only think of their respect in society n all about culture.

For me, I full support to love marriage but for that parents also accept this one. Because girls are not a commodity or a thing, that whom you want you can give it to them.

Love marriage is good, but only with parents blessings.
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Venkat said:   9 years ago
Hi, in my point of view, Arrange marriages are better than love marriages why because Parents support them.

If love marriages some Risky problems facing long life.

Anyways couples understanding is good. Any problems coming face it.
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Akhil Umrao said:   9 years ago
I agree with all of my friends. But according to my point of view, I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In case of love, we know the quality, the behaviour and the mentality of our future wife very well. You have to spend your life yourself. With your life partner. So we should choose our life partner ourselves.

That's it.

Thank you all of you.
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Hitendar Rohilla said:   9 years ago
Hello friends, I agree with all of you, because every friend is right in itself, but my point of view. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because they understand each other a long Time, there is no dowry system, no casteism, no religion, who is better for our country, because these problems created a lot of problems. There is no problem in love marriage, if the marriage take place with the help of parents, and we talk about arrange marriage, we don't know each other, how can we sleep each other, there is no love, there is only mean to live life Nd born child, in arrange marriage we don't know past relationship and type of relationship, because some relationship never ended, your partner cheated you in arrange marriage, but in love marriage cheating chances is very low, so I like love marriage, you live your life, not your parents, so you can choose your life partner, I give an example, when you buy a mobile, you don't ask to your parents, because you know the feature of mobile, that's why in love marriage we know very well our partner, So friends love marriage is best.
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Moupriya Dev said:   9 years ago
First of all, marriage is not the conclusion of life. Love or Arrange a marriage is a lifetime commitment. Loving someone is not easy but staying in love with someone is more difficult. When you accept someone for who they are and go through every pain and still want to be with them then you should marry them.

When we talk about love marriage it is like loving a stranger. It's like trying to know someone every day and trying to explore their lives everyday. And the fear of losing one another is gone because there is family pressure too. To have a happy married life you have to stop judging others.

Falling in love and getting married or arranged marriage both has love but in different ways. So it's about loving someone imperfect perfectly.

Marriage is very special in itself, it is to keep. You have to make sacrifices without sacrificing urself.

Be strong enough to be able to make a good choice and to be able to live the commitment of marriage and to be able to build a relationship. And be the best spouse who chooses the same person every day.
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Jothimurugan said:   9 years ago
Hi.

In this topic love marriage and arrange marriage both have pros and cons. It depends on the person. We can't blame any one of the above.
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