Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

If parents supports his/her likes and dislikes arranged marriage is good.

According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in this two individual boy and girl can know very well before their marriage. It removes hindrances of religion, cast, color and creed, also dowry system. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. Parents support you after you tell them about real conditions. There will be best future married life.

I agree with all my dear friends, according to me, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in case of love marriage. We know that the quality the behaviour and mentality of our life future life partner very well. We have to spend our life ourself with our life partner.

That's why I always suggest love marriage. Thank you.

Puja.

I think both marriages are successful, because of their trust, understanding and compromise.

Hi friends, myself Teju Mahima.


According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we can understand the person feeling and also some many love marriage are successful in life with parents permission finally love is beautiful.

There's a difference between true love and romantic love/attraction. Romantic love/attraction/infatuation needs sexual intimacy to stay alive. After some time this sexual intimacy starts to fade and both realise that the love is lost. They don't feel the same etc. But they have to realise that it was not loved from the very beginning. They just got attracted to each other. They always thought of being physical with each other but not realising it at the same time. Now, what's true love then? As Marilyn Monroe once said sex is opposite of love. In true love sex is secondary. You care for each other. You're not jealous. You're fighting but are never separate. You're at a comfort with each other. You know she/he will never cheat. You're always worried for your partner. So whether love marriage or arranged marriage. There has to be true love in it. Only then you can spend the rest of your life happily see after. Just like so many other love stories. But how to find true love. There's no answer to that. You meet new people and spend some time to know each other. And see if that definition of true love is there or not. Your inner voice tells you that he/she is the one. And it's not lust. So go after true love. Even if it takes time.

I don't think this comparison between types of marriages really applies. It all depends on how the couple conducts themselves. How mature enough they are to handle their life together and balance it equally. It doesn't matter what the world says about you then. It doesn't matter if parents agree or not because eventually if they see that you are happy with your partner, they will be bound to step down and care only for your happiness. Love or arranged, any of the two can fail miserably but not if they respect each other and talk it out calmly in a mature way.

Love marriage is best but with acceptance of parents.

Hi friends.

I am Chandan Kumar.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage couples become friends first then gradually their friendship changes into love. In that journey they know each other better and also know about their likes and dislikes. That's way they form a hard bond which can't be broken easily.

Love Marriage is only a bonding of two hearts, while Arrange Marriage is the bonding of two families. For me my parents are everything, they bring me into this world, nurtured me, fulfil all my needs. How could I ditch them when they are in need? So, I would prefer to arrange marriage, which can be turned into a love marriage afterwards.