Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

All have different taste and preferences. One can be in favour of something while the other can't be. And we can't force anyone to feel in the Same way that we feel. My intention is not to hurt anyone.

But if I have to choose between love and arrange I would go with the arrange one. Our parents had sacrificed their dreams in order to fulfil our small demands, so when it comes to choosing bride/groom they will choose the right one for their child. Both the families will be in touch so it'll be easier for the couple to solve their problems which come on their way. We can take the example of our own parents how they are spending their life with their beloved ones, ones who used to be stranger. We have more time to understand each other. Don't it sound interesting at first people don't know each other but as the time passes they become close and their friendship gets stronger and their trust, they care each other as a best friend rather than a lover. Isn't it beautiful? in arrange, marriage couples are guided by parents experience so there is less probability of misunderstanding and divorce.

So I prefer the arranged marriage.

I am Ram.

According to my point of view, love marriage is best because they can understand each other very much and both of us know their positive and negative things very well. If arrange marriage means first we want to make friendship with that girl after that want to understand each other and then only they can enter into their life. So I preferred love marriage.

Hi guys.

According to me, love marriage is THE BEST. How can you marry an unknown person & live together? Parents prefer a boy or girl by their appearance, education, job, wealth etc. My question is what about the understanding between a boy & the girl who are going to be coupled? The word BETTER HALF best suits for love marriage couples. In most arranged marriage cases couples can be happy but can be better half to each other. There is an important point everyone says as a positive thing in arrange marriage is that after marriage parents can solve the couple's problems but when you seek your parents to solve your misunderstandings rather solving among yourselves then it seems that you are not matured enough to get married. Transformation of true love into marriage is what called HEAVEN.

Hence, I strongly support love marriage.

Hi I am Sagar.

I will support for arrange marriage because I know my parents always choose best for me and for my childishness for love I never gonna heart them they are experienced and in arrange marriage perhaps some problem will come they can help me to solve for my single love I can't be selfish. In love marriage, I only think about myself but in arrange marriage I will be blessed by all my society.

Love Marriage is only a bonding of two hearts, while Arrange Marriage is the bonding of two families. For me my parents are everything, they bring me into this world, nurtured me, fulfil all my needs. How could I ditch them when they are in need? So, I would prefer to arrange marriage, which can be turned into a love marriage afterwards.

Hi friends.

I am Chandan Kumar.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage couples become friends first then gradually their friendship changes into love. In that journey they know each other better and also know about their likes and dislikes. That's way they form a hard bond which can't be broken easily.

Love marriage is best but with acceptance of parents.

I don't think this comparison between types of marriages really applies. It all depends on how the couple conducts themselves. How mature enough they are to handle their life together and balance it equally. It doesn't matter what the world says about you then. It doesn't matter if parents agree or not because eventually if they see that you are happy with your partner, they will be bound to step down and care only for your happiness. Love or arranged, any of the two can fail miserably but not if they respect each other and talk it out calmly in a mature way.

There's a difference between true love and romantic love/attraction. Romantic love/attraction/infatuation needs sexual intimacy to stay alive. After some time this sexual intimacy starts to fade and both realise that the love is lost. They don't feel the same etc. But they have to realise that it was not loved from the very beginning. They just got attracted to each other. They always thought of being physical with each other but not realising it at the same time. Now, what's true love then? As Marilyn Monroe once said sex is opposite of love. In true love sex is secondary. You care for each other. You're not jealous. You're fighting but are never separate. You're at a comfort with each other. You know she/he will never cheat. You're always worried for your partner. So whether love marriage or arranged marriage. There has to be true love in it. Only then you can spend the rest of your life happily see after. Just like so many other love stories. But how to find true love. There's no answer to that. You meet new people and spend some time to know each other. And see if that definition of true love is there or not. Your inner voice tells you that he/she is the one. And it's not lust. So go after true love. Even if it takes time.

Hi friends, myself Teju Mahima.


According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we can understand the person feeling and also some many love marriage are successful in life with parents permission finally love is beautiful.