Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Sai velpuri said:   9 years ago
Sai: Hi friends. In my point of view, love marriage is the best one because they understand very well before the marriage. Particularly summing of two different religions it leads to unity in society. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. But in arrange marriage parents choose the bride/groom by seeing the appearance, wealth, job etc. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage we will be happy when we vanish our ego with soft nature. Yes particularly patience is very important in marriage life. Few members said arrange marriage can bond two families but love marriage can bond two religions or different castes.
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Sravan Kumar B said:   9 years ago
Both Types has their Pros & Cons.

I support Arranged marriage, Marriage is not Just an individual matter, it's of a Family.

You can find partner from the Family of same Financial status.

You can find partner from same culture & type of Family.

Its is not that you are forcefully married, You have choice to choose within the scope.

Attraction or infatuation or even LOVE cannot withhold relations, it does need money, commitment.

I feel Commitment & money can be guaranteed in Arranged marriage, unlike Love marriage.

I left my parents for my Love which haunts me. Till death.
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Govind kushwaha said:   9 years ago
Hello, friends, l am Govind Kushawaha.

According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In this marriage, bridge and groom will by couple together. They like each other after then they will be married. So better than arrange marriage. Thank you.
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Kirthi said:   9 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because boy and girl know each other. They also know their likes and dislikes. So I think that love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
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Sachin said:   9 years ago
Hello, friend. I am Sachin and I am telling about the love marriage and arrange marriage in love marriage boy and girl are know very well each but on the other hand in arrange marriage boy and girl not know very well each other. Arrange marriage is the bonding of two family but arrange marriage is the bonding of two family. I think love marriage is best but also acceptable by parents in love marriage may be religion and family are sad but in arrange marriage both of family and religion are very happy.
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Tinku verma said:   9 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

Because we know each other and negative and positive things.

But We can do love marriage like arrange.

Than love marriage be successful in life.
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Shankar Patil said:   9 years ago
Arrange/love does not matter, thing is should have better understanding, care towards even small things & patience. If we vanish our ego by understanding each other with soft nature then it will lead to a happy life in both marriages.
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Alex said:   9 years ago
All have different taste and preferences. One can be in favour of something while the other can't be. And we can't force anyone to feel in the Same way that we feel. My intention is not to hurt anyone.

But if I have to choose between love and arrange I would go with the arrange one. Our parents had sacrificed their dreams in order to fulfil our small demands, so when it comes to choosing bride/groom they will choose the right one for their child. Both the families will be in touch so it'll be easier for the couple to solve their problems which come on their way. We can take the example of our own parents how they are spending their life with their beloved ones, ones who used to be stranger. We have more time to understand each other. Don't it sound interesting at first people don't know each other but as the time passes they become close and their friendship gets stronger and their trust, they care each other as a best friend rather than a lover. Isn't it beautiful? in arrange, marriage couples are guided by parents experience so there is less probability of misunderstanding and divorce.

So I prefer the arranged marriage.
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Ram said:   9 years ago
I am Ram.

According to my point of view, love marriage is best because they can understand each other very much and both of us know their positive and negative things very well. If arrange marriage means first we want to make friendship with that girl after that want to understand each other and then only they can enter into their life. So I preferred love marriage.
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VIGNESWARI A said:   9 years ago
Hi guys.

According to me, love marriage is THE BEST. How can you marry an unknown person & live together? Parents prefer a boy or girl by their appearance, education, job, wealth etc. My question is what about the understanding between a boy & the girl who are going to be coupled? The word BETTER HALF best suits for love marriage couples. In most arranged marriage cases couples can be happy but can be better half to each other. There is an important point everyone says as a positive thing in arrange marriage is that after marriage parents can solve the couple's problems but when you seek your parents to solve your misunderstandings rather solving among yourselves then it seems that you are not matured enough to get married. Transformation of true love into marriage is what called HEAVEN.

Hence, I strongly support love marriage.
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