Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

I don't think this comparison between types of marriages really applies. It all depends on how the couple conducts themselves. How mature enough they are to handle their life together and balance it equally. It doesn't matter what the world says about you then. It doesn't matter if parents agree or not because eventually if they see that you are happy with your partner, they will be bound to step down and care only for your happiness. Love or arranged, any of the two can fail miserably but not if they respect each other and talk it out calmly in a mature way.

There's a difference between true love and romantic love/attraction. Romantic love/attraction/infatuation needs sexual intimacy to stay alive. After some time this sexual intimacy starts to fade and both realise that the love is lost. They don't feel the same etc. But they have to realise that it was not loved from the very beginning. They just got attracted to each other. They always thought of being physical with each other but not realising it at the same time. Now, what's true love then? As Marilyn Monroe once said sex is opposite of love. In true love sex is secondary. You care for each other. You're not jealous. You're fighting but are never separate. You're at a comfort with each other. You know she/he will never cheat. You're always worried for your partner. So whether love marriage or arranged marriage. There has to be true love in it. Only then you can spend the rest of your life happily see after. Just like so many other love stories. But how to find true love. There's no answer to that. You meet new people and spend some time to know each other. And see if that definition of true love is there or not. Your inner voice tells you that he/she is the one. And it's not lust. So go after true love. Even if it takes time.

Hi friends, myself Teju Mahima.


According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we can understand the person feeling and also some many love marriage are successful in life with parents permission finally love is beautiful.

Puja.

I think both marriages are successful, because of their trust, understanding and compromise.

I agree with all my dear friends, according to me, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in case of love marriage. We know that the quality the behaviour and mentality of our life future life partner very well. We have to spend our life ourself with our life partner.

That's why I always suggest love marriage. Thank you.

According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in this two individual boy and girl can know very well before their marriage. It removes hindrances of religion, cast, color and creed, also dowry system. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. Parents support you after you tell them about real conditions. There will be best future married life.

If parents supports his/her likes and dislikes arranged marriage is good.

Hi friend, I'm Bipul Kumar it's my topic is love marriage. Everyone marriage has own their merit and demerit. In my opinion, Love Marriage is better than Arrange Marriage. Because girl and boy love can any condition spend their life and I doesn't say wrong arrange marriage. Arrange marriage is very important of human life and arrange marriage depends on Indian society. Both of you couple between mis understanding behavior.

Conclusion - Love marriage very beautiful, happiness, and its my suggestion is love marriage is very beautiful than arrange marriage.

I feel arranged marriages are better than love marriages. The way of loving is different but love exists in both marriages. For any relation to be successful first they need to understand each other. But parents and society mostly supports arranged marriages.

Both at times fails. Even arranged marriages sometimes lead to failure. So marriage is where both boy and girl adjust themselves and lead a happy life.