Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Atul kumar said:
9 years ago
There's a difference between true love and romantic love/attraction. Romantic love/attraction/infatuation needs sexual intimacy to stay alive. After some time this sexual intimacy starts to fade and both realise that the love is lost. They don't feel the same etc. But they have to realise that it was not loved from the very beginning. They just got attracted to each other. They always thought of being physical with each other but not realising it at the same time. Now, what's true love then? As Marilyn Monroe once said sex is opposite of love. In true love sex is secondary. You care for each other. You're not jealous. You're fighting but are never separate. You're at a comfort with each other. You know she/he will never cheat. You're always worried for your partner. So whether love marriage or arranged marriage. There has to be true love in it. Only then you can spend the rest of your life happily see after. Just like so many other love stories. But how to find true love. There's no answer to that. You meet new people and spend some time to know each other. And see if that definition of true love is there or not. Your inner voice tells you that he/she is the one. And it's not lust. So go after true love. Even if it takes time.
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Teju mahima said:
9 years ago
Hi friends, myself Teju Mahima.
According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we can understand the person feeling and also some many love marriage are successful in life with parents permission finally love is beautiful.
According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we can understand the person feeling and also some many love marriage are successful in life with parents permission finally love is beautiful.
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Puja said:
9 years ago
Puja.
I think both marriages are successful, because of their trust, understanding and compromise.
I think both marriages are successful, because of their trust, understanding and compromise.
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Aman patel said:
9 years ago
I agree with all my dear friends, according to me, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in case of love marriage. We know that the quality the behaviour and mentality of our life future life partner very well. We have to spend our life ourself with our life partner.
That's why I always suggest love marriage. Thank you.
That's why I always suggest love marriage. Thank you.
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Sudhir Mangnale said:
9 years ago
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in this two individual boy and girl can know very well before their marriage. It removes hindrances of religion, cast, color and creed, also dowry system. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. Parents support you after you tell them about real conditions. There will be best future married life.
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GOPIKA said:
9 years ago
If parents supports his/her likes and dislikes arranged marriage is good.
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Bipul Kumar said:
9 years ago
Hi friend, I'm Bipul Kumar it's my topic is love marriage. Everyone marriage has own their merit and demerit. In my opinion, Love Marriage is better than Arrange Marriage. Because girl and boy love can any condition spend their life and I doesn't say wrong arrange marriage. Arrange marriage is very important of human life and arrange marriage depends on Indian society. Both of you couple between mis understanding behavior.
Conclusion - Love marriage very beautiful, happiness, and its my suggestion is love marriage is very beautiful than arrange marriage.
Conclusion - Love marriage very beautiful, happiness, and its my suggestion is love marriage is very beautiful than arrange marriage.
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Kiranmai said:
9 years ago
I feel arranged marriages are better than love marriages. The way of loving is different but love exists in both marriages. For any relation to be successful first they need to understand each other. But parents and society mostly supports arranged marriages.
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Nive said:
9 years ago
Both at times fails. Even arranged marriages sometimes lead to failure. So marriage is where both boy and girl adjust themselves and lead a happy life.
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Sruthi sree said:
9 years ago
Hi friends,
ARRANGED MARRIAGE.
-- Arranged marriages are better than love marriages.
-- In arranged married life they have some understanding between them.
-- In olden Days the parents are sitting together and they talk each other family background.
-- For suppose the couple have any problem they met their parents and solve their problems and lead their life happily.
-- Before their marriage, they know the partners likes, dislikes.
-- And they have mutual understanding between them.
LOVE MARRIAGE.
-- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is a infatuation.
-- At that time what ever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.
CONCLUSION.
-- Many problems are in both married life. At last, I believe that arranged marriages lead more role from olden days onwards.
ARRANGED MARRIAGE.
-- Arranged marriages are better than love marriages.
-- In arranged married life they have some understanding between them.
-- In olden Days the parents are sitting together and they talk each other family background.
-- For suppose the couple have any problem they met their parents and solve their problems and lead their life happily.
-- Before their marriage, they know the partners likes, dislikes.
-- And they have mutual understanding between them.
LOVE MARRIAGE.
-- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is a infatuation.
-- At that time what ever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.
CONCLUSION.
-- Many problems are in both married life. At last, I believe that arranged marriages lead more role from olden days onwards.
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