Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Deepak Mandal said:
9 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage, couples are known very well each other. Love marriage is our aspects of life.
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Shalini said:
9 years ago
I just think arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. Because love marriage becomes failure after a small misunderstanding but a arrange marriage becomes long lasting. The main disadvantage of love marriage the couples know each other only as positively view not negatively view but in arrange marriage our family investigate all thing about bride/groom so that as my point of view arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. But some time love marriage also become successful and some time arrange marriage also become failure it totally depends upon the couples.
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Chinni said:
9 years ago
In my opinion, love and arranged marriages have the equal importance.
All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.
All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.
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Jack said:
9 years ago
The one who loves you and whom you love back.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
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Satyendra kumar said:
9 years ago
As for as the boot point is concerned love marriage vs arranged marriage. I'm in pros arrange marriage. According to my point of view, both are good as well as bad. Because that depends on the life partner but mostly new age boys and girls pros on love marriage. Because in the love marriage before a marriage you all know that about your life partner likes and dislikes etc.
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Sandy said:
9 years ago
I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage boys and girls they take the own responsibilities. And, I think this is the most important part of our life.
Taking the responsibility is not a small thing.
I strongly support love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Taking the responsibility is not a small thing.
I strongly support love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
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Jitesh said:
9 years ago
In my opinion, Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we can easily know about our life partner. Because understanding is too mandatory. Because it a most important step of our life. If you believe in arrange marriage. It's not a right way. Because we have to spend our entire life. I think in arrange marriage. We have to more sacrifice than love marriage. If someone highly educated than you. In that time, you'll have to face lots of problems. So it's my point of view.
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Meghana said:
9 years ago
Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
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Varaprasad said:
9 years ago
Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".
Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.
If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.
In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.
Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.
If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.
In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.
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Amy Dwivedi said:
9 years ago
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.
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