Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Reddy said:   9 years ago
In my view, Arranged Marriages is more better than Love Marriages. AM always make us more responsible that leads to life move forward in a blessed way and both partners work hard and without ego's for the bright features. AM also more secure bc we have lot of support from both bride& groom families.

In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
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Alka G said:   9 years ago
Hi, guys.

According to me, Arrange marriage is quite beautiful because two unknown people are involved in this relationship. And both families support this. And help the future husband and wife to understand each other. When these two people come together they start understanding each other very closely and slowly and I think this makes their relationship beautiful. And their interest in their partner slowly increases day by day. And this will make their marriage quite strong as compare to love marriage. Because in love marriage, the both people know each other already and after marriage, they will get bored and lost d feeling and interest in each other. So My point of you Arrange marriage is most beautiful and strong marriage which not only come two people together but also join two families together.
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Akash said:   9 years ago
From my point of view, love after marriage is good. In that case we can have our family with us.
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Monika pal said:   9 years ago
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but it depends on partners understanding.
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Sachin Jain said:   9 years ago
I strictly support arrange marriages every aspect as both pros and cons.
So as arranged marriages have a legal and a assurance of being marriage due to our family as it is a supported by our family with full acceptance but in love marriages, there is no support and it leads to breakups and divorces which not only break 2 persons but also families. There is one saying that. LOVE IS BLIND so one is attracted physically but not mentally which later lead to creating a cut off between them.
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Gayathri said:   9 years ago
Guys, According to me, love marriage or arrange marriage both depends on understanding and compromise between each other.
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Dan said:   9 years ago
I believe that there is no use of debating whether love marriage is better or arranged because both are good in their own ways and it depends from person to person and from family to family.

It is always good to know a person really well before we take a step ahead and get married which is a feature of love marriage. And since both of you know each other well there is a strong chance of sustenance. Again in arranged marriage, our parents choose our life partner depending on compatibility and status which is again important because there will be ego clash if we don't belong to the same status.

Both has pros and cons because in the case of love marriage couples get bored of each other easily since they know each other beforehand whereas in arranged marriage they get to know each other slowly and gradually and their marriage grows slowly. Again in love marriage, you know the person well before you take the plunge but in arranged marriage, since we don't know the person well, he/she might turn out to be someone else after marriage. This discussion won't end so we can conclude that it depends totally on the person involve in marriage and also LUCK.
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Jitendra baghel said:   9 years ago
Hello, friends, my name is Jitendra Baghel.

According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.

Thank you.
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Satish jetti said:   9 years ago
Boss, it's all about marriage with whom, and how she/he commits with you, either its love or arrange.

When people really can't understand each other, when they don't have personal space, then that relation never stands forever.

Here, we can say one thing.

Love or arrange. When people get married, they have to be with their partner. So, better love your partner, at least relationship remain strong.
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Tejaswini said:   9 years ago
In my point of view, both arranged and love marriages have the same role. In any marriage all we require is mutual understanding, mutual respect and loving each other, sharing their happiness and sadness and caring each other.

Support each other at any time of situation.

Finally, I want to say that either in love or arranged marriage which has love between the couple after marriage is the perfect. It looking like two persons but a single soul indicates a fabulous pair.
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