Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Aayanka pany said:   8 years ago
Hi, guys.

See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.
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Chandini said:   8 years ago
Marriage is an important step in everyone's life.

In my opinion, both love marriages and arranged marriages have equal importance.

Both the marriages have pros and cons.

In case of love marriage, you don't have enough maturity to choose the right person, you are in a stage of attraction, where everything good or bad seems to be right or you. Also if you marry the person without your parents concern, it effects their pride and dignity in the society. So, when you think you love someone just put your opinion in front your parents. They can judge who's good and best suitable for you.

Whereas, in case of arranged marriage it's a very daring step to marry a complete stranger. But the thing is that you need to have complete faith in your parents that they never make a wrong choice for you, they see the family, background, status everything and then they present guy/girl in front you.

Therefore, it all depends on you, to maintain a healthy relationship and happy life which is all concerned about understanding each other without ego's, commitment, person's space and honesty.
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Rohit said:   8 years ago
Arrange marriage is good because of marriage is not just becoming between 2 couples its becoming with 2 families. All family members have hope about to their child if you go out from their words means they won't do support is future.
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RAHUL SHARMA said:   8 years ago
Love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in these marriages there should be a better understanding in a couple.

They know each other.

But in Arranged marriage, boy and girl should not be a understand each other.

They understand each other after long time.

In arranged marriages, the families meet in same religion. But in love marriages there should be two cultures meet. Like if girl is belong to south Indian and boy belongs to punjab.
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Mohit saini said:   8 years ago
According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because if you do love marriage then it's not only of your choice it's of all your family members and how much you know if one person decide something then he is not always right but if many people decide something then many times it is right so I am with arrange marriage and we are also secured by both the families and in arrange marriage we don't have any problems if we have than many people are there to solve it.

Thanks.
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Reddy said:   8 years ago
In my view, Arranged Marriages is more better than Love Marriages. AM always make us more responsible that leads to life move forward in a blessed way and both partners work hard and without ego's for the bright features. AM also more secure bc we have lot of support from both bride& groom families.

In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
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Alka G said:   8 years ago
Hi, guys.

According to me, Arrange marriage is quite beautiful because two unknown people are involved in this relationship. And both families support this. And help the future husband and wife to understand each other. When these two people come together they start understanding each other very closely and slowly and I think this makes their relationship beautiful. And their interest in their partner slowly increases day by day. And this will make their marriage quite strong as compare to love marriage. Because in love marriage, the both people know each other already and after marriage, they will get bored and lost d feeling and interest in each other. So My point of you Arrange marriage is most beautiful and strong marriage which not only come two people together but also join two families together.
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Akash said:   8 years ago
From my point of view, love after marriage is good. In that case we can have our family with us.
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Monika pal said:   8 years ago
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but it depends on partners understanding.
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Sachin Jain said:   8 years ago
I strictly support arrange marriages every aspect as both pros and cons.
So as arranged marriages have a legal and a assurance of being marriage due to our family as it is a supported by our family with full acceptance but in love marriages, there is no support and it leads to breakups and divorces which not only break 2 persons but also families. There is one saying that. LOVE IS BLIND so one is attracted physically but not mentally which later lead to creating a cut off between them.
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