Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Pooja said:
9 years ago
Hi everyone.
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
Thankyou.
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
Thankyou.
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Allen said:
9 years ago
A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on weather arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As your going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.
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Bhupesh Kumar said:
9 years ago
Hi friends,
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
Thank you.
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
Thank you.
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Harry said:
9 years ago
Both marriages can be successful if two people are ready to accept each other without any demands and bias. But I personally believe Love marriage is better than Arranged marriage because In love marriage, the couple already have an understanding of each other and they are ready to live happily. Marriage is a compromise done by two souls who are ready to become a single soul. So, with proper understanding, love and affection, Love marriage will be preferred.
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Devendra sharma said:
9 years ago
Marriage is done to spend life easier for boy and girl. Life can be easier in arrange marriage as well as with love marriage. But it all depends on situation that will be formed after marriage. Arrange marriage is supported by our families and society whereas Love marriage is not. If support is beneficial then families guide them by their experience. If not there arises cases of DOWRY harassment cases.
So, both can be best or worst depends on situation.
So, both can be best or worst depends on situation.
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Aayanka pany said:
9 years ago
Hi, guys.
See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.
See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.
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Chandini said:
9 years ago
Marriage is an important step in everyone's life.
In my opinion, both love marriages and arranged marriages have equal importance.
Both the marriages have pros and cons.
In case of love marriage, you don't have enough maturity to choose the right person, you are in a stage of attraction, where everything good or bad seems to be right or you. Also if you marry the person without your parents concern, it effects their pride and dignity in the society. So, when you think you love someone just put your opinion in front your parents. They can judge who's good and best suitable for you.
Whereas, in case of arranged marriage it's a very daring step to marry a complete stranger. But the thing is that you need to have complete faith in your parents that they never make a wrong choice for you, they see the family, background, status everything and then they present guy/girl in front you.
Therefore, it all depends on you, to maintain a healthy relationship and happy life which is all concerned about understanding each other without ego's, commitment, person's space and honesty.
In my opinion, both love marriages and arranged marriages have equal importance.
Both the marriages have pros and cons.
In case of love marriage, you don't have enough maturity to choose the right person, you are in a stage of attraction, where everything good or bad seems to be right or you. Also if you marry the person without your parents concern, it effects their pride and dignity in the society. So, when you think you love someone just put your opinion in front your parents. They can judge who's good and best suitable for you.
Whereas, in case of arranged marriage it's a very daring step to marry a complete stranger. But the thing is that you need to have complete faith in your parents that they never make a wrong choice for you, they see the family, background, status everything and then they present guy/girl in front you.
Therefore, it all depends on you, to maintain a healthy relationship and happy life which is all concerned about understanding each other without ego's, commitment, person's space and honesty.
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Rohit said:
9 years ago
Arrange marriage is good because of marriage is not just becoming between 2 couples its becoming with 2 families. All family members have hope about to their child if you go out from their words means they won't do support is future.
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RAHUL SHARMA said:
9 years ago
Love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in these marriages there should be a better understanding in a couple.
They know each other.
But in Arranged marriage, boy and girl should not be a understand each other.
They understand each other after long time.
In arranged marriages, the families meet in same religion. But in love marriages there should be two cultures meet. Like if girl is belong to south Indian and boy belongs to punjab.
They know each other.
But in Arranged marriage, boy and girl should not be a understand each other.
They understand each other after long time.
In arranged marriages, the families meet in same religion. But in love marriages there should be two cultures meet. Like if girl is belong to south Indian and boy belongs to punjab.
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Mohit saini said:
9 years ago
According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because if you do love marriage then it's not only of your choice it's of all your family members and how much you know if one person decide something then he is not always right but if many people decide something then many times it is right so I am with arrange marriage and we are also secured by both the families and in arrange marriage we don't have any problems if we have than many people are there to solve it.
Thanks.
Thanks.
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