Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Mayank hooda said:   9 years ago
Friends, I am in favour of arranged marriage because in arrange marriage, our parents are with us but in love marriage, if we are doing something so doing on our own thinking.
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Rinku kumar said:   9 years ago
Hi to all, I am Rinku and now I'm going to allocate that which is better in b2n love and arrange marriage.

As per my view, the marriage types are not important but relationship are important to each other. If we ignore parents suggestion about the arrange marriage May be possible that to break relation between them. And if we agree with the parents, and if we love to anyone then there is also break the relation between lovers.

Both are situation are puzzling.

Most of the parents in our country support to arrange marriage because they think it will be better for us.

But most of the new generation support to love marriage because they fell in love. A Lot of lovers could not complete our willing due to custom, parents, job etc. Then they destroy our willing and press the thought of love and our lovely dreams That is they don't want to do it.

Love is not a bad thing and parents think always better for us. Therefore Both have importance for us. Change love marriage into the arrange marriage with satisfaction our parents.

Be happy with your lover and parents.
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Shrikant Vishvakarma said:   9 years ago
Hi friends my name is Shrikant Vishvakarma.

According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage arrange marriage is good and related our culture thank you.
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Ishan jangir said:   9 years ago
In arranged marriage, there is a support of parents. In love marriage, there is no responsibility of parents if any thing happens wrong it will go on a couple. So arrange marriage is best.
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MAYANK saurabh said:   9 years ago
I think it doesn't a matter friends that we go for love or arrange marriage. Most important thing in any relation is love, understanding, cooperation among two as well as family members too. Getting married seems to be a new life as someone is dependent on you now. So go for love or arrange marriage where you find this but make agree your parents.
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Aparna said:   9 years ago
Hello, friends.

Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.

No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.
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Gaurav bisht said:   9 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.
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Yaaridhu said:   9 years ago
Totally depends on who you are. While arranged marriages barely end in divorces, many love marriages do. Is that because love marriage is a stupid thing? Of course not. Most people just tend to handle it in a stupid way. If you wanna get married to someone you love, that's a beautiful thing. But when you plan to live the rest of your life with someone you love, you need to know them as more than just a sex partner. You need to learn to trust each other, to fully understand each other, to teach one another to responsibly and maturely handle children, cook, clean, run a household, pay the bills. Love carries away a lot of people from this necessary practicality, and thus problems occur, and they fight, and they break up. Now arranged marriage isn't as preferable, I mean you're getting married to someone you don't even know, but it's a strong commitment to your parents and relatives that you will live with this other person, and thus, breakups almost never happen, because it's the couple's responsibility to stay together. And it's also a great option for people who will probably have a hard time finding a legitimate girlfriend, like the guy writing this. Still, arranged marriages are less guaranteed to bring you happiness. So once again, it depends.
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Pooja said:   9 years ago
Hi everyone.

First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.

Thankyou.
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Allen said:   9 years ago
A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on weather arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As your going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.
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