Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Marriage is a sacred ritual in our Indian society its not only about bonding of two people it's about bonding of two families and cultures arranged marriage is the better one because in it the person who will become our life partner is chosen by our parents and our parents are our BEST WELL WISHERS and want to see us happy and if we take the examples of our parents and our relatives most of whom have done arranged marriages are living happily and successfully whereas if we see the current scenario relationship has become a part of style and trend rather than being based on true love which leads to complications pain and distress after the marriage so I think one should go with arranged marriage which is acceptable to all and keeps one's parents happy and content.

On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.

I think it totally depends on the person's choice. Whether he is compatible with his lover or the one his parents chose. It's completely ok if he loves a person. He can ask his parents and if they agree, it's well & good otherwise he will have to start new innings. But in this process, he ought not to blame his parents if something goes wrong.

It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.

I think whatever the marriage it is whether arranged or love the couples should be the matured ones. They should love each other care 4 each other but at the same time should let their partner have personal space.

If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.

What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.

In my point of view, arrange marriage is best for maintain relationship both. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both.

As per my view, anyone who has true lover is luckiest person in the world. He/she must marry him/her as they can't find better partner than that. So, from this context love marriage is better.

But today's generation's problem is that they they think making relationship is a fashion or style. So they somehow manage to make relationship but it may not be true love it may only be attraction, like friendship on Facebook leads to love without knowing him/her personally. Do you think that may be true love? That love doesn't last longer and gets fade away after sometime.

People who get married on this basis, get to know about their life partner after few years of marriage, and that leads to arguments and even divorce.

Furthermore, in most of cases, love begins with physical attraction and remains upto that, these types of love is also not going to give you anything except pain.

So conclusion is that love marriage is best when you get a perfect life partner otherwise arrange marriage is also good and they have their good points too.

Both marriages have their own advantages and disadvantages, and it should totally depend on a person which type of marriage he wants to do, which makes him happy.

The love marriage is easy to live the long life because couple already well knows about each other in spite in arrange marriage long time spend to identify one's nature and hobbies, as well as love marriage, begets more satisfaction and feeling of the succeed important part of life.

So love marriage is always reliable and friendship remains till last breath so life and every sphere of life easily steady and success by the couple.

Hello Everyone,

In My point of view, the person should arrange his marriage and in between, he has to love the person who's is going to marry her so the both understand after marriage to each other so I think first have to arrange the marriage and after do the marriage.

Love marriage or arrange marrige is both good with their own perspective. Only need to understand each other, have full trust on your partner which can led your marriage till life. Off course in these days young generation like love marriage so what's big deal if we have achieved our goal in life. I think no parents would check you to do so. As they are happy in our happiness.

I am in the favour of Arrange Marriages which can be a Love marriage. I mean to say Person can make love marriages to arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Nowadays, every parent wants their children goodness and 70% of parents can never refuse their children's choice.

Hello everyone.

According to my point of view,

Arrange marriage is best for maintain relation ship both. Arrange marriage are also permit by our parents I think parents plays best role in our life then why we avoid thinking about marriage. If they will agree love marriage then no problem but your parent are ignore for love marriage and you are doing love marriage it's not good for breaking hearts of our parents. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both. I think many when doing love marriage that women don't want and like his mother-in-law and fatherinlaw she want to live in single and different then the start problem breaking heart of parents.