Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that we can't let our life on future possibilities that after arranging marriage we will get mutual understanding, love, bonding, trust etc, etc. We are the generation who believes in the present. Even, the government gives us the liberty to take our decision by yourself after 18 and makes you independent so why don't our parents let us take our decisions by once own.

Love marriage is equally successful if both families like each other and they mutually accept their children's decision There is nothing wrong in love marriage. It's all about the mutal understanding.

Hello, Everyone! The Understanding between the partners is the basic and most important element for any kind of marriage to succeed whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. Obviously, in the case of Love marriages, one gets to experience and develop this attribute much before taking the most important decision of marrying the person and hence I would give slightly more marks to Love marriages.

But then in today's generation, people prefer to have pizza delivered to their home in 30 minutes rather than sweating a bit in cooking food by their own hands. And this lack of patience can be seen in other fields too including relationships. I know cases of separation between both kinds of couples, the ones who did Love marriages and also an equal number of couples who did arrange marriage. And this shows that in the end cooking the dish of relationship to its best flavour completely boils down to the blending of ingredients named as Trust, Patience, Understanding and Forgiveness.

I go for love marriage. But it doesn't mean that I m against arrange marriage. L prefer with this too. Actually, its depends on who you are, how you treat, how's your mentality opposite your love ones. You must be honest, loyal must have faith on your partner. Yes, I believe so that parent is our well-wisher but their point of views is not going right sometimes. So, it's up to our own.

I say that marriages are made in heaven only it's a love marriage or arranged if there is love, understanding, faith and bound then it's successful. And the other hand I agree on the viewer point of view. That in love marriage we know each other well and then get into a relationship Understand and then marry, nor to marry a person who is unknown and don't know anything about him or his fly so I feel choosing the person at right time for right choice to grow old with the person in sincere heart will have success.

Hello, friends.

This is Simran.

I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two unknown persons. I mean to say a person can make love marriage in arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Parents can never refuse their children's choice.

Marriage is a sacred ritual in our Indian society its not only about bonding of two people it's about bonding of two families and cultures arranged marriage is the better one because in it the person who will become our life partner is chosen by our parents and our parents are our BEST WELL WISHERS and want to see us happy and if we take the examples of our parents and our relatives most of whom have done arranged marriages are living happily and successfully whereas if we see the current scenario relationship has become a part of style and trend rather than being based on true love which leads to complications pain and distress after the marriage so I think one should go with arranged marriage which is acceptable to all and keeps one's parents happy and content.

On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.

I think it totally depends on the person's choice. Whether he is compatible with his lover or the one his parents chose. It's completely ok if he loves a person. He can ask his parents and if they agree, it's well & good otherwise he will have to start new innings. But in this process, he ought not to blame his parents if something goes wrong.

It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.

I think whatever the marriage it is whether arranged or love the couples should be the matured ones. They should love each other care 4 each other but at the same time should let their partner have personal space.

If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.

What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.

In my point of view, arrange marriage is best for maintain relationship both. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both.